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eb1209
23211 posts
1/22/2012 4:03 pm
How Could You? How Dare You! (Real Life Drama)



She's lovely, she's lonely, her heart had been broken, and she's vulnerable. You said, you wanted to give her company, help her mend herself until she's whole again. She appreciates you, she needed you, until she loved you. And you made her believe that you felt the same way? She gave herself fully to you and that's because you led her on. Yes! YOU LED HER ON!..But deep inside you, you are not really into her. She's just someone you've learned to USE, whenever you feel like, when you suddenly have the urge, when the nights are cold, and you needed that human blanket. And then what? You continue to play around with others. What the heck!...the more, the merrier!

DISGUSTING! How could you? How dare you!...You have not even thought that it can happen to your loved ones (sisters, daughters, and relatives). What do you care? According to you, "she asked for it, and I just gave it to her. NASARAPAN DIN NAMAN SIYA ah!" What the F* What an A-hole!...Please get out of my face. I don't wanna see your ugly face again. I cannot respect you anymore. Why should I? You don't even know the word.
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The above scenario can happen to anyone. Which is why I guard my heart this much. You don't know who to trust anymore other than yourself. I know, most of you will say, "It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all."..Yeah, right! I can love someone without having to be loved back. I'd rather be a lonely loser than a miserable lover. If only there's more honest and faithful men out there, If only there's someone who is willing to be a partner for life, in the true sense of the word. Then, maybe.....Maybe....

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/22/2012 5:27 pm

Elz,

Too common drama of reality. The lonely prey and desperate. To those a------. In love when the heart is thinking that's when it gets into trouble. Men just wanna use a women who's so into him. They know every trick in the world...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

1/22/2012 6:23 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Too common drama of reality. The lonely prey and desperate. To those a------. In love when the heart is thinking that's when it gets into trouble. Men just wanna use a women who's so into him. They know every trick in the world...
And that is very sad, Tess...I really lose respect on men who are doing this...

Just call me ELZ


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
1/22/2012 7:52 pm

Just have to weed out the sour apples....


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


eb1209

1/22/2012 9:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Ahh! Jane...That's why I've been labeled difficult and picky...PAKIPOT!..I know what I want, and I am not a good risk-taker. Been through good times, then bad..twice...I don't want a 3rd one. It's gonna finish me off..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/22/2012 9:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Racquel, sweetie, I've heard of women players as well, and most of the time, they really create a big hole in men's pockets, then leave them. I have had the opportunities to take advantage of them, but I didn't. I cannot stomach being "intimate" with men without any emotional attachment..It's a yuck!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/22/2012 9:07 pm

    Quoting  :

And I don't blame you MIGZ...neither do I..I'd rather that they drool over me, than feast on me, and leave me...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/22/2012 9:07 pm

    Quoting racerx428:
    Just have to weed out the sour apples....
I'll take sour apples over "rotten eggs" anytime...lolz..

Just call me ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/22/2012 10:08 pm

ELZ,

You can't easily give respect, somebody has to earn it. You can't have respect unless you deserve it. After any failed relationship, how can you ever imagine giving it to the one that quipped "nasarapan din naman sya..." That line should be deleted and so's the one that said it. Kaput!


ajaw430 54F

1/23/2012 2:11 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Racquel, sweetie, I've heard of women players as well, and most of the time, they really create a big hole in men's pockets, then leave them. I have had the opportunities to take advantage of them, but I didn't. I cannot stomach being "intimate" with men without any emotional attachment..It's a yuck!
Elz, you know, hindi naman sa pagtaas ng bangko pero I`m lucky that most of the guys I got to know are really good ones, some are very respectful na sa noo lang talaga humalik!
I never took advantage of them too ..I believe in karma so pagbalik sa akin, siempre gusto ko good karma di ba? Anyway, I can`t imagine having intimate relatioship with someone and without feelings, di gamitin ko na lang ung machine ko, safe pa!


ajaw430 54F

1/23/2012 2:13 am

    Quoting  :

Eto na bang bago nating federasyon?


