My Momma always taught me: " A place for everything and everything in proper place. "
I'm starting to make a copy of my OLDEST blogs, since I started to blog last Jan. 13, 2006, then delete them from here. It would certainly affect the standing of my blog among the rest, but that's ok. I just want to do some " house-cleaning. " Makes for a lighter feel. I won't be deleting the more recent ones and others.
Thank you so much for your posts, and for keeping me company.
My special thanks to the people who've read my blog from the very start. The ones who've posted since then were Mommy Cherish, Agghh, Schoenberg, & Papa Scorpio. They are among the true friends I've found in this site. The others didn't post, but still, my special thanks to you. Thank you for actually running through page after page of my personal thoughts. I never expected that anyone would actually read them. lolz.
Have a great week everyone! Hope everything's ok at your end!
Often, I've realized that I've been living on certain personal rules, that are not only constipated, but also quite insane. The following are not to be followed by the general public and don't practise them at home, lolz:
1. I don't date married or attached men. 2. I don't date my friend's or my relative's ex. 3. I don't have s*x on the first date, eventhough I always go prepared. 4. I don't eat spaghetti on the first date. Too messy. In fact, I rarely eat on the first date. 5. I don't date virgins. Prefer someone who knows what to do. 6. Wouldn't date someone who isn't mentally stimulating. 7. Prefer to go out with someone who's easy on the eyes. Doesn't have to be very handsome, but someone nice to look at. 8. Don't want someone who sleeps around. 9. I don't fall inlove unless I've met him in person. No long distance relationship for me, unless there's a chance to meet up periodically. 10. I never make the first move, or make the first call.
Have you watched the film " John Tucker Must Die " ?
There was a part where John ( played by scrumptious Jesse Metcalfe ) was fooled into wearing a thong, and was totally humiliated.
But he turned that episode around. He set a new fashion trend. He showed other guys how convenient it is to wear thongs. " Allows more room, better swing. " Soon, all the men wore thongs, and were proud of it too.
Turning " bad " things around is one skill that could make a difference between a winner, and a loser.
She could just stay within her world, and enjoy the perks of her fame. But she is helping refugees in poor countries. She is an Ambassador of the United Nations.
She earns a lot, but she " saves one-third, lives on one-third, and gives away one-third. "
She looks for " her " children all over the world, who did not naturally and genetically come from her. And so she adopts poor kids.
Her sultry voice, full lips, intense eyes always land her a top place among the world's most beautiful and sexy women.
She did her own stunts in her action films. Got hurt, even suffered minor burns. Resumed work the next day.
She is a licensed pilot, and she soars the sky like an eagle, literally and figuratively.
She got " under his skin, " said one of the world's sexiest men. And they have a child.
In this world, there are so many women of beauty, but there is only one Angelina Jolie.
VN attended a group party. Amiga intro'ed VN to a guy. Let's call the guy "Debonaire."
Debonaire made it obvious that he liked VN since the start. He never left her side. It was a good match in many ways, but VN had to make sure that she wasn't stepping on any toes.
Amiga kept teasing and pushing the two to be a couple. But instinct made VN hesitate, eventhough Debonaire was not easy to find. She asked Amiga if Amiga liked Debonaire. And Amiga said that Debonaire would never consider her as a partner. When VN learned that Amiga had feelings for Debonaire, VN never went out with Debonaire again. So that she won't hurt Amiga's feelings.
He was inside a New York subway train, when he saw the lady with an elaborate braid and flowers in her hair.
He couldn't take his eyes off her. He couldn't find the courage to approach her, and helplessly watched as she went out at her stop.
He couldn't sleep and couldn't stop thinking about her. He created a website to look for her. He described her appearance and the details of her train ride. And he asked for help to locate the lady. One of her friends saw his note and immediately called the lady herself.
They met for the first time, a few days ago. They were even interviewed on national TV.
The guy kept staring at her while she was speaking. He looked positively captivated by her. The lady looked similar to Drew Barrymore. She's Australian. They made a lovely couple. Good luck to them.
What are the odds that they'd take the same train? What are the odds that a friend of the lady would be seeing his website?
1. Ask a trusted old friend if you have bad breath. If yes, determine if it comes from bad teeth, poor diet, or from your tummy. Solve it. No matter how much a woman is kind and patient, she'll eventually get poisoned by the smell. Trust me on this one.
2. If no one has told you that you are a good kisser, you are not a good kisser. Learn. There are 273 ways to kiss right. Find one or two that works and master it.
3. Smell the armpit area of your clothes. Breathe in. Did you get dizzy? If yes, throw those garments away. Solve the source of the power. Wash thoroughly with good soap. Use adequate deodorant.
4. Find and hold a good job. Be self-sufficient.
5. Don't kiss and tell. If you do, your reputation will get around.
6. Develop some masculine muscles. Please.
7. Take a good look at the mirror. Does something need improvement? Visit a dermatologist if necessary. A better haircut could do wonders. Observe the outward appearance of guys who attract women without any effort. Chances are, there is a look that would suit you. Go for it.
The old motto: " But she should take me for what I am" is true. But it's much better when you already hold the woman of your dreams in your arms.
8. Observe all the women. There is one who will stand out coz she is everything you ever wanted. Home in on that one person. Pursue her relentlessly. Stop playing with others. Coz she might already like you, but she sees that you are way too playful with other gurlz. Don't lose her just because of the shallow appeal of " harmless " flirting.
9. Keep your word. Honor your promises. Don't be too self-involved.
10. Pray. The woman of your dreams is also praying to find you.
Good luck! The world has only a few good men like you. It's about time to find a satisfying relationship with a beautiful and good woman. There are plenty. if you look hard enough.
Three months ago, a lady got shot in a convenience store. The other shoppers just went about buying stuff, while she lay bleeding on the floor. A videotape of the whole thing even showed that a lady shopper stepped over the slain woman, so that she can get some stuff from that aisle. When interviewed, the customers said they didn't want to be involved, coz they might get blamed for the crime.
At a casino, an old woman fell from her seat. A guy almost stepped out to help her up. But his friend restrained him from helping. Coz he might get sued if she discovers that she broke a bone from her fall.
At a parlor, a lady listens to her customer as the customer explains how she wants her hair done. The customer then bites her head off, for looking directly at the customer's face.
It is not hard to be mean, uncaring and indifferent, in this kind of a world.
The real challenge is to remain willing to help and still do acts of kindness, despite the real danger that a person may actually get a raw deal from it.
