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It's Okay Not to be Okay |
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Thank you Lord for this wonderful life.
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when you have been single for a decade or more, tendency is to love being what you are and have been. Having someone is this feeling of intrusion, adjustment and a lot of trying times, to cope with the partner. Now, that makes one what you can say uneasy and uncomfortable. It would just be enough or good to say, you are dating regularly someone, be that one or more, that's sating company alright. With seniority, the process could be different, you may need this someone to talk or listen to, someone to share your joys, sadness even your frustration, you don't fall to depression feeling alone and lonely...but you need not co-habitate, it's a choice you make..just my two cents or a dollar, maybe...lol
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when you have been single for a decade or more, tendency is to love being what you are and have been. Having someone is this feeling of intrusion, adjustment and a lot of trying times, to cope with the partner. Now, that makes one what you can say uneasy and uncomfortable. It would just be enough or good to say, you are dating regularly someone, be that one or more, that's sating company alright. With seniority, the process could be different, you may need this someone to talk or listen to, someone to share your joys, sadness even your frustration, you don't fall to depression feeling alone and lonely...but you need not co-habitate, it's a choice you make..just my two cents or a dollar, maybe...lol
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Jane, I believe " singlehood" had made me so territorial and very independent, loving the quietness and peace all to myself, that I do not even desire to talk with any men...lolz.. It does make me look "abnormal" to some...
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Actually it is indeed alright to be single - 20 years or more ago I could cry myself, broken heated, to sleep. Nowadays I am quite content just to close my eyes and sleep listening to the cicadas
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Actually it is indeed alright to be single - 20 years or more ago I could cry myself, broken heated, to sleep. Nowadays I am quite content just to close my eyes and sleep listening to the cicadas
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having been like that for you is no problem..but when someone comes along, you can never tell. you may reconsider..look at our mutual friend, taBabz, she is enjoying much..she found the right man...i believe for every woman, there is a man..
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