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eb1209
23211 posts
6/28/2012 5:41 pm
Bursting Your Bubbles....



We all have our dreams, illusions, and maybe delusions, and at times, we "live" those as if they're real, until someone has the courage to burst our bubbles...And how do you feel about it? Are you normally angry? or do you pinch yourself to see if indeed, reality set in? I know, if it's about love and you're already building castles in the air, or if someone tells you that your partner (whom you've always adored and believed to be the perfect person who won't do anything to tarnish his image or ruin your relationship) is having an affair with someone, more than likely, you will be in DENIAL. For how long? we don't know. We have the tendency to treat our dreams and whims like bubbles...so colorful, so delicately enclosed and protected, and so beautiful. We don't want those bubbles to pop and disappear...But life full of illusions, is not healthy, because, more than likely, it will self-destruct or someone, sure will burst it...Now, do you want to continue living that kind of life or do you want to get real? Here, please, let me SLAP you hard! Wake Up!


Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/28/2012 9:06 pm


Great piece!!! A reality check up . Apropos, do you know someone in this situation?. Let me slap her too


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


LadyEros 49F

6/29/2012 1:32 am

2 thumbs up for this one

Now I know who I'll approach when I think I need a reality check,
just don't slap me too hard!


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/29/2012 5:12 am

ELZ,

I'm not bursting anybody's bubbles, just want to wake up with real friends and shake hands or kiss rather than slap..

Signing back. Hi missy!!!


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
6/29/2012 5:56 am

Elz,

Happy friday!!! Why didn't u slap me silly that time!!! I was in lala land. My gosh. It was so real for me only. I'm glad reality bites big time...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:11 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Great piece!!! A reality check up . Apropos, do you know someone in this situation?. Let me slap her too

do "WE" know someone in this situation "here" ?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:13 pm

    Quoting LadyEros:
    2 thumbs up for this one

    Now I know who I'll approach when I think I need a reality check,
    just don't slap me too hard!
I think, we all need a reality check from time to time, , coz, we do have the tendency to BELIEVE in things and situations the way "WE WANT" them to be.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:16 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    I'm not bursting anybody's bubbles, just want to wake up with real friends and shake hands or kiss rather than slap..

    Signing back. Hi missy!!!
Ahhhh! Thet! you've been missed here for a while now...I guess, you're having too much of a good time with PAPU

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:18 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Happy friday!!! Why didn't u slap me silly that time!!! I was in lala land. My gosh. It was so real for me only. I'm glad reality bites big time...
Okay, Tess, since you brought that up..Lemme tell you this: During that time, I actually didn't just want to slap you...I wanted to k_ll you! ...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Is there really such a thing as "balanced" thinking, reasoning,acting, etc?...I guess, that's the reason why we "screw up"...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Bestest Friend, I have no doubts that you've been enjoying your "bubbles" , you know that kind of bubbles that hide the "naked" truth? huh?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Hehehehehe! Migz, ikaw ha? hmmm? with whom?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/29/2012 4:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahahahaha! playing safe ka ha? which is good...But you are right, I wouldn't meddle in anybody's life specially if I am not close to that person, because that is REALLY MINDING OTHER PEOPLE's BUSINESS!

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
6/30/2012 8:34 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Okay, Tess, since you brought that up..Lemme tell you this: During that time, I actually didn't just want to slap you...I wanted to k_ll you! ...
Elz,

Happy good morning from Caly. I was totally baliw sa pagibig. If ever one person was so obsessed that was me. Good thing God saved me to see the real truth. Kahit na it hurts so much...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

6/30/2012 8:50 am

    Quoting  :

Yeah, and Just "Let It Rip" !

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

6/30/2012 11:57 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Happy good morning from Caly. I was totally baliw sa pagibig. If ever one person was so obsessed that was me. Good thing God saved me to see the real truth. Kahit na it hurts so much...
And Tess, always remember that GOD helps those who help themselves...We cannot give all that responsibility to GOD...HE is tired and OLD...lolz..

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/1/2012 9:40 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    And Tess, always remember that GOD helps those who help themselves...We cannot give all that responsibility to GOD...HE is tired and OLD...lolz..
Elz,

Naman, all i know is he loves us all no matter what. And he doesn't judge or redicule us in fb. All a learning process for me. To love without limits and a compassion for someone really sick and don't want to apak. Learning the rule if u really love someone wag na wag mo saktan. Happy sunday...u made me laugh God is not old. But, wiser and truly shows that love is unlimited and accepts all.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

7/1/2012 11:01 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Naman, all i know is he loves us all no matter what. And he doesn't judge or redicule us in fb. All a learning process for me. To love without limits and a compassion for someone really sick and don't want to apak. Learning the rule if u really love someone wag na wag mo saktan. Happy sunday...u made me laugh God is not old. But, wiser and truly shows that love is unlimited and accepts all.
Hehehehe...Tess, I think I will add something to your signature here..."Love, I welcum you with opern arms...and legs! "

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/1/2012 11:19 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hehehehe...Tess, I think I will add something to your signature here..."Love, I welcum you with opern arms...and legs! "
Elz,

Naman, ha!!! Totally closed na yan!!! Hahahhaaa u make me laugh big time!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
7/3/2012 7:15 am

c'mon people! give those people a break ...i mean, love is not an intellectual choice (relationship is )...same as anger or other feelings, you can't help it someone who's in love starts being delusional and starts fantasizing in the net...same as in the real world, if one can experience pain in here, why not love?...it's so real then!...so are the by-products

illusions, delusions, fantasies, wishes, hopes...whatever...they won't harm really...just be careful with what you do online...i mean, if you can't teach or advice your own kids to do the things you do online, then maybe it's wrong or shameful...so whatever justification you put into it, something that won't make you proud if your own kids do it shouldn't be done to hold on to an illusion...



This is ME...I don't need your approval...