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eeb1209 64F
54 posts
12/2/2020 11:33 am
RESPITE FROM FB.....



I just turned OFF or deactivated my FB account yesterday, the 1st of December, and I intend to come back, next year. I have had enough of my relatives and some friends' ranting about how difficult life had been during this pandemic. I also have some ill feelings about my folks back in the Philippines, who are supposed to take care of my Mom who has Alzheimer's disease, and my brother (the 3rd) who has a terminal prostate cancer. It's been a very tough year for me, even at work. I cannot retire yet, because I still have to take care of the expenses in the Philippines. I would really love to retire early now, but honestly, the money I will get from Social security and 401K is not enough to support a comfortable life for me and my family for the rest of my life, unless, I invest into a business that is guaranteed to earn enough to support me. But as the saying goes, "GOD WILL PROVIDE." I am just waiting for His guidance, and clear signs for my next move. I also intend to cut the cords from some people who are not very significant in my life, but they serve as parasites as well. This Christmas, I already informed my sister who is in charge of the finances back home, that after 30 years, Christmas cash gifts will be minimal and not everyone who used to receive from me will get it. They have been so spoiled and feeling so privileged. I have to take care of my future too, now that I am officially a "senior citizen", and cannot rely on anyone except myself to provide for my needs. My only lost his job from the major airlines, Emirates. He did not expect that. No one expected that he will be one of the 11,000 cabin crews, and pilots to be let go (retrenched). He is still processing the loss, and obviously, he is so devastated. He loved traveling around the world, and he loved the lifestyle. Now, all of that is gone, and it will take 4-5 years for the Emirates Airlines to recover. And for sure, they will hire younger crews who are cheaper. Good thing, he is a US Registered Nurse, something he can fall his back into. But he is not as dedicated of a Nurse like me. He just finished the course because he had to finish a college degree. For now, he is jobless, and he plans to look for another job in Dubai, next year, and if he couldn't find one that suits him, then, he will return in the USA and go back to Nursing. I urge you all to please pray for him and for me. I am not feeling too good this year, myself. Going to work these days gives me a heavy heart, because I also fear for my safety. Praying that this nightmare will be over. Take care everyone!

eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/2/2020 11:38 am

I can use the respite time by cleaning my closets, and redecorate my humble house. At least, I will be more productive other than work.


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/2/2020 12:20 pm

The pandemic is a great toll to many. Little have been spared from it. My daughter in law here didn't get retrenched and pay also didn't diminish despite less working hours. Since my son was schooling on a trade course prior to pandemic, he didn't get affected as much but was on government support during the months he studied. He got hired fortunately after his graduation and at the time lock-down got announced. Although he continued working, these days, his overtime pay got reduced because his company reduced expenses and also retrenched some of its people. He was fortunate to have been retained. Thanks to the Lord. On my part, I used to earn money working on surveys online and earned enough to buy what I want but when plenty of persons lost their jobs. my survey earnings got minimal with the entry of more respondents doing the surveys.
I keep praying everyday that our Philippines and countries all over the world, recover as soon from the pandemic so people may also have normal lives and go back to earning a living, pre-covid days. I will also include you in my prayers.


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/2/2020 3:44 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    The pandemic is a great toll to many. Little have been spared from it. My daughter in law here didn't get retrenched and pay also didn't diminish despite less working hours. Since my son was schooling on a trade course prior to pandemic, he didn't get affected as much but was on government support during the months he studied. He got hired fortunately after his graduation and at the time lock-down got announced. Although he continued working, these days, his overtime pay got reduced because his company reduced expenses and also retrenched some of its people. He was fortunate to have been retained. Thanks to the Lord. On my part, I used to earn money working on surveys online and earned enough to buy what I want but when plenty of persons lost their jobs. my survey earnings got minimal with the entry of more respondents doing the surveys.
    I keep praying everyday that our Philippines and countries all over the world, recover as soon from the pandemic so people may also have normal lives and go back to earning a living, pre-covid days. I will also include you in my prayers.
Thanks Jane. Likewise here, praying for you and everyone, including those I do not know but who truly needed everything they could to survive. Canada has very good benefits, that I know of. Take care always. See you here.


