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yugituyk 34 M
10  Articles
10 stupid things "you do not wanna do" online   9/10/2010

ONE If you're ugly, stop acting like you don't know it. The captions under your picture that says "top model pose", "sexy btch", "arnt i hot" doesn't convince anyone.

TWO To the people who have like 25, 000 friends, are you serious? Nobody in this universe can keep up with that many friends. You're stupid. Go play in traffic.

THREE Don't ...


13 Comments, 226 Views, 40 Votes ,4.27 Score
lovely_nhice 28 F
1  Article
to have sex with your boyfriend   21/9/2007

well this will consider to all girls out there especially those who are too young for there age... let us see... maybe 12-17 years of age. well that is what i think, you know here in philippines generally filipinas are really conservative type. we actually reserve our virginity until the right time comes. but in a new generation, , , i still consider that there are still in contact with ...


10 Comments, 259 Views, 60 Votes ,2.75 Score
raven767 58 M
1  Article
Inconsideration is a game.   14/4/2009

Some might not agree with me, others might. I feel strongly that when someone writes to you, the very least you owe them is to say "no thanks" if you are not interested.
After all, had they not been interested they would not have written to you. Be flattered and say "no thanks" or any such statement. Especially you ladies, you do not understand how it feels when we men read your ...


9 Comments, 86 Views, 31 Votes ,3.05 Score
dsatd 63 M
5  Articles
Asking For Money   27/8/2006

There is no quicker way for me to quit talking to someone is when they ask for money. There are horror stories out there that abound with lonely people getting thousands taken away on the basis of words and a lovely photo. Trust, love, friendship all those things are not built upon money and how much the other person can give you. Of course I know some women will need help joining ...


9 Comments, 279 Views, 42 Votes ,4.16 Score
odette317 48 F
18  Articles
When No Means Yes   4/1/2012

How true is it that when women say "NO" what they meant is actually a "YES"? I don't say No when what I want to say is Yes, what if the man will take my No as a real No, then I may lose that one opportunity.

Next time, never say NO if you meant it to be Yes....


5 Comments, 66 Views, 24 Votes ,2.79 Score
friendly3174 40 F
1  Article
in general   19/1/2008

be careful in saying "no thanks" make sure you won't regret, it is a final decision.


5 Comments, 128 Views, 23 Votes ,3.13 Score
deva_shyne 49 F
331  Articles
How To Say " NO THANKS"   7/5/2007

No thanks can be done in a good manners Don't ever Let somebody be Upset when you say it. Just make it simple with an attitude that your words can be true.. make it not just a habit but just use it in a right way.. Always say no if you are not worthy to what he/she ask always remember when deciding or answering must rely on your conscience....


5 Comments, 64 Views, 27 Votes ,2.61 Score
NO THANKS TO PREMARITAL SEX FOR TEENAGERS   9/6/2006

Lately i have been reading lots of articles about teenage women turning to be too promiscuous when it comes to sex. It seems that they are becoming too gutsy to experiment with sex. This can be alarming to parents like me because one day my daughter will be an adolescent and with the kind of culture our society adheres to at this time.We, parents should be wary and protective of our ...


5 Comments, 165 Views, 33 Votes ,3.88 Score
LegallyRomantic 47 M
33  Articles
Can I Call You Sometime?   16/9/2005

I have learned from my female friends on how to say no to this with less pain is as follow: <br> If someone asks for your number, if you don't feel comfortable with it, instead ask for theirs. It will not be as rude or uncomfortable as a straight out "NO!". Plus you have the option to call the person or not. If you already gave your number, face the consequences. Using your caller ...


4 Comments, 179 Views, 30 Votes ,3.04 Score
2447star 50 F
18  Articles
Marriage: Not For Me   21/4/2010

I was married twice. Once divorced and then a widow.

I don't want to get married again.

I thought I wanted to because I was lonely after the death of my second husband who was the perfect man for me.

