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fantasiamore2 72F
860 posts
1/31/2021 6:08 pm
Communication Failed



Standard members in this site find it difficult
Communication attempt is futile hardly any result
Gone are the days you enjoy instant messaging
Unless you become a member who is paying.

Silver or gold for a badge is a privilege and right
Send your email introduce yourself with might
In replying no mention of contact details at first
Am not sure if it's still true which I find worst.

So I ask why still allow standard members
With them communication may not prosper
The purpose of the site is about searching
A friend or a relationship you're expecting.

I see viewers everyday but that's up to_ that
You can't even read profiles which is sad
If there's a way the blogs serve as a means
Either post comment or become a jelly-bean.

Some are just shy to_ attempt what's possible
May also find the gesture as probably unsuitable
Have you not heard the saying no guts no glory
That's a better or best move if you like a good story.


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
1/31/2021 6:10 pm

Break the ice, if you can.


monet 53F
48 posts
2/1/2021 8:05 am

you nailed it Ta Jane! what's the use of this site for standard members whose main reason being here is to finding someone when the only free service they can provide is limited to viewing of profiles , checking of rooms if its inhabited and hoping to chat with someone and "hopefully" thru blogs comments . But even in blogs, you never get notification if someone commented or replied to you unlike fb . It's just sad to be given such service when there are a lot of opportunities here compared to other dating sites that are full of scammers . It seems that all they want is for all standard members to upgrade and pay


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/1/2021 9:13 am

    Quoting monet:
    you nailed it Ta Jane! what's the use of this site for standard members whose main reason being here is to finding someone when the only free service they can provide is limited to viewing of profiles , checking of rooms if its inhabited and hoping to chat with someone and "hopefully" thru blogs comments . But even in blogs, you never get notification if someone commented or replied to you unlike fb . It's just sad to be given such service when there are a lot of opportunities here compared to other dating sites that are full of scammers . It seems that all they want is for all standard members to upgrade and pay
They need to thrive, that's the business bible talking. I can understand their objective but they should think of a way how to harness these many standard members in acheiving also their objectives despite not earning from them outright ,through paid membership. Perhaps, they can earn by making it affordable a bit. Maybe a paid subscription good for one month, one week or even for three days to allow communicationand reaching other members, but all this enough to earn a not so significant amount but some accommodation to keep the site more lively and kicking, for a better description. This may somehow address the situation of finding the dull site and almost dead, if not for the blogs, or the generous and patient members who paid for their gold.silver badge.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/1/2021 10:03 am

You can communicate with them if they are Gold or Silver...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/1/2021 10:05 am

Using this old handle of mine from old FFF, I can still see people's profiles, but cannot send PM

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/1/2021 10:07 am

What FFF should do is to allow advertisements to penetrate FFF...Just like how FB thrives...

ELZ


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/1/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    You can communicate with them if they are Gold or Silver...
for as long as they do the first move..it's always been the case eversince...


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/1/2021 6:26 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Using this old handle of mine from old FFF, I can still see people's profiles, but cannot send PM
partial yes! i don't get to see the rest of the story... {/size]


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/1/2021 6:29 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    What FFF should do is to allow advertisements to penetrate FFF...Just like how FB thrives...
they used to have them the first years i got here...maybe, the deal was not alright in that, traffic to their sites didn't prosper as much...


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/1/2021 6:44 pm

just to mention that I got 3 handles, two who contacted me through the blogs and the 3rd gave cues to reach him...now, they are my good friends and i appreciate meeting them...they were good to try hard enough...


monet 53F
48 posts
2/2/2021 9:12 am

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    They need to thrive, that's the business bible talking. I can understand their objective but they should think of a way how to harness these many standard members in acheiving also their objectives despite not earning from them outright ,through paid membership. Perhaps, they can earn by making it affordable a bit. Maybe a paid subscription good for one month, one week or even for three days to allow communicationand reaching other members, but all this enough to earn a not so significant amount but some accommodation to keep the site more lively and kicking, for a better description. This may somehow address the situation of finding the dull site and almost dead, if not for the blogs, or the generous and patient members who paid for their gold.silver badge.
yes, we understand that they need funds to keep this site going and its really all business but had it not entered their minds that by word of mouth, they can get free advertisement from standard members who got lucky using their site. The more member they get, the more chance of keeping this site alive . But its funny, those members who are paying are mostly scammers and FFF don't seem to care


monet 53F
48 posts
2/2/2021 9:17 am

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    just to mention that I got 3 handles, two who contacted me through the blogs and the 3rd gave cues to reach him...now, they are my good friends and i appreciate meeting them...they were good to try hard enough...
wow!!! lucky lady Ta Jane ...they exerted effort to contact you and wise enough to know how


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/8/2021 3:20 pm

    Quoting monet:
    wow!!! lucky lady Ta Jane ...they exerted effort to contact you and wise enough to know how
I guess they wanted to find out if i was a good match to them, either by way of being a friend or more...lol {/size]


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/8/2021 3:23 pm

    Quoting monet:
    yes, we understand that they need funds to keep this site going and its really all business but had it not entered their minds that by word of mouth, they can get free advertisement from standard members who got lucky using their site. The more member they get, the more chance of keeping this site alive . But its funny, those members who are paying are mostly scammers and FFF don't seem to care
so you too have noticed, most of came to pay are just baiting ladies who they think can be fooled or scammed...sorry, that management have not seen this..i guess they-re n0t interested to expand the site's activities or remain passive about it...it'ssuch a waste really!


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/8/2021 3:31 pm

    Quoting monet:
    yes, we understand that they need funds to keep this site going and its really all business but had it not entered their minds that by word of mouth, they can get free advertisement from standard members who got lucky using their site. The more member they get, the more chance of keeping this site alive . But its funny, those members who are paying are mostly scammers and FFF don't seem to care
true enough i was able to match 2-3 couples from this site, who were both standard members and so far their relationship ended up in marriage..but one thing that can get lamenting is the fact the searchers who got successful and had their lives happily ever after, never came back..not because, they totally forgot about this site, but beause they found the site as unfriendly unlike before...bogus members proliferated and made the search of legit members frustrating and disappointing...it became a mocked stage, in my opinion..


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
2/8/2021 3:34 pm

    Quoting  :

right on bro...if truly interested and authentic in their purpose, they will surely find a way...