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The Wake Up Call ......Lesson Learned, the Hard Way   You have seen his face here before. He was a High school classmate that I always get reunited with when I visit New York-New Jersey. I have not seen him for 2 years , and as I texted him about my plans to visit NYC again before the end of the year, he sent me a "sad face emoticon" What was that all about? "I wish I can see you without my GF getting jealous!" ...I knew that a few months ago, he was tagged by someone from FB and of course I saw that they were close enough to think that they were a couple, but that was just that. No Big deal! I was happy for them. And I asked him why would I be a threat to her? As shy as he is (or so, I thought he was), he admitted to me that the GF knows he had a huge crush on me.. I'm like-----What the ____!!!! , she knew something I wasn't even formally told, even though I felt it several times, and I was just waiting, and waiting, and waiting to be told!!!!!......Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!  exactly my feeling after the revelation.... I was stunned!!! And so, to get even with him, I reciprocated his boldness and honesty by telling him, " Well, too bad, had you told me right away, the feeling was mutual." There was a pause, I guess he was just as stunned as I was....We were very good at hiding our feelings and we are both very conservative....Hayz! Anyway, to make him feel better, I told him that we will remain very good friends no matter what, and if anything good that came out of the revelation; now, we both already know how we felt for each other, and life goes on...We are NOT breaking someone's heart just because.....Lesson learned... Just call me ELZ  |
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11/22/2017 7:53 am |
So, my advice to you ALL out there who are reading my blogs, PLEASE, TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE THEM, EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT SURE IF THE PERSON FEELS THE SAME (for MEN and I guess, WOMEN too), and NOT BE AFRAID of the consequences.... Wheeewwwww!!!  Just call me ELZ
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faint heart never won fair lady hugs
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11/22/2017 7:26 pm |
faint heart never won fair lady hugs Just call me ELZ
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i am sure he does[ and who could blame him but if he doesn't tell you how are you to know maybe you are better off without him better luck with your next guy hugs
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11/29/2017 6:24 am |
No, Tinkz, I cannot afford to break someone's heart (his present GF) just because we now both know that we had a crush on each other.. I will leave things the way they are right now, and find or continue to wait for my happiness..Just call me ELZ
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11/29/2017 6:27 am |
Ruttie, at least, now, you know how I feel..It is very sad, but I guess, we are not the only ones who experienced this...I hope the readers will also learn from this experience. Just call me ELZ
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11/29/2017 6:29 am |
i am sure he does[ and who could blame him but if he doesn't tell you how are you to know maybe you are better off without him better luck with your next guy hugs  Just call me ELZ
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1/20/2018 9:01 am |
my lovely kiddie sis, I will PM you his face. So happy to see you here in FFF. Thanks for the visit. Muwahs  Just call me ELZ
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