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fantasiamore2 72F
860 posts
3/31/2021 2:42 pm
Betrayal



The gist of the morning homily today is about the betrayal of Judas. He sold our Christ for pieces of silver. We all know he couldn't bear the sin he committed so he took his own life to stop feeling guilty.

Betrayal is about a loss, a loss of trust, in fact. You lose your faith and confidence in a person, which is a sentiment that is hardest to accept and cope with. It can result in a trauma, that takes away your sane thinking. Betrayal accounts for disloyalty and disclosure of what is kept as a secret. Someone who prioritizes self-interest over the welfare of another is another form of betrayal. Who wants to have a spouse or a partner cheating on you? Or this person who constantly lies to you? Would you accept a friend stabbing your back?

Ergo, allow me to ask, have you ever been betrayed during your lifetime?



fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
3/31/2021 2:58 pm

The saying that familiarity breeds contempt is a situationer common between best friends. Betrayal in this kind of relationship is hard to forget and sometimes even forgive. We are only humans, often said as well.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
4/1/2021 11:04 am

Oh yeah! been betrayed by family members and my so called-"friends", and co-workers..This chismiz thingie, you know...It's everywhere....You trust one with your secret, and everyone in town already knows the next time you know...

ELZ


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
4/1/2021 4:46 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Oh yeah! been betrayed by family members and my so called-"friends", and co-workers..This chismiz thingie, you know...It's everywhere....You trust one with your secret, and everyone in town already knows the next time you know...
so difficult to trust and open your secrets to one friend, when things go bad the friendship turns sour and all secrets kept get revealed..so do not throw all your eggs in one basket..wait up is that what it meant? ..lol


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
4/5/2021 9:14 pm

    Quoting  :

I call that human intervention. You cannot stop a secret being known when you have revealed it to someone and tell that it is a secret. The itch to kiss and tell will always be paramount especially to someone, who is "chismosa/o." It is best to keep it yourself.