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fantasiamore2 73F
858 posts
7/25/2021 7:33 pm
Easy Going Defined




Mosr guys would have their profile say they are easy going, not only here at FFF but also in the other dating sites I've been into. I just wonder what they could mean. With my interpretation, the term would somehow mean something like they have a life, absent of heavy dramas or they do not consider life as serious and therefore plain happy go lucky. It could also mean they are not into commitment in that they find life as easy come and easy go. Now tell me which of these meanings are really meant to mean aseasy going. I just wonder if any woman who wants to have a good relationship would not find this description aversive?


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
7/25/2021 7:36 pm

Do you casually or ever ask what the term means from your online friends, those you have not met personally yet?


godiva0824 64F
3469 posts
7/25/2021 9:00 pm

To me, easy-going is carefree, nonchalant, non-serious, take it as it is, one day at a time, not hard to please, not into commitment, just enjoy the moment, and take it from there....

ELZ


easycome42 82M
34 posts
7/26/2021 12:08 pm

That's me. Laid-back type. I've seen and heard of people losing their mind because of a failed relationship. I do not want that to happen to me.


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
7/26/2021 2:39 pm

    Quoting  :

and you choose who you open up to, am fortunate or considered privilege enough to somehow have a good and better knowledge of you..which i truly appreciate me bro..


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
7/26/2021 2:41 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    To me, easy-going is carefree, nonchalant, non-serious, take it as it is, one day at a time, not hard to please, not into commitment, just enjoy the moment, and take it from there....
That is so well defined Elz, it encompasses all aspects that can be talked aboutas far as easy going can be described..thank you for that! so ladies searching for your partners, take note well..when that description is part of his profile.


fantasiamore2 73F
876 posts
7/26/2021 2:47 pm

    Quoting easycome42:
    That's me. Laid-back type. I've seen and heard of people losing their mind because of a failed relationship. I do not want that to happen to me.
I fully understand when men choose to be easy going, Andy. For them it is playing safe in the field of search. But proceeding slowly despite sans the leisure of time can really be a great challenge. I don't blame those who were misfortunate to find a miserable or a failed relationship because one never intended to find the relationship a failure, much as one could help it. Putting all eggs in the basket can truly be frustrating and disappointing.