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fantasiamore2 72F
860 posts
12/22/2020 9:04 am
AGE GAP



It's a fact that older men prefer one who's much younger
Seldom we find a man in search for one many years older
For someone past the marrying age I can say find this normal
Who's to say it ain't acceptable but we see very possible.

Some don't mind marrying very much older whites
To say love at first sight is somehow remotely right
Young ladies perhaps not bolder but I believe smarter
Fancy dream of a handsome prince is just her prayer.

So what else could be the reason? This extended family
An obligation to_ feed? The end of earning tirelessly?
The dream of life abroad? or A life made of luxury?
So love can come next what's important is security.

Typical of an Oriental scene brown marrying white
Because scarcity and depravity are common plights
Not always true as we have seen what's uncommon
A father image? who knows we don't know the person.

Let's focus on older woman escorted by her date
Not this of course but a close friend for a mate
Lucky she with this younger blood her true pride
I'd have my naughty thoughts can she still ride?

So the same thing I will need to ask is it true love
Odd if the gentleman says yes but I have my doubts
Love for money and luxury are good motivations
But what if the old lady is just this ordinary person?

I will say, "Heck a relationship may not be ideal to me
It's the couple deciding what will make them happy."
Shunning the views of anyone I say "It's their life to live
What do you care? "Go find yourself to have the same drive."


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/22/2020 9:11 am

To say "Love is blind," is not right, but that "Love can be blind."


eeb1209 64F
56 posts
12/23/2020 4:03 pm

Jane, in this time and age, everything is "doable" and possible when it comes to relationships. May-December, Man-Woman, Woman-Woman, Man-Man, relatives (), and what have you....So, to me, I guess, whatever makes people happy, for as long as they do not hurt others..I don't know what else to say..


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/23/2020 7:20 pm

    Quoting eeb1209:
    Jane, in this time and age, everything is "doable" and possible when it comes to relationships. May-December, Man-Woman, Woman-Woman, Man-Man, relatives (), and what have you....So, to me, I guess, whatever makes people happy, for as long as they do not hurt others..I don't know what else to say..
i can agree to that but what is not beyond bounds..i mean, relationship between same gender, or what you call is something unfathomable when we speak of the words of the bible..remember the time of sodom and gomorah, looks like we are back to that time and age, who knows if our Lord will decide to do what He did then, to us now..that to me it can be a lot scary,,,


laogui32 78M
67 posts
12/26/2020 1:46 am

This is not a 'fact' but it is commonly so. It is a stereotype.however. It only requires one counter-example to prove it is not a 'fact'. Consider Macron of France. Moreover my first wife was (and still is, of course) older than I. Personally I do not seek the company of unsuitably aged women, my daughter being one exception, and of course many of my students, but then they are students. Some, despite age difference are also good friends


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/26/2020 5:16 am

    Quoting laogui32:
    This is not a 'fact' but it is commonly so. It is a stereotype.however. It only requires one counter-example to prove it is not a 'fact'. Consider Macron of France. Moreover my first wife was (and still is, of course) older than I. Personally I do not seek the company of unsuitably aged women, my daughter being one exception, and of course many of my students, but then they are students. Some, despite age difference are also good friends

alright, i will not say contrary to do that, but can happen in general, right? it is a matter of choice which word to use and describe..no arguments to your statements as you speak from what's on record, yes! experience and what to you can be said as is..thank you for your comment...


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
1/4/2021 3:21 pm

    Quoting  :

[size 2} thanks for your comment...and somehow confirming what is usually "unspoken."