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indeed! sometimes in the midst of trying to define someone we erred on making false assumptions by just the virtue of reading what they posted or in manner their share their engaging thoughts in the chatroom.
do we have the right to make assumptions of others without having thoroughly knowing who they are? at what point do we know someone anyway? would it be enough that by conversing with someone on the chatroom - viola! we certainly know how they are or who they are and what they are.
its hard to validate assumptions specially giving in a timeframe that is to irrational and only based on gut feelings. perhaps was given at a point when somehow unknowingly you have offended someone, bruised their ego or unintentionally invaded their space or at a point wherein you are not in the best of mood. regardless there is nothing wrong with providing assumption and yet there is also nothing wrong in refuting the fallacy of assumption. would i refute assumption? i would not. the burden of truly knowing me is on them. they must on the course of their lives must know me extensively if they want me to be a part of their lives.
be as it may, some of us becomes victim of a false assumption and suddenly most become convinced because of that false assumption that you are indeed such and such without them actually knowing you in an extended period of time.
they said that i have a high regard of myself and that nakarating lang ako sa america ay kung sino na ako. everyone must have a high regard of themselves. by mostly having that, its the foundation of having a healthy life and then acquiring an excellent perspective of life. but to assume that someone only having a high regard of themselves because of where they are or have been or dahil nakarating sa america is making a mockery of one's insecurity.
none of us has the purity of values and therefore assumptions are sometimes false and never right specially given at a point that one never was closed to you or have been intimate with us.
i was not offended by the assumptions accorded on my behalf, after all eveyone has the right to make assumptions and even share it with many. but to others it could be dismaying experience to the point that to them it becomes a nightmare because they have been ill defined by virtue of that assumptions. but no one could ever define us except ourselves. and if you have a high regard of yourself, then nothing matters including false assumption.
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Aug 8, 2008 12:40 am
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must i contemplate for a moment and reassess how things are? yeah about this blogging. must i use blogging to sort of advertise my availabilty that i am want to be found. is wanting to be found a right approach? perhaps not. by the scheme of things, i am expected to search and find her.
but if i want to be mystical and at the same time be different, would it be wrong? and then would i ever have a chance of being found? serendipity perhaps!
OR INVECTUS AS THE RIGHT APPROACH!
what if by the freak of nature i become successful and she finds me? would that be enough that somehow my yearning to be found will achieve a conclusive ending that she and i will love each other through eternity.
its hard to tell because as imperfect as we are, the future will never be fortelling - whatever that would mean? perhaps it could mean that we must not rely on others - including from that special someone. that the ultimate happiness that we long for could only be found by ourselves in ourselves independent of how others love or hate us. INVECTUS INDEED!
happiness? its hard to recall those moments that i have been unhappy. if there were, were far and between. i guess i have that special stamina to be happy even in the worst of times and in the worst of relationship. yeah that special stamina keeps me young. AND I AM!
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wanting to be found!
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Aug 7, 2008 9:10 pm
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"pare..lol..if that's the road you want to take, that is all up to you..how would we know?, it might be where you're writing prowess lies, like beat, newspaper writers, to each his own style in writing, di ba?..same here in blogging..me, i blog to express myself, don't care much for style or topic, i just let out..hehehe..i think you'll have interesting topics in your blog, you just should not worry about what to write, let yourself go, enjoy.." bokboyong
wow at grabe! thanks tol bokboyong. your thought are very encouraging specially i thought na girls lang ang will have the propensity to read my blogs. its gender neutral pala ang blogging.
but it seems you have been blogging too long and therefore you have your sort of "groupi." hope the word is not offensive and if it is to others, i beg their forgiveness. how are they, your groupi? hehehehehehehee!
yeah writing is not about so much how one is grammatically correct or the spellings are right. or how prolific they are .its about conveying one thoughts. if one can relate and then be understood, that should be good enough. there are no right or wrong parameters to write or to blog for that matter, di ba?
i guess we have our own personal style of writing. mine i guess is sort of just talking to myself, sometimes randomly and then without direction. without direction i guess is acceptable. its sort of just wanting to be found. yeah i want to be found by that someone i want to be nervous with the rest of my life. is she out here in fff? let's see.
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what now?
