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When It Becomes A Pattern, ...   , I assume, we all have one  ) is located higher than the heart for a purpose (not to disregard the heart, but to guide it). Prayers alone, won't do the work. We can pray all we want for the right person to come along, but if we continue to be stubborn and follow the pattern of the choices that we've made in the past (that didn't work), don't you think it's about time to change them? Besides, we have to bring/pull something down,(oh!oh!  , not that one!  ) and that includes our set of standards, ( I'm In! ), and our foolish pride, (oh yeah, don't we all want the next person to be BETTER, if not the BEST compared to the last one? ) But please, it's not limited to the physical attributes  Let's not forget to add a little bit of depth into that aspect...Remember the blondes!  Hahahahaha! AGUUUYYYY!  Just call me ELZ  |
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2/21/2013 8:46 am |
Wow! early bird si Mr. KFC!  Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 8:47 am |
Gaano ba kasi kalalim? baka naman hanggang sakong lang... You know, it's like asking HOW HIGH IS UP? Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 8:51 am |
Ganun na lang ba iyon? Wala na bang katapusang serye? Kaya nga, kung mauumpog din lang, dapat one time lang, pero malakas ang impact, para matauhan, kasi kung maliit lang ang bukol, uulit at uulit pa iyan eh..dahil, sasabihin : " Ay! chicken feeds lang iyan!"....Ooooppppsssss!  , Sorry, Manok! Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 8:57 am |
I'd like to add to that, Jane...Dealing with the choice is also two-way, because the way I see it, a relationship cannot work if one, alone, will be responsible to taking it to a higher level. It entails mutual effort and commitment and not just one expecting the other to live up to his/her own expectations...Kasi pag sinabi nating CHOICE, or the act of choosing, I assume, na one has already done his/her homework as to the kind of person the other is...It's not a matter of bahala na, and just cross the bridge when you get there. Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 9:00 am |
And by the way, another problem why most of us follow the same pattern, even if it's wrong is the ATTITUDE or BELIEF, that " HEY, LIFE IS SHORT, whatever it takes! whatever is the outcome, Just GO FOR IT! "..., I happen to be NOT that kind of person...or maybe, I should?  Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 9:02 am |
I actually am the type of " DO IT RIGHT, THE FIRST TIME " (Oh, sige na nga, pang 2nd, or the most, the 3rd time! ) Just call me ELZ
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Elz, Well i fit in those patterns(alam mo na). But, in your case it was that perfect love. Why did destiny step in to separate??? I beleive in this quote: God doesn't give you the people you want, he gives you the people you need. To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you the person you were meant to be." And the problem is when a relationship doesn't survive is because lacking of some that one didn't contribute. And at times you put in so much yet it's still not enought taken for granted. Unworthy of their love and they chose another. Just life. But, i'm taking heart what my dear friend told me last week. When the right love comes along you wouldn't even have to try to lift a finger. It's what God finally gave to you... Have a beautiful thursday  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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2/21/2013 1:03 pm |
And sometimes, the MEANS does not justify the END, but nevertheless, the effort has been made, thus, the wake up call.. , relevant or irrelevant...Only the good outcome is sincerely wished and hoped for..Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 4:19 pm |
I don't owe anybody any explanation, as the other person does not owe me one. My circle of "friends" is very limited, and I might just limit it more...in the days to come..If there was a misunderstanding, maybe the way things are presented is misleading. I stand corrected for the vague things I misunderstood...and whatever it is, at this point, I am no longer interested. I know now where I stand. If anything," if being protective is a crime, without any doubt, I AM GUILTY! "  Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 4:23 pm |
And by the way, this blog is not meant to strike anyone in particular...But if by any chance, me matamaan ako...It's just one of those facts in life... Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 4:31 pm |
Elz, Well i fit in those patterns(alam mo na). But, in your case it was that perfect love. Why did destiny step in to separate??? I beleive in this quote: God doesn't give you the people you want, he gives you the people you need. To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you the person you were meant to be." And the problem is when a relationship doesn't survive is because lacking of some that one didn't contribute. And at times you put in so much yet it's still not enought taken for granted. Unworthy of their love and they chose another. Just life. But, i'm taking heart what my dear friend told me last week. When the right love comes along you wouldn't even have to try to lift a finger. It's what God finally gave to you... Have a beautiful thursday ...But, I have learned to transform and now I really have to work hard not to get involved...coz' sometimes, It's Just Not Worth It!Just call me ELZ
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2/21/2013 5:27 pm |
When failures or mistakes always goes hand and hand with your choices i think thats the time to go back to the point of " if " which for me is a place of non action. Pwede pahinga muna so you can balance your awareness that is needed before decisions come forth.
