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eb1209
23211 posts
2/8/2018 7:01 am
Maybe, It's All About Me After All....


Most people think that single women like me are very picky and are reluctant to be in a relationship again because the prospective men in question are not good enough or below the expected standards required. After all these years, 19 years as a matter of fact, of not having any romantic relationship, I came to realize that I have some fears due to my own inabilities, and fall-outs and my own sub-qualities as well. After all, I am not perfect. What I meant is, I've been afraid that I am not also able to meet the "usual" expectations of men from their partner as well. I know that I am not good (or inexperienced) and am not willing to do unconventional intimate acts in bedroom, and that makes me feel not confident. For that reason, when I meet someone who has most of the qualities I look for, but appears still has a good appetite in bed, then I back off....Now, you know more, as to WHY...So, this Valentine's Day? Zero again...


Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/8/2018 7:03 am

Oh Me! Oh My! I will face the Firing Squad again this Valentine's day!

Just call me ELZ


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
2/8/2018 9:15 am

be of brave heart take a deep breath and jump in
nothing ventured nothing gained
a whole world of love and companionship is waiting there for you

most men are not perfect either

well except me of course

keep trying cc


eb1209

2/8/2018 10:10 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    be of brave heart take a deep breath and jump in
    nothing ventured nothing gained
    a whole world of love and companionship is waiting there for you

    most men are not perfect either

    well except me of course

    keep trying cc
You are right, CC! Happy Valentine's Day To you!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/8/2018 7:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh Jane! I am almost there!

Just call me ELZ


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
2/9/2018 3:50 am

age is just numbers you can be old at 30 or young at 80
cc


eb1209

2/9/2018 5:11 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    age is just numbers you can be old at 30 or young at 80
    cc
You are right, CC!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/9/2018 5:13 am

    Quoting  :

Jane, I know of someone in Wisconsin who got married at age 80

Just call me ELZ


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
2/10/2018 2:40 am

fantasiamore i could but maybe prefer the 30yr old hahaha
most 80 yr olds are not interested in a young stud like me


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
2/12/2018 2:15 am

sometimes we have to play it both ways hahahah
you are as young as you feel or who you are feeling???


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
2/12/2018 3:33 am

well i do like nibbling ears
fingers see braille like
and tasting well that's a whole world in itself


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
2/15/2018 7:41 pm

Take the risk, take control and shape your destiny. What is the worst that could happen? Nothing you can't manage for sure.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
2/19/2018 4:21 am

better to have loved and lost than not tried at all


eb1209

2/19/2018 11:32 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    Take the risk, take control and shape your destiny. What is the worst that could happen? Nothing you can't manage for sure.
I am a scared kitten...You and others are right..I guess, I am in the wrong place of the world..The women I know who left, Mcallen, Texas found the love of their lives somewhere..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

2/19/2018 11:33 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    better to have loved and lost than not tried at all

Absolutely! I lost twice already...I don't think I would like to experience the 3rd

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
2/24/2018 7:18 pm

Elz,

Yes, can certainly relate. But, love is the greatest feeling in the world. Love of family and friends are enough.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

3/2/2018 3:46 am

    Quoting  :

Exactly my thoughts Jane

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

3/2/2018 3:47 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Yes, can certainly relate. But, love is the greatest feeling in the world. Love of family and friends are enough.
Good to see you here again , Tess. Thanks for the visit

Just call me ELZ