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godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
9/7/2021 3:27 pm

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Hi there, Jane! Welcome back! and ohhhh! I love this topic...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
9/7/2021 3:33 pm

I am presently in the process of deciding where to retire...I have a very dysfunctional family that I am not excited going home to, except for my demented mom story of my life...So, I am planning, godwilling, to go home to the Philippines as soon as the crazy quarantine protocols relaxes...I need to stay there, number one, to take care of my mother, and number two, to test my endurance of discomfort with the weather, the noise, and the people. If I pass the latter, then, it's time to pack my things up and put my humble house here in the USA for sale....But I believe in God's will, and God's perfect timing...Thy will be done....

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
9/7/2021 3:37 pm

As for my opinion regarding your special relationship with "B", you are right in that you are enjoying whatever the relationship offers you..At our age right now, we cannot be so picky, demanding, and expectant. Those are the ingredients for failure and unhappiness. But, if you think, you are better off without him, or if it gets to the point of monotony or boredom, I think you just have to make a choice...To be with someone as a companion, or to be single, and less stressed....Only you can tell, because no matter how good things look from the outside, only you can tell the real score, and quite frankly, it is none of our business! We are only happy when you are, and frown when you are not....Bottomline....

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
9/8/2021 7:01 am

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Happy for you Jane..<3 and whatever void there is, that is because, we are never really 100% contented.. My sister in Wisconsin who married an American/German for scores of marriage with him is still complaining that there is still lacking...He is not the romantic type, and when she is kinda in that pick me up mood, he just ignores her..

ELZ


theta2011 55F
1917 posts
9/10/2021 4:20 am

Tajane,

Oh my, how can a once colorful corner where we used to chat and relax,
Communicating with friends be left neglected. My high praises to
You and Elz for keeping this site alive.

As for living and loving, it will come to good terms or bad, time can only
Tell. Wait and see, that's what we all can do...

Miss you guys. ♥️♥️♥️


bluesky8 44M
13 posts
9/15/2021 11:28 am

OMG, y'all are still around ! ! !