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/2/2020 9:46 pm

I am just trying to post a comment using my celfone. It is hard to go to blogs sextion using this gadget as compared to using the laptop.


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/2/2020 10:23 pm

eb1209


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/2/2020 10:28 pm


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/2/2020 10:33 pm

I don’t understand. On FFF member handle cache’ , my former handle no longer exists, but if I type it here, my photo on that profile name still appears. What a glitch! And FFF technical support cannot fix it !


laogui32 78M
67 posts
12/3/2020 2:51 am

@eeb1209 I confirm eb1209 no longer exists.!

When I log in as eb1209 with your passwords anokaba or nakakainis or leche It doesn't let me in, nor will it send me your correct password - it replies Paumanhin, hindi namin makita ang "eb1209" sa pag-login database
Biro lang - and it confirms your previous name has gone


laogui32 78M
67 posts
12/3/2020 2:54 am

... but if you search blogs for the name eb1209 it show both eeb1209 and eb1209


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/3/2020 2:57 am

    Quoting laogui32:
    @eeb1209 I confirm eb1209 no longer exists.!

    When I log in as eb1209 with your passwords anokaba or nakakainis or leche It doesn't let me in, nor will it send me your correct password - it replies Paumanhin, hindi namin makita ang "eb1209" sa pag-login database
    Biro lang - and it confirms your previous name has gone
But can you please scroll up and click the highlighted “eb1209” ? It will lead you to my old “The Many Facets of Me” blog page.


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/3/2020 3:30 am

    Quoting laogui32:
    ... but if you search blogs for the name eb1209 it show both eeb1209 and eb1209
yes, you can easily search eb1209 blogs in google, you can bet on it that it is still here if you can click on it, and that is what I do not understand. Are the IT people not so competent in fixing the data base or they just don't care because eb or eeb1209 are both non-paying members? I even offered to be a paying member again just so, I could use my original handle, but No Can Do on their part and I am just frustrated.


laogui32 78M
67 posts
12/3/2020 4:31 am

@(e)eb1209 the blog exists and continues to exist here and elsewhere even after you delete your profile. It is quite independent. my laogui32 laogui45 blogs existed in Filipino FriendFinder for six or so years after I deleted or was was deleted. They also were visible on the gayfriendfinder site too! haha, and the adultfriendfinder site!!! Whether you like it or not. FFF split away from FF/AFF/CFF/FF a long time ago, so you won't be found there, don't worry. As I said elsewhere, we can see your blog right back to 13/03/2006, 15 pages in title view:
This is my first time to post a BLOG..You are all welcome to view and write your opinions and comments. It would be nice if it's something that will help me improve my ways.
Thank you all!
eb1209


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/3/2020 7:36 am

    Quoting eeb1209:
    I am just trying to post a comment using my celfone. It is hard to go to blogs sextion using this gadget as compared to using the laptop.
neither on my cellphone can i go to blogs..so i just use my chrome book doing it..


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/3/2020 8:00 am

    Quoting eeb1209:
    I am just trying to post a comment using my celfone. It is hard to go to blogs sextion using this gadget as compared to using the laptop.
i clicked on eb1209, your blogs appeared...but with your photo, it says profile not available...same thing happens with my original handle, i see my blogs but profile is also no longer existing...


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/3/2020 6:58 pm

    Quoting laogui32:
    @(e)eb1209 the blog exists and continues to exist here and elsewhere even after you delete your profile. It is quite independent. my laogui32 laogui45 blogs existed in Filipino FriendFinder for six or so years after I deleted or was was deleted. They also were visible on the gayfriendfinder site too! haha, and the adultfriendfinder site!!! Whether you like it or not. FFF split away from FF/AFF/CFF/FF a long time ago, so you won't be found there, don't worry. As I said elsewhere, we can see your blog right back to 13/03/2006, 15 pages in title view:
    This is my first time to post a BLOG..You are all welcome to view and write your opinions and comments. It would be nice if it's something that will help me improve my ways.
    Thank you all!
    eb1209

Thank you! I appreciate your time.


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/3/2020 6:59 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    i clicked on eb1209, your blogs appeared...but with your photo, it says profile not available...same thing happens with my original handle, i see my blogs but profile is also no longer existing...
Thanks Jane. I guess, I am being melancholic