http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/younglooking55/index.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397 indeed! sometimes in the midst of trying to define someone we erred on making false assumptions by just the virtue of reading what they posted or in manner their share their engaging thoughts in the chatroom.do we have the right to make assumptions of others without having thoroughly knowing who they are? at what point do we know someone anyway? would it be enough that by conversing with someone on the chatroom - viola! we certainly know how they are or who they are and what they are.its hard to validate assumptions specially giving in a timeframe that is to irrational and only based on gut feelings. perhaps was given at a point when somehow unknowingly you have offended someone, bruised their ego or unintentionally invaded their space or at a point wherein you are not in the best of mood. regardless there is nothing wrong with providing assumption and yet there is also nothing wrong in refuting the fallacy of assumption. would i refute assumption? i would not. the burden of truly knowing me is on them. they must on the course of their lives must know me extensively if they want me to be a part of their lives.be as it may, some of us becomes victim of a false assumption and suddenly most become convinced because of that false assumption that you are indeed such and such without them actually knowing you in an extended period of time.they said that i have a high regard of myself and that nakarating lang ako sa america ay kung sino na ako. everyone must have a high regard of themselves. by mostly having that, its the foundation of having a healthy life and then acquiring an excellent perspective of life. but to assume that someone only having a high regard of themselves because of where they are or have been or dahil nakarating sa america is making a mockery of one's insecurity.none of us has the purity of values and therefore assumptions are sometimes false and never right specially given at a point that one never was closed to you or have been intimate with us.i was not offended by the assumptions accorded on my behalf, after all eveyone has the right to make assumptions and even share it with many. but to others it could be dismaying experience to the point that to them it becomes a nightmare because they have been ill defined by virtue of that assumptions. but no one could ever define us except ourselves. and if you have a high regard of yourself, then nothing matters including false assumption.[SIZE 3][/SIZE][SIZE 3][/SIZE][SIZE 10][/SIZE] http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110966.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= hmm hostility is still pervasive. i peeked on someone's blog, and read his comments accusing someone as i am, hiding cowardly in her handle. for all i know i have been transparent in my handle and hav Sat, 21 Nov 2009 22:12:48 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110966.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110964.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= yes there was a recent party all night for older women with younger men held a Dinah's Garden Hotel at Palo Alto, California as featured on the Details Magazine november 2009 issue. such cougar's par Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:27:21 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110964.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110959.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= Quoting ulam:i guess it is hitting two birds with one stone" ... foreigners look for a gf before going to pinas to have a gf - to have sex and to have a tour guide - so their stay here is less ex Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:17:30 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110959.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110776.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= yeah its hard to understand why animosity is still pervasive in spite that i have said my goodbye. perhaps others are just too insensitive to find and accept a common ground, that what it meant by my Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:29:35 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110776.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110741.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= Quoting:ayyyyyyy saan ka po pupunta whatever u do always take good care of yourself..God bless!no i am not going anywhere other than those places already planned to see the rest of the year. its just Sun, 08 Nov 2009 17:07:45 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110741.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110727.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= i am saying goodbye. more than two years on this site is quite too long not to be found.for all those who were offended by my blogs, i am sorry.for all those who were entertained by my blogs, thanks a Sun, 08 Nov 2009 00:40:34 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110727.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110703.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= its just too capricious for women to want to be pursued tenaciously. why just accept my invitation for a cup of coffee and the let's see how far we can get to know each other?the way i see pursue is, Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:03:12 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110703.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110670.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= recent calamitous events in the philippines had me thinking about my preference to live there in few years from now. i thought there is no wrong or right answer if we choose to live in the philippines Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:19:13 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110670.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110607.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= Antonio [8:55 AM]: hmm dont do that again, unless it just us. i miss u )Tan [8:56 AM]: i got your stuff in my car. thanks so much for taking care of me. was very much appreciated it.Antonio [8:59 AM Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:45:37 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110607.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110564.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= yes i have a hard time falling in love. its been almost a decade since the last time i fall in love.i guess with age comes the wisdom of experience, that one is better off than complicating one's life Sat, 31 Oct 2009 17:17:25 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110564.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110510.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= yes indeed i am happy for her the way she is. yes we should all be happy for anyone however they are acting so irrational and beyond grace and decency. she has every right to act that way.sometimes th Thu, 29 Oct 2009 11:59:50 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110510.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110483.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= i will post a comment instead on my update on my mistake i wrote about and shared below!i made a mistake! Jun 22, 2009 12:04 pm596 Viewsi made a mistake. no its not about relationship. there are no m Wed, 28 Oct 2009 20:43:16 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110483.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110418.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= 1. you are ordinarily beautiful.2. you are understanding.3. you are down to earth.4. you are compulsively possessive.5. you are street smart.6. you are kind.7. you are forgiving.8. you are flexible.9. Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:28:17 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110418.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110401.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= no! its not about me. i can always find that love if i wanted to. its just that i prefer not to love and be loved at the moment.i am talking about women in general. yes at a certain age, the opportun Sun, 25 Oct 2009 21:15:11 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110401.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110387.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= 1. i am kind!2. i am pragmatic3. i am dad4. i am a grandad.5. i am not set in my ways.6. i am capable of loving and loyal.7. i can adore you so much.8. i have means and ways to enjoy life to the full Sun, 25 Oct 2009 11:20:21 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110387.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110348.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= it will be very fascinating and magical! Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:47:04 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110348.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110345.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= 1. i am not capable of totally surrendering myself and love u based on your expectations! you are focus on yourself instead of ourselves.2. i want to keep and enjoy my freedom! to be able to do a lot Sat, 24 Oct 2009 07:29:14 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110345.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110329.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= gosh if only i knew i would not have a ticket to the raiders and jets game this sunday. yeah i have a ticket and its a good seat, lower section 130, row 22 and seat 8 and a lot closer to the raiderett Fri, 23 Oct 2009 21:08:00 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110329.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110301.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= yes indeed i have a blast with women of the feel in our weekend eb last week. its for the memories Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:06:03 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110301.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110298.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m= yes the yearning is still feverish. no its not about finding someone or being found. its about doing another hurrah for the last time.yeah hurrah means doing something very selfishly about oneself, u Thu, 22 Oct 2009 20:30:12 -0800 http://filipinofriendfinder.com/blog/7474/post_110298.html?site=ffp&pid=f2397&m=