I met a lot of guys and got engaged three times. I just broke off with fiance number 3 and I think I have learned my lesson and this is, I don't need a man to fulfill me. ...


3 Comments, 61 Views, 13 Votes ,1.63 Score
twinkle23_2007 49 F
225  Articles
How to Say “No”   27/1/2008

How to Say “No” Leaders are forever being asked for something, . If you have people working for you, you also will have that problem, . You will be asked for favors, permission, advice, and a raise in pay. Unfortunately, you cannot always grant these things. Although you may feel that you would be better accepted if you could respond favorably more often, many times the proper and ...


3 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
"NO THANKS"   14/7/2007

Just like the title said; "No thanks". It is a great tool to use. <br> I know some people who could not say "NO". An example on a simple invitation to get together after work - They would give me the "I'll see", or "I've got to ask the misses what our plans are", "Maybe", or flat out lying a saying "Yes" yet not showing up. <br> WHEN to USE?: As often as necessary ...


3 Comments, 90 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
Lanfear15 34 F
2  Articles
No Means No   25/6/2007

I don't really get it why this was even a category. I mean no means no! How else can you say it?
No thanks means NO AND I DON'T FEEL ANY GRAtitUDE FOR YOU ANYWAY! HA !
Be firm but polite but other's take it to a level that deceives the receipient. Like no actually meaning maybe and maybe means absolutely YES!
Honestly, if people are more honest with what ...


3 Comments, 51 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
Ihab5 38 M
3  Articles
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines   13/11/2006

Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines Salaam Aalaykoum...((Salamat))
This is your captain “Abou Sayyah” Welcoming both seated & standing passengers on board of Syrian Airlines.
We apologize for the four-days delay in aking off, it was due to bad weather & some overtime I had to put in at the bakery baking Kaka.
┬ĚThis is flight 717 to Sham Airport. Landing there ...


3 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
no thanks friend...   2/9/2006

after a year of friendship in the so called "net frendship" ive discovered things that are beyond my comprehension. suddenly, i felt the love that i dont think i would ever feel. after that day you said you love someone, i felt so damn empty. but, you still say "im here for you". i said the things i ought to say. NO THANKS FRIEND.. im ok without YOU...


3 Comments, 99 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
CALSON 64 M
9  Articles
GRANDMA SCAM ARTISTS   9/6/2006

True Story: I was shopping at local super market for my groceries a while back and had a cart full when I approached the checkout counter. In front of me in line was a little old grandma type lady with her groceries. She commented how much I resembled her son. I just smiled. She asked if she could call me "son", and I said , "sure, it's ok". So, we continued talking and ...


3 Comments, 163 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
wildwolf_ej69 33 M
9  Articles
syang lang ang pamasahe ko   12/12/2005

does it have to be like this every time i go to school walang pasuk <br> it looks like im wasting every single cent for the pamasahe


3 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
pureheart35 43 F
10  Articles
Say it in a nice way   21/9/2007

It is just common to experience that sometimes we just need to decline an invitation. We may have different reason for doing so. Maybe you just dont like the person. Maybe you are not enjoying his company. And whatever may be your reason, I think it is just right for you to decline it in a nice way. Committing some little white lies is just fine. Think of a very reasonable excuse to ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Read my lips "NO"!   5/7/2007

It took me awhile to learn to say "NO". I guess that it was the hardest word for me to say, but when I finally got the hang of it, it is now difficult for me to say "YES". The closest that you can get from me is a doubtful "maybe" and "we'll see". Believe me, it took awhile for me to learn how to say NO. Practice makes perfect so, I practiced it with my friends, my family and ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
yugituyk 34 M
10  Articles
10 stupid things "you do not wanna do" online   2/2/2007

ONE If you're ugly, stop acting like you don't know it. The captions under your picture that says "top model pose", "sexy bitch", "arnt i hot" doesn't convince anyone.

TWO To the people who have like 25, 000 friends, are you serious? Nobody in this universe can keep up with that many friends. You're stupid. Go play in traffic.

THREE Don't ...


