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Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME


eb1209
23211 posts
1/16/2018 6:41 am
Courtship And Rejection Nowadays

Where was I all these years? Am I stuck during the days when courtship was about men really making efforts to win the hearts of the apple of their eyes? When men still say " I LOVE YOU", and when men still wait a long time for women to say " I LOVE YOU TOO" ? Now, even the older men just give you hints, they give you flowers, gifts, or dine and wine with you, but that's about it.!!! Everything else is presumptive, and honestly?... I do not like it!... Part of the presumption is that you will not entertain others, even if there is no real score between the two of you.....Hmmmm?... Double I do not like it! .....And so, early on, I tell the guy, that I would like to remain friends with him, and I like us to be "that", and if that is not okay with him, he is free to go. Only then, I realized that the intention is not deep or serious. Or maybe things are really way different now. Maybe my expectations are still high, and the men move on faster....Still, I will not bend, just because...
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/16/2018 6:44 am

 I know, I am not perfect, and I am not really looking for a perfect guy...I just want a sincere person..
Just call me ELZ


flower_boy2014 40M
14 posts
1/16/2018 12:02 pm

 It takes awhile to find someone who is the right fit for you, and i do not know if it is right to say: "let fate be your guide".

I just happen to know that, these days: "Nice Men Sleep Alone"


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
1/17/2018 3:30 am

 be true to yourself alone its your life live it the way you want too
hugs cc


eb1209

1/17/2018 6:50 am
    Quoting flower_boy2014:
    It takes awhile to find someone who is the right fit for you, and i do not know if it is right to say: "let fate be your guide".

    I just happen to know that, these days: "Nice Men Sleep Alone"
I don't know which one really works...The fate or the personal choice...In my case, as of now, nothing works..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/17/2018 6:51 am
    Quoting  :
Jane, I am at a point where I don't even know what I want and need anymore..
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/17/2018 6:52 am
    Quoting ccdomonic:
    be true to yourself alone its your life live it the way you want too
    hugs cc
It is safe to say, I am comfortable the way I am right now..Just wondering how it feels if I had an official someone to be with, after almost 20 years
Just call me ELZ


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
1/18/2018 11:54 pm

 It's time to go with the flow, time has changed immensely. There are other ways than words , we have to learn to read between the lines. I believe older men have their reasons too, they may have been rejected or lied to. Action speaks louder that both men and women can see. If in doubt just ask. All the best Elz. He is there somewhere.
“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


eb1209

1/19/2018 3:07 am
    Quoting Bizzysback:
    It's time to go with the flow, time has changed immensely. There are other ways than words , we have to learn to read between the lines. I believe older men have their reasons too, they may have been rejected or lied to. Action speaks louder that both men and women can see. If in doubt just ask. All the best Elz. He is there somewhere.

thanks Che! And also thank you and Jane as well as the rest of FFF members who keep this bloglandia alive
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/20/2018 9:11 am
    Quoting  :
For me, you will always be the Queen of bloggers here. Just dunno why FFF does
Not include you in their active bloggers most watched list. Maybe your settings?
Just call me ELZ




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