I've met quite a number of FFF chatters in person, and I've observed three guys who are exceptionally devoted to their respective families.
They found friends here, yes, but they always make it a point to be decent and extra careful not to appear as if they are flirting with anyone.
Two of them are part of the PLF group --- Lemonrock a.k.a. Sweet, and Toshima.
And the other one is someone I've met a couple of years ago. At first I thought he was single. He's got one of the wittiest sense of humor I've seen in this site. And he can really make me laugh out loud with his nawty jokes. If you watch him in the chatrooms, he may appear too nawty, but the fact of the matter is, he is one of the most decent men I've ever met. He looks out for me, keeps confidential conversations private, very sweet and caring, and is a good caretaker of my bag. lolz
His handle is rasecigop, and I fondly call him Papi. He is one of the true friends I found in this site. Check out his profile, if you want to have a good scare, a good laugh, or both. lolz
Always be cheerful. A sweet-tempered, gentle and fun person is always nice to have around. When he tells you problems in his office, use humor wisely to diffuse his stress and tension, but never make fun of him.
c. Unless you feel like you need to be hospitalized, always accommodate his intimate advances.
Lolzzz..sounds controversial, right? But hey, s*x is man's number one need, whether everyone agrees or not. To fill that need, every time he wants you bad, and in the most fulfilling way possible, is one of the best ways to ensure a terrific relationship. Ofcourse, if you and your partner are always giggling together and you are able to communicate about things without having any major issues, then it's almost a guarantee that you'd want each other badly, all the time.
d. Stay fit and attractive.
No matter how busy you get, make time to look attractive...for your own self-esteem..and for him. You don't have to be super glamorous all the time. Being simple but chic could do the work. You'd both stay in the winning end of the whole thing.
e. Stay neat with your stuff.
Men like orderliness. Keep your things simple, orderly, and neat.
f. Don't frown.
A major beauty products company used to say that the world's most beautiful women seldom frown, if at all. And you are one of the world's most beautiful women. If you don't believe that, start believing it now. Unless you're a guy.
Hmmmm...just liked to write a few things regarding this subject matter...care to put in your opinions? Life is an endless learning experience, and it's wonderful to discover some new ways to keep a relationship work. We shall talk about the other non-physical qualities later. Thanks for always being here. Hope all is well at your end.
Imma gonna need your own opinions on this. But pls allow me to enumerate some physical traits and personal habits which make a man a good partner. My list doesn't reflect the rank, I've listed them down as they came into my mind. Here goes:
a. Very clean with his body...all nooks and crannies...all the time..
I mean, love is unconditional and all...but can you handle body odor regularly, when you snuggle up? Hallerrr?
b. Very clean with his teeth...and total oral orifice...all the time.
You'd be engaging in absolutely delightful mouth to mouth, tongue to tongue action...how would feel if you accidentally untangle a semi-digested piece of roasted pork in between his molars?
I'm sorry but most guys I've observed weren't even aware that they need to see their dentists immediately..no offense meant.
c. Non-oily face.
Yes, scientists have discovered that emotions get more attached when lovers get to smell and taste each other's sebum ( facial oil secretion ) but too much would certainly be a turn-off, unless you're into a fatty diet.
d. Nice smelling scalp and hair.
I clean-dated a real live hunk once...all systems were almost go..until I got a whiff of his hair...at first I couldn't find the source of the unusual and unpleasant smell, until I tactfully asked what his shampoo was, and he proudly told me that to have healthy hair, a person must shampoo only once a month.
e. Clean and Nice-Smelling Clothes.
Need I say more?
f. Nice undies.
Have you ever peeled off a partner's undies that were falling apart at the seams? The garters were no longer elastic...holes in an unusual pattern..that sort of thing? I have..and believe me..it took lots of reserved love and respect just to disregard that detail. Next chance I got, I bought him nice sexy undies.
g. Clean Ears and Nape.
I kiss thoroughly...every part.
h. Short, clean Nails.
Ahh yes, they're important parts of the fingers...and fingers play an essential role in the art of love.
.....who is very important to me, but who is impossible to please.
How do I cope? I don't take the constant criticism and demands personally. I just go about my business and duties, and pray to God that the Lord himself sees all my efforts.
Is there someone like that in your life? How do you deal with it?
I fear rats. Big black rats. I can handle almost any other animal but not a big rodent.
Sometimes, we have to come face to face with the thing we fear most. And it came as no surprise when my worst nightmare came to pass.
A week ago, a big rat, it's body about nine inches long ( not counting the tail ) and as thick as combat boots, gained entry into my house somehow. I hired two people to track it down. Paralyzed with fear, I couldn't supervise them so I simply waited until they told me that they got rid of it. Then I personally boarded up all possible entry points and had the holes cemented. I know basic carpentry and stuff.
So, life went on as usual. Feeling falsely safe and secure.
Then the other day, I went to the bathroom and locked the door. After a couple of seconds, the monster rat ran towards the door, trying to get out. For a second, I thought it was just a bad dream. I can hardly believe that it could grow that big.
I can vaguely hear someone screaming, and eventually realized that I was hearing my own voice.
So, the monster and I chased each other around the small bathroom. My screams seemed amplified by the room's walls. I realized that the chase would go on forever, unless I open the bathroom door to let it out.
It ran over my right foot. I felt its wet and sharp nails. I reached the door, opened it, and out it went. I followed where it went.
At this point, the rat and I already shared some intimate moments in the bathroom, that's why I felt that we were already close. So, I temporarily overcame my fear, and hounded it until I discovered it's hiding place --- a nice quiet little nook inside a single seater sofa, unseen by human eyes. That's why it was able to hide from the two people I hired to kill it.
I opened the frontdoor. And I turned the sofa upside down. And watched as it scampered out of my house.
these days, when a streetchild or adult asks for some spare change, and you can only give one or two pesos...the beggar would get very angry and call you names, swearin at yah.
as if you owe it to them to give them money.
eventhough it's against the law to give money to beggars, esp in public places.
then the other night, i got home from work and was surprised to see a woman at my doorstep when i turned around.
"gimme some clothes," she said.
"i already gave away our unused clothes," i replied.
"surely there's one or two left for me," she added.
"why'd you choose my house to ask for this?" i asked.
"i'm going door-to-door," said she.
as i began once again to explain that i give my extra clothes to others, she cut me off and told me she needed clothes right that minute.
see...i'm one of the most stupid and most gullible people i know...lolz...so i went upstairs to look for clothes which i could give her..but couldn't find any...so i went back downstairs to tell her i didn't have anything to give her.
"why did you make me wait?!?" she shouted, "you wasted my time!!!"