2 Comments, 66 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
iceyhot4u2love 36 F
10  Articles
How to say "No Thanks"   10/11/2006

It is easy to say NO abruptly or without thinking about it.Saying No always complicate things. There are those who would say NO but would actually mean a YES.Always mean what you say and say what you mean... WHen you say NO it actually means NO.Learn to stand with your words. By saying so, you will earn respect and credibility. If you don't like someone or doesn't like ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
triggerman5 39 M
26  Articles
What do you mean when you say no?   29/8/2006

There is no problem in declining to something or someone but make sure that when you say "no thanks" you mean it. There are many instances that a girl or a guy who said "no" but was actually saying "yes" after a while. His or her no really means not right now or later. Your "no" will eventually cause misunderstanding and misinterpretation of what you really mean. So, when you say "no ...


2 Comments, 216 Views, 15 Votes
jane228din 43 F
1  Article
How can I say No to you?   30/7/2006

I know you will agree to me in my views of having a problem in saying NO. We are all here in search of someone who we can talk with, dine with and perhaps friendship leads to deeper level of relationship. Yes, we fall inlove.. how can we say NO to that? Thanks to FFF that we able to experience different kind of chatting, courtship, and loving. I, myself never ever say No, Thanks to someone ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
twent47blue 47 F
121  Articles
Reinventing Mr. Right   22/5/2006

He is the epitome of a perfect gentlemen, every girl's dream guy they want to bring home to mommy. Smooth, suave, gentle and kind. What else could anyone look for? Good-looking and has the kindest eyes you'll ever see. And you thought, this is him, this is my match, I found the real one, the one I'm looking for. But, hold on, a sec....prrrtttt! Stop! Hehe...women ...


2 Comments, 58 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
eccentricpink 33 F
13  Articles
whatever!!!   6/3/2006

saying "no thanks" is simply saying "ano ka hilo?".... <br> heheheheheh....this is just my opinion. <br> when someone asked you to have dinner with him/her and you just bumped each other at the elevator would you say yes? of course you will say "no, thanks." <br> which practically means "duh. do i know you?"


2 Comments, 59 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
not easy   30/1/2006

It's probably one of the hardest things to do, you might be flattered, but you're not really interested. The best thing to do is, I guess, to keep polite and nice without being misleading. In other words: be clear about your feelings. It's the only way to be honest with yourself and the other person. Possibly, you will even be respected for not messing with someone's feelings.


