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eb1209
23211 posts
12/19/2013 8:28 pm
DO NOT MESS WITH ELZ...(The Yellow Rose of Texas)...!!!!



OMG!..I cannot believe this is happening! I received a PM from the wife of one of my male friends in FB, telling me that she and the guy (name withheld) had separated because of me..ME? Why ME?..Lordie, Lordie, innocent me, just being polite interacting with fe/male friends (even gays)..Well, anyway, I'd rather "copy and paste" what transpired (what the heck!..you can have wild guesses), just so, I make myself clear. I will re-name the woman scorn(ed) as Vilma, and the guy, Tirso...Here it goes: VILMA WROTE:"I know you're having fun communicating with my husband (TIRS lalo na ngayon na alam mong naghiwalay na kami and that's because of you,you are the main reason kung bakit kami humantong ng ganitong situation..kung kasabwat ka sa mga plano ng asawa ko isinusumpa ko kayong dalawa."

ME/ELZ: MS. VILMA...PLEASE DON'T TALK TO ME LIKE THAT..YOU DON'T KNOW ME. I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR HUSBAND. I JUST READ YOUR MESSAGE NOW BECAUSE I NOTICED I HAVE MESSAGES ON THE "OTHER" MAILBOX FROM PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO DO NOT BELONG TO MY FRIEND'S LIST...I AM SORRY THAT YOU FEEL THAT WAY. WHATEVER IS HAPPENING TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND TIRSO IS JUST BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU. MAG-IINGAT KA SA PANANALITA MO, AT BAKA ONE HUNDRED FOLD ANG KAMALASANG MARARANASAN MO DAHIL SA MALING PAMIMINTANG..GANYAN KA BA SA LAHAT NG MGA BABAENG KAIBIGAN NG HUSBAND MO? WHY? BAKA KAILANGAN MO LANG KASING MANALAMIN AT TINGNAN ANG MGA PAGKAKAMALI MO BILANG ASAWA. NI WALA NGANG BINABANGGIT SI TIRSO KANINUMAN KUNG ANO ANG PINAGDADAANAN NIYO...WALA KAMING PAKI-ALAM DIYAN...BESIDES, MS. VILMA, HINDI PA AKO NAUUBUSAN NG LALAKI..EH KUNG BINATA NGA, HINDI KO PINAPANSIN, ME ASAWA PA?..HINDI AKO HIBANG, AT LALONG HINDI DESPERADO...FIRST OF ALL, HINDI KO ALAM ANG KUWENTO NG MGA BUHAY-BUHAY NIYO...MAGKA-KILALA NA KAMI NI TIRSO, BAGO PA SIGURO KAYO NAGKAKILALA, KAYA KUNG INAAKALA MONG AKO ANG DAHILAN AT NAGKAKAGANYAN KAYO NG HUSBAND MO, EH DI DAPAT HINDI NA NAGING KAYO...KAMI NA LANG...ALAM MO IYON?...BABAE RIN AKO, AT AYAW NA AYAW KO NA MAKAPANAKIT AKO NG DAMDAMIN NG IBANG BABAE...TANDAAN MO IYAN...BAKA NAMAN SOBRA ANG PAGKASELOSA MO...WALA AKONG MAGAGAWA DIYAN...KUNG HINDI MAN AKO, MARAMING BABAENG KILALA SI TIRSO, BAKIT HINDI SILA ANG IYONG PAG-DISKITAHAN?..SANA INISIP MO MUNANG MABUTI BAGO KA NAKIPAGHIWALAY SA KANYA (O SINO BA ANG NAKIPAGHIWALAY, IN THE FIRST PLACE?). ANG BUHAY MAG-ASAWA HINDI KANIN NA KAPAG ISINUBO MO'T MAINIT, IYONG ILULUWA..AYUSIN NIYO IYAN...PASKONG-PASKO PA NAMAN...MAGSISI KA, AT MANGUMPISAL, PWEDE? ALAGAAN MO ANG ASAWA MO, PAGSILBIHAN MO, LAMBINGIN MO...HINDI PURO SELOS ANG PINAAANDAR MO. ..PERO, ITO LANG ANG MASASABI KO SA IYO, TUTAL, GUSTO MO AKONG ISUMPA DI BA?...O, SIGE, PAGBIBIGYAN KITA...KUNG TAMA ANG HINALA MO, MAMATAY NA SANA AKO...PERO KUNG MALI ANG HINALA MO..MAMATAY KA NA SANA?...NGAYON KA SUMUMPA AT MAMINTANG!...I DARE YOU!...I NEED FOR YOU TO APOLOGIZE TO ME...HINDI TAMA ANG MAMINTANG...AND BY THE WAY, KAPAG HINDI KA NAG SORRY SA AKIN BEFORE CHRISTMAS, ISUSUMBONG KO KE TIRSO ANG GINAWA MONG ITO...DEAL?


Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/19/2013 8:35 pm

And then, I went on: "MS. VILMA, I KNOW YOU READ MY MESSAGE..I GOT A RECEIPT FROM FACEBOOK...I WILL WAIT FOR YOUR APOLOGY..I DESERVE IT...NATURINGAN KA PA NAMANG GODLY.."

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/19/2013 8:37 pm

The Nerve! Ang kapal ng Mukha...Hmmpt! (mukha nga ba iyon? )

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/19/2013 8:40 pm

And I never heard from her again!...You see what jealousy can do to a person?..I mean, everyone can snoop around my profile and timeline, and you won't see me fooling around, specially with married/taken MEN!...Well, if the partners are jealous, too bad!..they should tie them (men) down!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:42 am

    Quoting  :

Ms. Marvelle, first of all, thank you for gracing my blogs...You know, my conscience is clean and clear, I do not communicate with the guy in private, NOT AT ALL! ..Whatever exchanges we have in public, (the most is just joking if anything more than intelligible open conversation/forum, nothing to hide...Now, if she is jealous because "he said something to her" that will trigger it, then, it's a different story...I understand how jealousy works, IT CONSUMES YOUR WHOLE BEING...I know how to be jealous, given the situation that really warrants it, but being JEALLOUS, JUST BECAUSE?....Dohhh!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:46 am

And quite honestly, I do not see anything wrong why married/taken men shouldn't have female friends too!...I mean, whoever said that once you're committed,YOU CANNOT TALK, INTERACT, ADMIRE,OR EVEN LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN IS IN A WORLD OF HER OWN...that's a PRISON CELL..

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/20/2013 1:50 am

Elz,

Oh my gosh!!! Ikaw pa ang bintangang??? She should find fault with herself. Kaya siya hiniwalay! The guy was not happy. Not blame her stupidity on someone else! We all know u. That's not your style. Sana she should have ample evidence before she attacked. Like clear evidence!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:51 am

    Quoting  :

I've heard some stories similar if not the exact way you wrote it here...But isn't it that in love, there is trust? if one is so insecure, then she and the husband should agree to have only one FB account (joint) or exclusive group/family account only...I see that kind of arrangements with friends here, and there's quite a number of couples who do that...I know, MEN are capable of being "dead-jealous" too!..But a "casual open and group exchanges? " ...Aww! come on!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:53 am

And the thing that really struck me is that SHE WAS SO ASSUMING!...She even assumed that "I know" that they're already separated...Golly!..Look, I hardly have time for my own personal business, how much theirs?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:55 am

And NO, she has NOT APOLOGIZED, and SHE HAS NOT ANSWERED ME BACK...but she knows, that I know that SHE ALREADTY READ "SEEN" MY MESSAGES as acknowledged by FB...Hmmp! ginawa pa akong tanga!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:57 am

sorry for the typos...I am still upset, guys!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 3:05 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Oh my gosh!!! Ikaw pa ang bintangang??? She should find fault with herself. Kaya siya hiniwalay! The guy was not happy. Not blame her stupidity on someone else! We all know u. That's not your style. Sana she should have ample evidence before she attacked. Like clear evidence!
But you are absolutely right, Tess!..NO CLEAR EVIDENCE AT ALL!...and just because most of my pictures in FB are "public", she just sees me there, all "propped up", and maybe, she's comparing herself, and wondering why her hubby likes to comment on my blogposts (which are normally GENERIC, anyway }, and then, she makes a conclusion...Doohhh!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 4:19 am

    Quoting  :

You know, Marz Joolz, naisip ko rin iyan..Being a Virgo, yourself, you know that we think the same way...If he wants his way out, all I am asking for is NOT AT MY EXPENSE!...Tahimik ang buhay ko, kahit na loveless, wala akong sinasagasaang tao, at lalong hindi ako MANG-AAGAW...Now, if the men happened to admire any part of my personality, I don't see anything wrong with that...Just because one is looking at someone's picture, he already committed "adultery"...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 4:25 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    You know, Marz Joolz, naisip ko rin iyan..Being a Virgo, yourself, you know that we think the same way...If he wants his way out, all I am asking for is NOT AT MY EXPENSE!...Tahimik ang buhay ko, kahit na loveless, wala akong sinasagasaang tao, at lalong hindi ako MANG-AAGAW...Now, if the men happened to admire any part of my personality, I don't see anything wrong with that...Just because one is looking at someone's picture, he already committed "adultery"...
Joolz, yun na nga ba ang sinasabi ko eh..I have had quite a bit of admirers from Pinas (Philippines) before, and I am sorry to say, that half of the time, I doubted the sincerity, coz I know, there is a BIG possibility that they will just use me as a PASSPORT to the USA..and exactly, I think, this is what happened to this couple...She apparently petitioned him from RP to Canada, and now that he is probably stable on his own, he wants his way OUT!...I honestly feel sorry for her, but I also give him the benefit of the doubt..Hindi na sigurong magawang ma-develop ang relationship, kasi, something is WRONG in the first place...or they started it the wrong way...Marami namang nagkakadevelopan na rin sa mga "arranged" marriage for visa/passport purposes...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 5:46 am