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2/21/2013 6:52 pm |
even making a different choice is still a tough choice to make. you try to change the choices you make but its so very hard to change. but well you just have to keep going forward and work hard to change the pattern we fall into in life. oh by the way hi elz  
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2/22/2013 3:04 am |
Jane, I think it is very obvious that he is in the position of protecting someone he loves and cares about...So, now, he knows how I feel...I need not say more...Maybe, it's a break-even. Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 3:08 am |
When failures or mistakes always goes hand and hand with your choices i think thats the time to go back to the point of " if " which for me is a place of non action. Pwede pahinga muna so you can balance your awareness that is needed before decisions come forth. Meron naman din kasing iba na they heal fast if there's a quick replacement...kaya, ganun ulit...Parang exam din iyan, minsan, ilang beses nang nag-retake, pero kumbakit yung one, same question, mali pa rin ang sagot...Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 3:16 am |
even making a different choice is still a tough choice to make. you try to change the choices you make but its so very hard to change. but well you just have to keep going forward and work hard to change the pattern we fall into in life. oh by the way hi elz Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 8:41 am |
Hard headed- Tigas ang ulo. Some day when hit hard enough, it will be a wake up call.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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Tess, you're a very sweet lady, who is sometimes "needy" and give your all. No one can take away the way you look at life and love. If you hear me grumbling and giving you unsolicited advices, it's because I somehow got tired of seeing you being hurt again and again..Nakakapanglambot din eh...I guess, this is my personality too, that I CARE SO MUCH FOR MY FRIENDS, eh, natural ko din yun eh! ...But, I have learned to transform and now I really have to work hard not to get involved...coz' sometimes, It's Just Not Worth It!Your a great and wonderful lady who gives 101% of your love too. Kaya nga when i was posting the first time it got deleted coz trying to copy and paste from FB to here. My first thought was the great love of your life the Doc!!! When you told us how he was so loving and gave you those roses and ring. Bakit for the life of me had to end. Wala na bang happy ending for everyone here who'se gotten scarred by love??? What are we doing wrong??? Lets say per se we changed our thinking because true nga di ba when they say if u keep doing the same thing will get the same result. Until it changes and voila!!! Just why in my case, two men showered me, and this last one i showered him??? I'm totally confused as ever in this thing called love!!! I know it hurts all my friends to be in the dumps again. But, always very thankful for everyone and especially you giving to me straight in your own way... Happy friday  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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2/22/2013 7:52 pm |
But it's TRUE! Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 7:54 pm |
Hard headed- Tigas ang ulo. Some day when hit hard enough, it will be a wake up call. Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 7:55 pm |
Awwww! Mr. KFC...I'm happy that I make you laugh... Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 7:57 pm |
Elz, Your a great and wonderful lady who gives 101% of your love too. Kaya nga when i was posting the first time it got deleted coz trying to copy and paste from FB to here. My first thought was the great love of your life the Doc!!! When you told us how he was so loving and gave you those roses and ring. Bakit for the life of me had to end. Wala na bang happy ending for everyone here who'se gotten scarred by love??? What are we doing wrong??? Lets say per se we changed our thinking because true nga di ba when they say if u keep doing the same thing will get the same result. Until it changes and voila!!! Just why in my case, two men showered me, and this last one i showered him??? I'm totally confused as ever in this thing called love!!! I know it hurts all my friends to be in the dumps again. But, always very thankful for everyone and especially you giving to me straight in your own way... Happy friday Just call me ELZ
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2/22/2013 8:00 pm |
someone with a handle of winnie_thepooh apparently wrote a comment on this blog, but since his profile is OFF, I won't be able to read it.. Just call me ELZ
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Hay naku, Tess, if someone like him will come again into my life...I don't care if it becomes my pattern..It's all WORTH IT!..I've never been loved by anyone that way... No second guessing if you are fortunate to have that same man again. Priceless yung mga men na ganoon!!! Happy weekend Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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2/23/2013 8:44 pm |
Yun na nga NElz, eh..Baka lambutis na...nyahahahahahaha! Hala! Just call me ELZ
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