2 Comments, 60 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Kamasutrachic 58 F
37  Articles
~~~Akala Mo~~~   17/12/2005

~ ~ ~ Akala Mo ~ ~ ~ ( kamasutrachic ) <br> <br> Patuloy ang pag-ikot ng aking mundo, kahit na ako'y iniwan mo... Nakatayo pa ring taas ang noo, taliwas sa buong akala mo. <br> ***** <br> Inaamin kong kailan may di ka naging akin Puro kasinungalingan ang lahat ng iyong sabihin Pagod na ang puso kong ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
CandleMeister 68 M
1  Article
What ever happened to the common courtesies?   27/8/2005

I have noticed a problem with the members of the FriendFinder system (I am only an active member of two of them). The people therein, notably the female of the species, seem to have forgotten the common courtesies. <br> If a member of the opposite sex takes the time to write to you expressing an interest in you, you should take the time to respond. Even if you are not interested. ...


2 Comments, 148 Views, 29 Votes ,5.15 Score
tresss 29 F
19  Articles
to come back   20/7/2009

you;re asking me to come back and have things the way it used to be, ,, tell me how? you turned your back on me without saying goodbye filled my life with tears and pain since then and now that i have every pieces of my life that you broke back you're asking me to come back and telling me you loved me where was you're love when i was alone and crying???I had you're love and im greatful to have ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
(Water Sports)   26/12/2008

Being asked if I was interested in Water Sports, I said to her "No Thanks" until I found out she was talking about scuba diving!


1 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
EngrLee 51 M
1  Article
its hard to say no   2/2/2007

i just have a broken relationship it left me sad and broken hearted. you came along and lend a shoulder to cry on listening for the pain inside my heart <br> lady thank you for your time thank you for the wisdom you gave thank you for the softness of your hand but i cant let our feelings go overboard <br> you are beautiful white skinned and huggable but my ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Michael1963 50 M
9  Articles
End it   24/9/2006

If you feel someone is asking you for more than you feel comfortable giving, say no thanks. Saying no means no.


1 Comments, 49 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
JJ_philly 42 M
8  Articles
bring nice but direct   20/9/2006

saying no thanks is ok no matter what the reason is. you can be kind about it. for ex; your not attracted to someone, not to hurt them you may say "were to far apart, i am looking for some one close by." its just being nice to some one elses feelings.


1 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
bingbong81 33 M
5  Articles
"NO THANKS"   29/8/2006

no thanks is usually use as an expression by our fellow filipino, especially when somebody offer something then replied "No Thanks."


1 Comments, 45 Views, 12 Votes ,0.68 Score
nizzie2 35 M
7  Articles
yes   29/8/2006

a method of kindly rejection.we must support our reply with our emotions to be convincing.


1 Comments, 37 Views, 18 Votes ,1.08 Score
tresss 29 F
19  Articles
we have our own life   1/8/2006

no thanks though your love is so great no thanks even you gave me this kind of feeling no thanks i dont need it anymore... you have you own, i have my own im with someone and so you are no thanks....i wont be needing your love


1 Comments, 63 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
cutygirl_22 30 F
2  Articles
to your barkada "sometimes"   30/7/2006

Its not easy for being away to "barkada" at this age! But u have also think for all the consequences u will have when ur saying "NO Thanks" to them! Being a responsible youth you have to think why you should do this or not! Be a responsive one!


1 Comments, 21 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
Right_Rider 30 M
13  Articles
Reverse!   25/5/2006

The reverse psychology of saying No thanks in any matters is somtimes an invitation saying Thank you!


1 Comments, 51 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
politeness   30/1/2006

when saying no thanks or im not interested you should be as polite as possible because as others have feelings to and its not nice to hurt anothers feelings uneccisarily after all you wouldnt want your feelings hurt either no would you


1 Comments, 47 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
antonio_kim2003 38 M
1  Article
Going Eyeball or EB   2/10/2005

Meeting person or persons is ok and fine but if the meeting has sex involve please watch yourself or think it 100x or more before doing it at first its very fun and curious but if you get pregnant or had a HIV or something worst you may get sorry so watch out guys


1 Comments, 57 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
just can't say the truth, but we have to...   24/6/2005

"cold treatment" without the root of misunderstanding is just like asking for your freedom but saying is more pronounced and evident to set us free... sometimes we don't have the nerve to tell him/her it's over, this is enough... we got the wrong guy and we must say it without hurting him/her so badly, otherwise, we might be accused of being tactless or heartless... each one has the right ...


1 Comments, 68 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
Not a movie star But?   8/4/2005

I am 42 I have been divorced 4 years and I can not meet the right kind of woman and when I answer a personal ad I get no response what do women want a movie star, prince charming and Donald Trump wrapped into one.I am nice to all the women I chat with but it seems like I am cursed because I am divorced.Why don, t women want to date divorced men? Any woman who reads this please give me some ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 34 Votes ,5.04 Score