ajaw430 54F

1/23/2012 2:34 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    You can't easily give respect, somebody has to earn it. You can't have respect unless you deserve it. After any failed relationship, how can you ever imagine giving it to the one that quipped "nasarapan din naman sya..." That line should be deleted and so's the one that said it. Kaput!
Theta, I agree with you sis., respect and trust is earned gradually and once that`s broken, hirap ng ibalik, parating may doubt na kahit man magsabi ng totoo.


eb1209

1/23/2012 3:19 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    ELZ,

    You can't easily give respect, somebody has to earn it. You can't have respect unless you deserve it. After any failed relationship, how can you ever imagine giving it to the one that quipped "nasarapan din naman sya..." That line should be deleted and so's the one that said it. Kaput!
Correct, Thet! And it's very sad that we happen to know people who are like this, and they do not heed to our advices... A lot of Pinoys over here in the valley prey on this kind of vulnerable women...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/23/2012 3:22 am

    Quoting  :

Hahahahaha! my friend, para mo na ring sinabing Beeeeeeehhhh! Buti nga sa iyo!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/23/2012 3:24 am

    Quoting  :

Dolly, dear, WELCOME BACK! We missed you!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/23/2012 3:25 am

    Quoting ajaw430:
    Theta, I agree with you sis., respect and trust is earned gradually and once that`s broken, hirap ng ibalik, parating may doubt na kahit man magsabi ng totoo.
MISMO! kahit na kakilala mo lang ang gumawa niyan, parang nakakawalang ganang pakisamahan... Para na ring ginawa sa iyo..

Just call me ELZ


Kissey_Anne 48F

1/23/2012 11:24 am

akala ko kung ano na muntik na ako ako atakehin sa puso ...naku pag ganyan ang lalaki mag-aral ako mangkulam

Walk with me through the rain


Kissey_Anne 48F

1/23/2012 11:27 am

to whom it may concern:
Remember this....
A woman brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one.


Walk with me through the rain


Kissey_Anne 48F

1/23/2012 11:29 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Too common drama of reality. The lonely prey and desperate. To those a------. In love when the heart is thinking that's when it gets into trouble. Men just wanna use a women who's so into him. They know every trick in the world...
agree ako sa sinabi mo Te..

Walk with me through the rain


jane82 110F

1/23/2012 5:34 pm

It's a sad reality. If only there are more men who would treat women right with respect and vice-versa. And even then there are so many things to add to make a good blend.

Just popping to say good night.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/23/2012 6:17 pm

Anne,

Thanks, been there quite a few times already. Experience is the best lesson...'te

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

1/23/2012 7:04 pm

    Quoting  :

I wish I have that courage, Jane...I just feel that at my age right now, my options are way too limited..My comfort comes first, more than relationships that'll give me headaches...I don't need it anymore..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/23/2012 7:06 pm

    Quoting  :

I second the motion, Smiley, Dahlen...Mabuti na siguro ang maburo, kesa maloko at madenggoy pa...Hahayz! at least, me pinagkatandaan tayo...nyahahahahhahaa!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/23/2012 7:09 pm

    Quoting Kissey_Anne:
    to whom it may concern:
    Remember this....
    A woman brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one.
Naku, Anne, pag me pagka phylosopo ang mokong, baka sabihan pa tayo ng ungas na "sino naman ang nagbuntis sa woman na iyan, aber?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/23/2012 7:11 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    It's a sad reality. If only there are more men who would treat women right with respect and vice-versa. And even then there are so many things to add to make a good blend.

    Just popping to say good night.
Thanks for the visit, Janey! I do hope you slept well, with your human blanket in tow... Muwah!

Just call me ELZ


Kissey_Anne 48F

1/24/2012 11:57 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Naku, Anne, pag me pagka phylosopo ang mokong, baka sabihan pa tayo ng ungas na "sino naman ang nagbuntis sa woman na iyan, aber?
te pag sinabihan ako harap-harapan ng ganyan titigbasin ko na lang siya

Walk with me through the rain