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drunken_angel 38F
455 posts
2/1/2006 3:58 pm

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3/5/2006 9:28 pm

Some more realization...

I realized that people put their hopes too much on hope. No matter how bleak future presents itself, we still hope that things would work out the way we want it to be. Perhaps we are such inately optimistic beings.

On the other hand, no matter how much we tell ourselves not to regret things because it's such a waste of time, we still consciously or unconsciously regret things. I realized that to regret something is not really that bad. For things you can't do anything about, for things that are beyond repair, for things that are intrinsically regretful, its ok to regret them. Its one of coping's phases. At least you can tell yourself that you were able to accept the tradegy of the things that came your way. And you were able to do something about it.


KYLAN1963 61M
890 posts
2/2/2006 7:06 am

>Hope may not be a tangible reality,but the prospect of it keeps cancer patients and other terminally ill people alive through each new day. For me,the hope of wars end,even though no hope and faced with extinction kept the men,women and children alive up to the bitter end in East Timor. I waited nearly 20 long years.
>Hope substains you whether war,health or love....if you simply roll over and die,then you have already lost. Don't ever regret hope as it is one of our greatest helpers.


twent47blue
(Marion )
56F

2/2/2006 8:13 am

You're one of the nicest people here in FFF and one who knows what life is all about. I like your views, so please let me take this opportunity to invite you to join my groups, Scribble Blues and Siren Songs. I know you would be a valuable asset to our groups,your kind words inspires me. Hope to see you there.


ElekRichteris 44M

2/2/2006 11:44 am

I guess it's actually not regret... just a kind of reminiscence whereby you feel regretful but not really regretting... what do you think lilprecious?


drunken_angel 38F
430 posts
2/2/2006 5:35 pm

    Quoting KYLAN1963:
    >Hope may not be a tangible reality,but the prospect of it keeps cancer patients and other terminally ill people alive through each new day. For me,the hope of wars end,even though no hope and faced with extinction kept the men,women and children alive up to the bitter end in East Timor. I waited nearly 20 long years.
    >Hope substains you whether war,health or love....if you simply roll over and die,then you have already lost. Don't ever regret hope as it is one of our greatest helpers.
TANGIBLE or intangible reality..what reality is the reality that brings us the feeling.. of giving whatEver we are capable of giving...EVEN in despair.. way far from the topic I wrote noh


drunken_angel 38F
430 posts
2/2/2006 5:38 pm

    Quoting twent47blue:
    You're one of the nicest people here in FFF and one who knows what life is all about. I like your views, so please let me take this opportunity to invite you to join my groups, Scribble Blues and Siren Songs. I know you would be a valuable asset to our groups,your kind words inspires me. Hope to see you there.
It is honor to have another invitation. If I find my time is manageable ..then I will surely join and make everyone miserable..hahaha... thank you..


drunken_angel 38F
430 posts
2/2/2006 5:40 pm

    Quoting ElekRichteris:
    I guess it's actually not regret... just a kind of reminiscence whereby you feel regretful but not really regretting... what do you think lilprecious?
I believe it is your opinion.. then.. I have no comment about that... I respect whatever you say my Elek... hehe.. I mean someone else's Elek..hehe


KYLAN1963 61M
890 posts
2/3/2006 2:30 pm

    Quoting drunken_angel:
    TANGIBLE or intangible reality..what reality is the reality that brings us the feeling.. of giving whatEver we are capable of giving...EVEN in despair.. way far from the topic I wrote noh
Hmmmm,accepted. My thoughts are clouded...so I reply as best I can on topics affecting me,perhaps from a 'me-centric' point of view. I will have to be more carephil..and think clearly. Thanks May anyway.