My Ideal Person:
good speller. has perfect or almost perfect grammar, with particular stress on tenses and subject-verb agreement...

arrogant. confident. true. above average to superior IQ and EQ. broad-minded. BIOLOGICALLY OLDER, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY MATURED MAN 40ish and above, whom i could easily fall for, or possibly fall in love with. PREFERABLY MARRIED who knows his way around in terms of being discreet, but definitely NOT one who makes tennis balls out of women. definitely not into guys who have to have a monthly quota!!! SO IF YOU'RE JUST INTERESTED IN AN EASY LAY, DON'T BOTHER!!! NOT A PLAYER, although he must be familiar with the game. or if a player, he must not play within my "era", or better still, that i would be his last EMA. can stand gentle caresses after making love. will be faithful to me, if i am to be his paramour. loves to talk for afterplay. active talker & listener. closes his eyes when kissed. quick-minded enough to follow "shifts" in conversations and in silence. secure in his persona. loves to talk about himself. could stand the heat and silence of my stare without squirming in his seat. could lose an argument without thinking he lost his balls. knows what he wants and allows me to get what i want.

and most far-fetched, but i do hope there's one out there who is like, or almost like howard roark...(if you are, i'll be your slave.)