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CALSON 74 M
9  Articles
MEMORIAL DAY   6/6/2005

Memorial Day for me is a day of remembering. It's funny how you forget so many things that you want to remember and remember so many things that you want to forget. I spent 11 months and 28 days in Southeast Asia, mostly in the central highlands of Vietnam. By the grace of God, I came back whole except for concussion, slight hearing loss and some minor scaring. Thanks to good training, ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
PLEASE BEAR IN MIND   5/2/2005

I don't have to tell you time and again how I miss you so much, Vivian, but I can't see you right now. My Pakistani ex-husband doesn't want our to fly with me back home. As much as I long to see you as of this juncture yet I can't take risk of leaving my boy here in Toronto. I don't trust the father of my and I can't imagine myself living without my boy. <br> There was a ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 65 Votes
ysa0276 48 F
16  Articles
friends   4/22/2005

I need to know if you’re my true friend, will you be by my side until the end? Can I tell you my secrets deep, and trust them in your heart you’ll keep? We are neither of us without our flaws, can you accept mine as I will yours? I’ll be a shoulder to cry on when you’re blue, will you be there for me when I need you? No matter how busy I will make time ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Jealous Feelings vs. Jealous Actions   4/20/2005

It is all too common that jealous feelings get translated into actions. While I have the greatest sympathy for people who feel jealous in different situations, and while I understand that those feelings can be painful, I have little patience with people who use those feelings as an excuse for inappropriate, overly dramatic, or violent behavior. Such behavior is at best unacceptable, often ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
TOO ELUSIVE AFFECTION   4/17/2005

Sometimes, love is too elusive and when it did come, you are mystified by its power, charm and mystery. Your conviction and point of views become crooked, you don't listen to friends or family anymore and when you follow your heart, multitude will either make fun of you or will treat you as nonsense or worthless creature. I still love her and this is what my heart is beating for because it ...


15 Comments, 468 Views, 26 Votes ,4.10 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
ADAPTED: Love Through the Eyes Of A    4/16/2005

Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it. Touching words from the mouth of babes.What does Love mean?A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" <br> The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think: <br> "When my grandmother got arthritis, ...


1 Comments, 109 Views, 11 Votes
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
IT'S THE PRECIOUS PRESENT   4/10/2005

(Adapted) <br> This is the precious present, regardless of whatyesterday was like, regardless of what tomorrow maybring. When your inner eyes open, you can find immensebeauty hidden within the inconsequential details ofdaily life. When your inner ears open, you can hearthe subtle, lovely music of the universe everywhere you go. When the heart of your heart opens, you cantake deep ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
LOVE ME STILL...PLEASE   4/10/2005

I wanted to call you…I wished to hear your sweet voice again and the way you laughed out loud. I liked to tell you everything that had happened since the last day we talked on the phone, about a week ago. It’s my desire to let you know how I miss you, how I long to keep in touch with you in all mode of communication possible and how I still love you so much. But I can’t. ...


7 Comments, 289 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
Why Do We Always Hurt The Ones We Love?   4/7/2005

I thought this song by luminary artist, Dan Hill, will always remain just a tune for me. I never have any intention of doing it to someone special who serves as my joy and my inspiration, who made a difference in my world, whose charm, perception and intellect amazed me. Sadly, I hurt her real bad and both of us are feeling the pain in tranquility right now, far from the knowledge of our ...


1 Comments, 183 Views, 21 Votes ,2.38 Score
Astarte 56 F
52  Articles
Eyes On Me   3/19/2005

I often think when I find her, I'll be content, but love like love has their own setbacks. She's the only one I want and more, but there are realities I have to face. For one, she's married, I am, too, in a way, married to my career. But I sacrificed that for her, for the love of her. There was a time in my life I needed her, and I couldn't message her or call her coz her husband is ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
Astarte 56 F
52  Articles
Since I Fell For You   3/19/2005

I always thought I'm righter than rain, that no one can hurt me anymore coz there's not much left of my heart to break. Since I fell for you, everything's changed.I got no more barriers for my defense, no more masks to wear to hide my soul. You took everything you can take and carelessly flaunt it all around, coz you're cold, you feel nothing for me. To you, I'm just a conquest, the ever ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
REACTION TO BAYNE30'S ADVICE QUERY   3/5/2005

What Separates a Lover and a Friend? <br> <br> This has been a constant interrogation since the earth was born but seemed whoever started the question wasn’t satisfied with the painstaking scrutiny and the response he gathered way back. <br> We know that a lover is one’s admirer or sexual partner, a significant other, latest flame, ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
pulsar2000 47 M
38  Articles
Workaholic’s focus   3/4/2005

God never intended work to become the sole focus of our lives. When it does- when it captures all our emotional energy-then work becomes an idol, a god that rules us.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
pulsar2000 47 M
38  Articles
Measurement of Success   3/3/2005

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in his life as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to succeed.


1 Comments, 34 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Astarte 56 F
52  Articles
To Love Or Not To Love   2/25/2005

I want you, it's as simple as that.I want you forever.Can I keep you?I'm scared sometimes that you'll be gone one day & I don't know what will happen to me when that happens.I don't know if I can go on without you.I'm beyond reasons now;it doesn't matter to me if I'm violating the laws of man and God for loving you.They are not me, they won't understand.They don't wake up each morning with ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
This is Beautiful   2/25/2005

In September 1960, I woke up one morning with six hungry babies and just 75 cents in my pocket. > Their father was gone. The boys ranged from three months to seven years; their sister was two. > > Their Dad had never been much more than a presence they feared. > Whenever they heard his tires crunch on the gravel driveway they would scramble to hide ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
CALSON 74 M
9  Articles
HELP!!!!   2/23/2005

Does ice break? How? I am a secret admirer of a very nice woman. I dont think she knows it. Seems like I have answers to everyones problems but my own. I'm sure she doesn't take me serious when I , in my subtle way, toss some flowers in her direction (Spanish tradition). Is there an easy way to go out on a limb? Walk on thin ice? How do I break it? HELP!!


