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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
3/25/2018 1:53 pm
My Hunch was right!

No matter how I give love another chance, my gut feelings always prevail. The guy I was talking about the last time, he is a goner! He did not even want to be my friend anymore. So, there you go!...Now, can you blame me? I always have second thoughts about men who have history of not only having an ex-wife, but ex-wives at that..I mean, come on! If you made a mistake marrying the first time, why would you rush to marry the second one, and then, separate again, just like that?...And to complicate matters, you are out there, looking for another one, when legally, you're still married with the second one. Yup!...I found out that, he had not yet filed a divorce on the second wife, because they still share business, and it will be a lot of hassle if they legalize the separation. So, what would have I become if I allowed to be in a relationship with him? I would have been a mistress , for heaven's sake! Oh no! that would have been a total disaster! I did not grow old, waiting for a relationship just to be a mistress ! ...What I am saying is, it is always good to think things over, so many times, before jumping into a relationship. It is not a mortal sin to be single, and even if I stayed like that for the rest of my life, I won't miss a thing...I will stick to the old -fashioned "get to know each other" very well first, and don't be fooled by superficial kindness and generosity (yeah, he spoiled me with attention and gifts early on, but when I refused to be his girl, he didn't even want me to be his friend ). But look at me?....I am still joyfully single...Thank goodness!
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

3/25/2018 1:56 pm

 Oh, by the way, let me check my FB, he probably unfriended me..lolz.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

3/26/2018 4:23 am
    Quoting  :
Jane, Godwilling, I desire to stop working at the age of 60...There will be a decision as to whether to stay in the USA or go back home to the Philippines and just live a very simple, and yet comfortable life, without the hassle of having to confer with a "significant other" with whatever I needed to do, and wherever place to go. I guess, I am destined to be single for the rest of my life. Although I can go out with guys in a group..No Big deal!
Just call me ELZ


SailorSteveSails 58M
Ask me for a photo

3/26/2018 5:45 pm

 So, how did it go???


eb1209

3/27/2018 2:22 am

 HE IS GONE!!! Thanks for the visit
Just call me ELZ


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
3/30/2018 11:58 pm

 I think I am leaning into that , to be single forever. Maybe it is the best for me.
“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
3/31/2018 5:33 am

 you can be happy by yourself or lonely with a partner, it all depends on who and when , keep smiling


eb1209

3/31/2018 7:41 am
    Quoting Bizzysback:
    I think I am leaning into that , to be single forever. Maybe it is the best for me.
CHE, I think we are pretty ok the way we are. Not that we did not give it a try.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

3/31/2018 7:42 am
    Quoting ccdomonic:
    you can be happy by yourself or lonely with a partner, it all depends on who and when , keep smiling
Exactly my thoughts CC!
Just call me ELZ




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