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fantasiamore2 73F
858 posts
7/30/2021 9:53 am
Let's talk about Infidelity


For most, marriage must have lasted more than ther golden anniversary as you would still witness couples enjoying each other's company and staying together in marriage, no matter what through the longest years. I envy them truly especially when I still see them walking hand in hand, doing activities together with their and grandchildren. But are those whose marriages have been cut short, (not reaching their golden anniversary) that after awhile, most widowers would find the chance search and have a long-term companion. Now, are those seek younger women, with reasons that they want feel young and enjoy the youth of their partner. While is also a good seeking women not far from their ages because, they find compatibility saner and more reasonable, if not practical.

For those have stayed in the marriage last until their golden anniversary or more. may have been ups and downs in the marriage, as we can all believe that no marriage will sell as perfect as can get. I was won'dring fidelity on the part of both partners, if was really no point in time, that cheating on the partner never occurred, whether this became unknown or out in the open. I berlieve men will be men, in that they are not monogamous by nature. But do such men really exist in this world full of temptations?

Corollary, this I like ask do most seniors (men) these days find themselves having ED problems, that if they wish have a healthy or sexless companionship, would be possible have a long term relationship? Do you believe now such relationship shall last?

fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
7/30/2021 9:55 am

 You guys need to pardon my queries, I know these are embarrassing questions to some but i believe venturing on the Q's will give a more enlightening circumstance, so be out in the open. Thanks!


godiva0824 64F
3469 posts
7/31/2021 7:16 pm
Well, I am not a man, but I do know that at some point, they were tempted, and perhaps some succumb to the carnal "one night stand" call, somewhere where no one knows them. However, some women really stand by their men, no matter what! claiming, they are the "original" and "legal", so, NO, they will not partake nor give up...
ELZ


laogui32 79M
67 posts
8/1/2021 11:18 pm

 Remember! Infidelity is a zero-sum game. It takes two to tango.


easycome42 82M
34 posts
8/3/2021 5:24 pm

 Infidelity? It's a two-way street. Just make sure you do not get caught. That simple. ED woes? No problem. There is more than one way to kill a rabbit.


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
8/5/2021 8:47 pm
    Quoting godiva0824:
    Well, I am not a man, but I do know that at some point, they were tempted, and perhaps some succumb to the carnal "one night stand" call, somewhere where no one knows them. However, some women really stand by their men, no matter what! claiming, they are the "original" and "legal", so, NO, they will not partake nor give up...
I say these days or even before long ago, finding a man who is one woman, would be picking a needle in a hay stack..there is only one man I know who is a sureball in identifying him as such, it's St Joseph, father of Jesus Christ and husband to the Blessed Virgin. Maybe it's man's nature to be polygamous hence, we seldom find a very loyal and dedicated husband? Temptations abound so who is to say one is never tempted, but for women I will bet it will take a lot of courage to be an infidel, as this carries a stigma with it. But am notsaying thought that women are far from doing it.


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
8/5/2021 8:49 pm
    Quoting laogui32:
    Remember! Infidelity is a zero-sum game. It takes two to tango.
Oh yes I believe that and will say most certainly!


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
8/5/2021 8:52 pm
    Quoting easycome42:
    Infidelity? It's a two-way street. Just make sure you do not get caught. That simple. ED woes? No problem. There is more than one way to kill a rabbit.
Getting caught is totally a different story. And I will add that men find it discreet all the time, unless...you can just add any reason.

Yeah right! like saying if there is a will there is certainly a way.


chester0310 34M
199 posts
8/8/2021 4:26 am
    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    You guys need to pardon my queries, I know these are embarrassing questions to some but i believe venturing on the Q's will give a more enlightening circumstance, so be out in the open. Thanks!
My grandfather passed away last March at the age of 87due to a massive heart attack. He was the most generous person I ever knew. When he was alive and we attended special occasions or visited them, my grandma always complained about how his husband was so lousy in bed. We of course laughed it off because they were already in their 70s . Most of the elderlies I talked to especially men are not into it anymore, just for the sake of companionship that's all.
Once in a while, someone comes along to put you on top of the world.


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
8/8/2021 6:52 pm

 I will concur with what you said that with couples who are both of senior ages or past the age of seniors, like 70 years old above, their companionship with each other becomes the basis of their union or togetherness in life..but lemme also say that there are still couples who hit together well in that they are still capable, despite being more than 70 years old..i can say that is truer of whites as I have been interviewing those I met later in their lives..but as far as the browns like my race, they not only retire from their work, but also experience this early retirement from a fruitful intimacy...




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