    Quoting  :

Exactly, Joseph...Exactly...but shouldn't she gather proof first before she even attempt to attack me like that? The thing is, you are not my friend in FB, Joseph, and you do not know as well, what's going on with us there...There you go!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 5:49 am

    Quoting  :

No, Joseph, I have to confront him as well, and then when this thing is over? He is outta my friend's list!..I will not allow anyone to use me like that, if he did...That is why, the fact that she did not answer me back...What does that mean? SHE JUMPED INTO CONCLUSION!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 5:55 am

    Quoting  :

But you know, Joolz, the fact that she's saying or believing that I was the cause of their separation "bothers" me...No couple, here, there, and everywhere should separate just because of wrong accusations. I would want for them to patch things up (if possible), if NOT, he should have the "balls" to tell her, (although truth may really hurt), that you know what?...the REAL REASON IS, I DON'T LOVE YOU (anymore, or never did, whatever!)...As simple as that!..But then, again...easier said than doen..After all, not too many men have the guts to say so...I dunno for what? for fear of "hurting" the other person, which in this case, she's hurt in that belief, anyway...What difference does it make? Just tell the truth!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 9:38 am

    Quoting  :

Naku, Joolz, marzie, dehins ko carry ang makipagbunong brazo...FACT FOR A FACT, you can spell it either way you want it...Kasi nga, babae rin ako, as in...That's why, I MAKE IT CLEAR TO ALL MEN WHO COMMUNICATE THEIR FEELINGS TO ME, THAT I WILL NOT ENTERTAIN ANYBODY WHO IS TAKEN, LEGALLY or OTHERWISE!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 9:40 am

    Quoting  :

Oh no! Charlie...I already made arrangements to other FFF female members to do the bending for you...(front and back)...I do not want to go overboard...Chiwawas!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 9:42 am

    Quoting  :

You're lucky, your TINKZ is very "secure"

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 9:43 am

    Quoting  :

She's nasa kangkungan or pancitan!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 9:45 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    nang dahil sa pag-ibig, tayo ba naging (asal) aso ...

    Nang dahil sa pag-ibig tao’y nagbabago
    Nang dahil sa pag-ibig nag-iibang anyo
    Kung mayroong pag-ibig sa bawat puso
    Mawawala ang galit sa mundo.

    ^_^

    *bow
Okay, Dimas: My TURN:.. Uhurrrrmmm!!...." I KNOW, I NEED TO BE IN LOVE.....I KNOW, I WASTED TOO MUCH TIME... ..I KNOW I ASK PERFECTION FROM THIS QUITE IMPERFECT WORLD...AND TRUE ENOUGH, I KNOW, THAT'S WHAT I'LL FIND...By Karen Carpenter..

Just call me ELZ


sunshiny_f 70F
1221 posts
12/20/2013 10:48 am

hello Elz and Tajools.. biglang nagspark sa bloglandia!.. In situations like what u have, ignore and warn.... and deal later!! ha ha ha ha...but dont waste too much time!

Some people have high level of insecurities so they are able to do things like that.. to confront other people, find fault from others and never see their own!

Let there be peace on earth.. and let it begin >>here!!
Merry christmas to both of you!!

Susan


eb1209

12/20/2013 11:14 am

    Quoting sunshiny_f:
    hello Elz and Tajools.. biglang nagspark sa bloglandia!.. In situations like what u have, ignore and warn.... and deal later!! ha ha ha ha...but dont waste too much time!

    Some people have high level of insecurities so they are able to do things like that.. to confront other people, find fault from others and never see their own!

    Let there be peace on earth.. and let it begin >>here!!
    Merry christmas to both of you!!

    Susan
Thank you Susan...I need a lot of that..PEACE, but I am the type who would like to DEAL with the SITUATION and find a RESOLVE, and then PEACE!...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:32 pm

    Quoting  :

at PESTE na rin, Jepoy!...YOU BET! you'll see those warning signs on Texas Roads, and thoroughfares!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/20/2013 1:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Iyan na nga ba Joolz, kapag nawawala ka sa circulation ng matagal-tagal, pati lyrics ng kanta, nakakalimutan mo na...

Just call me ELZ