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Aug 7, 2008 7:18 pm
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what now? i am on my fifth blog. what should i write? what if i have a mental block and i cant write anything? would that be still be blogging?
i seldom have a mental block, and even at my age i still have the control of my faculties honed by many years of healthy living. therefore i should be able to write - i believe. but what is there to write?
it seems and however, i am not so too sure about it, that when you blogged you have a cetain following - you become some sort of a star who are perhaps like or adore by others and yet despise by many. hmm i am not known to be egoistical, nevertheless i think there are few now who seemed to frequent my blog and give me the chastising i deserve for some of my provocative thoughts. maybe i truly deserves those unforgiving words. but i am a forgiving guy and therefore it offset and balance whatever i had said and done.
or maybe there was none and perhaps i am just making this up. to make up something is deceitful. am i? i believe not. maybe i am just apprehensive and seeing things that really is but just an apparation (sp?). hmm i hate apparation! to the bone!
was i really provocative or its just how i been perceived or maybe its juz how at felt at this moment in time. i know i am pretty tame and i havent began the salvo yet of becoming provocative. what if i become. where will it led me? please tell me!!!!!!
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i woke up!
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Aug 7, 2008 1:24 am
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i woke up and therefore i am awake. why is that so? its because i am excited about blogging that its has to interfer in the ways that i routinely live my life - that it has to be done regardless of the time of the day?
to blog therefore must be unhealthy, unhealhty to the point that we give up the way we soundly sleeps. is it and why not?
hmm, to be awake without no reason is just one of those episodes in our lives that we would like to find out why? i may be awake and got up not because of blogging. it maybe something profound than blogging. and how could be blogging be more profound than many other aspects of my life or the things that i do that are important to me? perhaps blogging is important and intoxicating - that its so irresistably controlling us in the ways we have not anticipated or i have not anticipated. could blogging destroy the fabric of our lives?
really? could blogging really destroy the fabric of our lives or perhaps its the other way around that it add meanings to our lives? perhaps!
i dont know. it remains to be seen and be validated. its too early to tell because this is only my fourth postings. what would you think?
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Logical sequence
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Aug 6, 2008 6:13 pm
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"Blogging can also be a therapy sometimes... Some sort of rationalization. A way of sorting out the things that are bugging a person and to organize them into this logical sequence and put them into this neat little categories... Yeah, please do try it." Airhead888
how can one be logical when one blogs? i thought blogging is just an spur of the moment thing. you write the stuff without knowing where to begin and what to say and in the process you either makes sense or not.
i can not be logical when i writes though i must agree that writings do come from the mind. but the desire to write something is certainly not coming absolutely from the mind but in other aspects of our being. the mind should be only a sort of vehicle to express how we feel. if its our feelings we want to share - therefore it could never be logical. feelings as i know it are illogically express.
i dont think i am into blogging because something is bothering me. pehaps i should or maybe i am blogging because something is bothering me, except that i am adamant to accept it. but if i do, then perhaps i want to be unaware of it. yeah that's it - UNAWARE!
when something is bothering us, then perhaps we are not in the right frame of mind to blog. then we maybe just doing injustice to ourselves and others because we are clouded by a troubling mind because of the things that bothers us.
whatever? so be it! but i rather not be logical in blogging nor be blogging just to sort out things that bothers me.
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enduring to do!
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Aug 6, 2008 4:43 am
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let's see if i would be - that blogging is one of those enduring to do or its just one of those that we put passion into but wanes as the day goes by, like the cultural anomaly that most pinoys have most appropriately described in a cliche," ningas kugon."
i hope not. but if it does, then at least there were moments in my life that i had willingly shared my thoughts to others, who most of them i have no clue who they are - but interestingly perhaps reading my blogs and finding solace in agreeing in what i post. or perhaps not and instead uncharacteristically disagreeing that somehow i dont make sense.
do i have to make sense to blog? or its enough that i blog? what's really the purpose of blogging? to be silly or to be serious or to be both. i wonder?
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i cross my fingers!
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Aug 5, 2008 8:21 pm
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yeah blogging? a new phenomena as far as i am concerned. but i wonder if i am up to it? do i need to have a sense of purpose to blog? what are the things i may write? it is appropriate to be too revealing or perhaps only share those that provocatively will invite attention from others?
i know i have the capacity to write and could be prolific at times. nevertheless why would my writings matter? because it would be different or because as just like others who writes, its but an affirmation of their desire to share their thoughts with others uninvitedly.
lets see if this is really something enduring to do. i cross my fingers.
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