mailman801 40 M
2  Articles
wag nlang noh!!!   15/1/2005

sometimes friend help you in many ways, about money, problem to your hearht manythings and anything, but sometimes FRIEND destroy you also by mean of they called "DRUGS" but theirs a time na you want to react on that and say it "NO THANKS"


1 Comments, 17 Views, 19 Votes ,6.16 Score
how u say no thanks?   12/1/2005

you just say it will be very nice from you if we could stay friends but right now i dont look more then that..and you are very special person but i dont look now for a serious relationship..


1 Comments, 21 Views, 52 Votes ,0.05 Score
36154 54 F
5  Articles
In response to Mike "The Inferno"   2/1/2005

Wow, i'm totally amazed about your reactions towards rejection. You have to remember, don't go down to their level. Some women , like some men , think they are irresistible. That's sad but it's the reality of life. If you let them turn you into a sad and miserable person then you are letting them dictate you. It's your life, if they say "No thanks", that's their lost not yours. The Blue ...


1 Comments, 198 Views, 52 Votes ,4.46 Score
When a guy asks you out and you have a boyfriend   29/12/2004

Hi I work at loblaws and a really sweet looking guy has askedme out. he's funny nice and the best person i would love to out with, if i were single however; i had to say no. I thought my realtionship with my finance is much too important for me to lose. I have been happy with my decision beacaue the realtion ship with the cute co worker would have never have worke out he's a year younger ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 51 Votes ,4.61 Score
goodcop 46 M
12  Articles
Don't be pressured   9/11/2004

If a guy offers you drinks and you don't drink alchohol at all or are a light weight, don't drink. Stay firm and don't let him pursuade you....in fact, you have every right to end the date at that point if he is making you uncomfortable. He may end up taking advantage of you! especially since you don't know the people from the internet, what their real intentions are. Don't go back to ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
A few helpful hints for men...   5/11/2004

I can't say how many times I receive a message from a man who wants to chat, meet, move in with me and/or marry me without so much as having received an email back from me! One of my biggest turn-offs is when the messages I receive start out with "You are so pretty, beautiful, gorgeous etc..." Or they say "We have so much in common!" I'm hoping that a man would want to be judged on his ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 84 Votes ,6.79 Score
..Not Good!!!   23/10/2004

Hey in the year of 1996 I was with some friends. We were all partying. And one of the guys was my best friend the other one was like my brother. We have all three known each other for most of our lives. They are 2-3 years older than me. I always hung out with the older group. Anyways, back to the story. Everyone was getting drunk. And everyone was of age but me. Of course. Anyways, I got so ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 39 Votes ,2.02 Score
disyembre 58 F
3  Articles
Mature women and younger men   23/10/2004

NO, Thank you. (…. Again) <br> These are the common words we normally say in a polite way if we want to decline an offer without embarrassing the person concerned. But what are you going to say next if that same person would still to try to communicate with you and would say offensive words to you? Nothing of course…just click him delete and he would disappear! ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 73 Votes ,7.82 Score
maxbott 53 M
1  Article
A little hint or help for women   20/10/2004

Well I must say, I've been reading these amusing notes and one thing I've noticed is it's fairly easy to tell the sincere people from the ones that are really full of themselves!!! I'm on FF because I'd really like to meet someone. If you're on here just to amuse yourself or play games with people maybe you'd be better off at a kiddie sight. Let's face it, with the exception of pic ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 49 Votes ,7.52 Score
tresss 29 F
19  Articles
No more "You"   21/4/2010

You taught me how to love so deep that i cannot forget it, but you never teach me how to end these pains that till now in my heart since the day you left me, for years you've been gone i asked myself to go on yet each night your face is the last picture on my mind, ,, how could i ever loved once more if my heart is filled with you and your memories...i learn to put chances on the air but asking ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Saying No.... A 2nd man's perspective   9/4/2005

Having read a few of the articles regarding saying thanks but no thanks, I've decided to add my two cents to the wishing well. I've spoken with many friends in the chat rooms about the subject and can understand and sympathize with both sides of the argument. I realize that you ladies receive many emails from us guys on here. Some of those emails are nicely done but others can be ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 122 Votes ,8.54 Score
MIKE GO...NO THANKS   14/11/2004

id been reading your article and as usual you got me replying to them. and the communication was then between you and me. but this time i wanna write something that i want others to know (understanding is much appreciated)and maybe let them also speak up their minds. <br> WHAT HAS WOMEN GOT TO DO WITH THE WAY YOU EXIST? WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS ON THE LOOK OUT OF THEIR FLAWS???? ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score