"it is easier to conquer a whole city than tame a single tongue"
through the years..my goal has been to tame my tongue from sayin something hurtful ( eventhough there are times when it is soooooooooo much easier and justifiable to say something that could verbally wound someone who has hurt me bad )
instead, iv taught my tongue some more useful skills... lolz ( did i just say that? that's awful lolz )
a friend of mine gave me a book about the cure for memory loss, written by a medical doctor...and ofcors, i forgot where i put the book...found the book when i was looking for something else lolz
here's an excerpt from said book: ARE YOU EXPERIENCING MEMORY LOSS ***Do u forget a common word u often use and subsitute another in its place? ***Do u go looking for something, only to forget what it was? ***Do u forget names of friends/relatives/neighbors? ***Do u forget appointments? ***Do u forget the point ur trying to make, while ur still trying to make ur point? ***Do u misplace ur keys? ***Do u find it increasingly difficult to learn new things? ***Do u find it difficult to add numbers without writing them down? ***Do u have difficulty concentrating? ***Do u depend upon caffeine or other means to be mentally keen? ***Do u always feel fatigued? ***Do petty problems frustrate u? ***Do u frequently repeat urself? ***Do u occasionally get lost while driving, even in places u frequently visit? ***Does ur family/friends think ur more forgetful than ever b4?
according to Doctor Colbert, if u checked nine or more, u may have age-associated memory impairment..and if u checked 12 or more, u may have early symptoms of something more serious ( which im not going to post )
i have a point here somewhere...hmmm...oh yes...there are several suggestions to help people like me...will try to simplify the book's gist much later on.
new yr's eve 2003...no friends...no family...no money...no companion...i walked several miles to a public hospital, to stop my bleeding..pls dont ask the details now..but my real point is coming up soon...
since that day, i vowed two things: first..no real friend of mine will ever have to undergo medical treatment or even check up, without me being there with her/him..i shall be there, except if im also sick.
second..i vowed to find myself some real friends..and i didn't aim to find many..i aimed low and came up with genuine ones who make me so happy.
special thanks to my male bestfriend who sent me roses and choclits...and those beautiful people whose get-well wishes are deeply appreciated...my GT dbm, my mommy Cher, pretty Jan, atejules, my EL, my tootstwin Jan, Reno, Chris, Joy ganda, Petey, Henry, Flippy, Lhate..thanks guys..thanks again to Doctora Luc, my Angel te Maie, Meanne, Jopy and my bestfriend Issabel.. love you guys!!
...coz u dont have anyone to wake in the middle of the night incase you're sick, dizzy, and hungry ( except ofcors if u still sleep in the same bed with ur parents )
was brought to the hospital last fri...cant stand up without fainting...super duper dizzy...overfatigue.
will go back for check up today, but took a peek here, so that i can smile and smile for the rest of the day.
thank you friends, for keeping me company here...means a lot to me..will reply as soon as im able.
have a great day/evening y'all!
special thanks to Doctora Luc for her medical advice and immense help, and to Issa, Meanne, Dei, te Maie and Jopy for their thoughtfulness and concern.
have been in a long distance relationship before..have seen some LDRs work, and some fail..and here are some tips that made and broke them:
TRUST - agree with ur partner NEVER to take anyone's word against you, and NEVER take anyone's word against your partner..intrigues are an integral part of human relations and they are unavoidable, esp if the coupleship is known to all.
COMPLETION - it is unwise to expect another human being to provide you happiness, completion, entertainment...be complete in yourself...don't expect all your needs to be filled by your partner..whether long distance or not, the tendency to need like this, is not healthy and will most likely lead to tears.
JEALOUSY - jealousy is part of a relationship, but if mishandled, can drive the partner away..it will be wise to set a schedule for communication ( via phone or online ) to avoid misunderstanding..paranoia has no place in a healthy relationship.
INTEGRITY - be true, stay true, stay faithful.
UNDERSTANDING and COMMUNICATION - always try to see what the partner is goin through, always seek to understand, rather than simply argue.
KINDNESS - above all else, ALWAYS STAY KIND..don't burn bridges, never use words to hurt/wound, and never talk negatively about ur partner to anyone..bcoz words are powerful and cannot be taken back.
there are others who have important tips too..pls feel free to share them with us.
"out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks"
always kind always sweet always posts something neat always direct but doesnt forget to be a vessel of goodness and you need never fret coz she wont hurt coz she wont wound what u say to her she'd safe-keep real soon lots of friends abound lots of great peepz around but a woman with her beauty can't easily be found