1 Comments, 59 Views, 0 Votes
Happy3025 44 M
10  Articles
who is perfect for me   2/22/2005

I am very picky about women, therefore I am having a very hard time finding one, I'm tired of clubs, but I don't know where else to go to meet anyone. I am a very honest person with a huge heart, just trying to find someone who is perfect FOR ME


1 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
sckatjjampp 42 F
63  Articles
always be honest in love   2/21/2005

Because our relationship is based on honesty and fairness, there's no need to test each other it is so wonderful to find someone whom i dont need to play games with and who lives up to everything that i consider important, right and beautiful..


1 Comments, 54 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
SHE SIMPLY WALKED OUT OF THIS WORLD   1/23/2005

(Published in the summer 1983 issue of "The Academe" - Shortened and edited for space) <br> Fifty-five golden hits of Karen Carpenter were spinned during the April 24, 1983 national tribute for this 32-year-old woman who suffered from a dreaded disease called "anorexia nervosa, " a compulsive dieting disorder that drives its victims to starve themselves. <br> <br> ...


3 Comments, 163 Views, 55 Votes ,5.57 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
THE PHILIPPINES: IS THERE ANY HOPE?   1/20/2005

If only the government officials will emulate what the Canadian leaders are performing (honest, hardworking, patient, compassionate who work for the people not for themselves) then we can still see light at the end of the tunnel. I was a campus journalist and a student activist in my time even before Ninoy Aquino was assassinated but I guess, our efforts were being taken for granted. Those ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 31 Votes ,4.39 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
FOR THE TEACHERS OUT THERE   1/18/2005

NOTE: This was taken from the November 1983 issue of WE SPEAK Magazine but no particular authors were written down in each quotation. <br> <br> <br> Teaching is a job with a thousand thrills. Everyday, the classroom is fresh with romance and adventure, drama and heartbreak. To feel that one has a part in molding the future inhabitants of heaven...this makes a ...


2 Comments, 125 Views, 38 Votes ,5.40 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
PARANOID PERSONALITY DISORDER   1/16/2005

Delusion of grandeur is an exaggerated belief about one's own importance, wealth, power or talent while delusion of persecution is a false belief that he or she is being mistreated, abused or harassed. <br> <br> Paranoid personality disorder is a psychiatric ailment characterized by extreme suspiciousness and distrust of others to the degree that one blames them for ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 36 Votes ,4.62 Score
leazl28 51 F
36  Articles
Ministry or Job   1/15/2005

Some people have a job in the church Others invite themselves in a ministry What's the difference? <br> If you are doing it just because no one else will, It’s a job If you are doing it to serve the Lord, It’s a ministry <br> If you quit because somebody criticized you, It’s a job If you keep on serving, It’s a ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
NOW IT CAN BE TOLD...   1/10/2005

For the past weeks, we saw a lot of bickering from the same people who accuse, who protect, who backfire. And now, we can read another headline pertaining to one FFF member whose only fault were to disclose her previous affairs and defend herself from name calling. This revelation through prose and poetry is now being used against her by those envious and insecure men and women of this ...


2 Comments, 102 Views, 65 Votes ,8.85 Score
banghole 39 M
3  Articles
The Distance   1/10/2005

There are times in our life that we will never forget. Specially when it is about family. In the Philippines, many of our relatives are boarding abroad, they can only come visit us after many years. Such visit of relatives for that span of years is very memorable because of their distance to us. In the span of 12 years a relative of mine, my auntie had 2 daugthers. And in their vacation ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
PETS IMPROVE OUR WAY OF LIVING   1/9/2005

When I came to Toronto on the first week of December 1996, I was amazed at how the animal lovers spoiled their pets and how they look after their canine or feline companion. I was really impressed at the way they take care of their pets. <br> What is it about the animals that somehow inspire and uplift our spirit? What is it about them that help us move on or get on with our ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 47 Votes ,5.06 Score
SALLIEwriter1193 63 F
196  Articles
TYING THE KNOT AND BEING SINGLE   1/9/2005

I am 44 now but I only had the chance to live-in with someone for five years including my ex-husband. I was engrossed with my journalistic career that I never thought of marrying. I was single all my life and I liked it that way. Free to do anything, independent, financially capable, no one to invade my privacy, I'm my own boss, no in-laws to bug me, no hassles, to name a few. I never asked ...


1 Comments, 173 Views, 63 Votes ,4.47 Score
36154 64 F
5  Articles
Thought for the Day!!!   1/6/2005

In a recent survey 1 out of 3 people had mental disease or disorder. If you want to know..look at your two friends , if they are okay..then it must be YOU!!! LOL..Have a nice day everyone!!


2 Comments, 19 Views, 13 Votes
__naughty_me__ 46 F
10  Articles
a real sad but touching short story   1/6/2005

would u do the same? <br> <br> A girl and guy were speeding over 100 mph on the road... <br> <br> Girl: Slow down. Im scared. Guy: No this is fun. Girl: No its not. Please, its too scary! Guy: Then tell me you love me. Girl: Fine, I love you. Slow down! Guy: Now give me a BIG hug. *Girl hugs him* Guy: Can you take my helmet off & put ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score