Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
Blogs > eb1209 > THE MANY FACETS OF ME |
Yes, I have been a Loser! I do not have a problem admitting...That I have been a loser..maybe more than a couple of times. As opposed to what others think about me, I do not always get whatever, whoever I want or like...or even love. Ironically, I have more courage accepting my defeat, than muscle the courage to tell somebody that I like him. Maybe, if I was good at doing the latter, maybe my life and love story may have been different...But there are many factors why things did not happen and are not happening. Sometimes, the things that we hoped to have but didn't, actually saved us from any catastrophic relationships, had they been. Some people believe in fate and destiny..Some people will tell you, you are your destiny...you have to make things happen...And so, why didn't they happen after all? I have high respect for people who did what they had to do, no matter how unconventional they are just to get the things and people that they want or like...But I also believe that not everyone gets the same results...But to assume about an outcome without trying is actually an act of cowardness...So then, another admission on my part...Yes, I am a coward...If it is a consolation for the reader of this blog, let it be known, that for so many years of being a single woman, I have learned to love my status, and not expect for something or someone to come anymore. I re-adjusted my lifestyle and accepted the fact that I happiness is not all about having a lifetime companion (it would be nice to have one), but making the most of what a single life has to offer...So far, I am aging gracefully...and gratefully...I may not have everything, but whatever I have, I truly treasure..I am blessed. |
|||
12/15/2016 7:00 pm |
I know, a lot of people are reading the blogs here in FFF, even though they do not leave comments...Thank you for at least viewing...I am sure, some of you can relate...
| ||
12/15/2016 9:53 pm |
Jane, what else can I say? I can only speak for myself. Even I, am wondering why a beautiful, talented, and loving woman such as you are is still single. Are we doomed to be such for the rest of our lives?
| ||
12/16/2016 2:28 am |
Exactly! There had been half- baked romance that looked promising from the start, that eventually turned unpleasant as time went on, that happened to me as well. What the heck! I dont need any of that
| ||
|
never give up just be more picky
| ||
12/16/2016 8:35 am |
never give up just be more picky
| ||
12/16/2016 8:35 am |
Picky* sorry
| ||
1/10/2017 6:12 pm |
Yes, Bestie...I think I have loved and lost "secretly" as well...what the heck..
| ||
|
You are not a loser, Elz. Those who took you for granted are the losers . Happy new year to you and thanks for making the blogsville alive again . Once in a while, someone comes along to put you on top of the world.
| ||
1/11/2017 3:28 pm |
You are not a loser, Elz. Those who took you for granted are the losers . Happy new year to you and thanks for making the blogsville alive again .
|
×
×