....and the Greatest Gift is LOVE Feb 10, 2009 9:21 am 629 Views "Because the greatest Love of all, is happening to me, I found the greatest Love of all inside of me" This is the line from one of the songs of Whitney Houston that speaks of LOVE and how great and wonderful the feeling is. Remembering the song makes me wanting to wish for the greatest LOVE one can ever feel.. I have talked to a friend here in FFF and learned from her the length of time she`s been a member here. For those four years, it`s only this few months that she was able to find someone who professed her true LOVE..a man she has fallen inlove with. Does this mean to say that most guys here don`t really know how to LOVE or don`t know the meaning of true LOVE? Will i ever feel wonderful because someone offered me his true LOVE? Will there ever be great Love here? Will i wait for 2 or four years like my friend to fall inlove again? We can find all kinds of friends and relationships here, but the greatest of all is LOVE. Will someone offer me the greatest gift of LOVE? 20 Comments

LET`S MAKE EVERYDAY A VALENTINE`S DAY... Feb 10, 2009 7:30 am 587 Views The present economic situation brings us bitterness, difficulties and stress. Giving one a hug, a kiss, a pat on the shoulder, or even words of love and praises, would at least relieve us from all these. Almost everyone talks or writes about where to go, what to receive and what to give on Valentines day, but wouldn`t it be wonderful if we celebrate Valentines day everyday? Why not show our love to our friends, families, spouses, loved ones by sending them notes of love, how nice someone is to you, what a good cook your wife or husband is, and saying `i love you` to them the moment they wake up in the morning? What if there`s no Valentines day to celebrate, would we still able to send love notes or say our `i love you`s` to them? A husband or a wife or a daughter/son comes home after work or school, isn`t it wonderful and soothing to have a kiss or a hug from the people they love? The world needs Love. We all need Love not only on Valentines day but everyday in our lives. HAPPY HEARTS TO ALL!! 7 Comments

LOVE...is it for the Money or LOVE coming from the HEART? Feb 10, 2009 4:09 am 617 Views What is really the meaning of LOVE? Why do people fall inlove? There are only two reasons why people fall inlove..loving someone because of his/her money, or loving someone because of who he/she is. Here`s a story of a woman who was courted by two men. The first man is very wealthy. He would shower her with expensive gifts almost everyday. He would send her flowers and even buy her things that she wants, even she wouldn`t ask for them. He spoiled her. The other guy on the other hand, couldn`t offer anything to her but his LOVE. He couldn`t compete with the wealthy man to win the woman`s heart. In the end he gave up, but with so much pain in his heart. The woman married the rich man of course. Years passed. The poor man saw the woman one day walking and looking very sad. He tried to catch up with her to say hello, but the woman walked very fast obviously avoiding him. He still has a heart for the woman, so he followed her. The woman entered a small house. The poor man wondered why she was there. When he reached the doorstep of the house, he heard a man`s voice shouting at the woman, `where have you been you f..cking w..re, we haven`t eaten yet`. `Did you bring some food for us?` The man walked away with so much sadness in his heart. Moral of the story.. Never love a man because of his money..it is not love, it is being materialistic..like the `wealthy` man in the story, he might just be pretending to be wealthy just to win the woman`s heart... LOVE a man for his goodness, for his kind heart for who he is, for his true LOVE.. 18 Comments

I Thought We Were Just Friends... Feb 10, 2009 3:20 am 633 Views Why is friendship taken for granted by some people..friendship that is so genuine and true? To You My Friend You came into my life when i was feeling so low Offering me friendship that is so great We had fun chatting almost everyday But in the end it was nothing for you. We almost hit it up but i thought otherwise Because for me, falling for you is not wise For how could my friend tell me `i love u` When i myself couldn`t fall for you. Now i am having second thoughts If i will still be a friend to you I am trying to avoid things that can`t be true In our friendship, i can`t really love you. I love you as a friend , perhaps that is true But you insist that love is different For friends like us will just remain friends. But who knows we can be more than friends in the end. 30 Comments

MY VALENTINE WISH......What`s Yours? Jan 30, 2009 6:11 am 1111 Views It`s almost February and we all know that it`s the LOVE month, which means Valentine`s Day is in the air. Maybe i am just having illusions about the best gift i can receive this Valentines Day......and who wouldn`t. With the romantic side in me, i would wish for a romantic dinner in a secluded place complete with candle light, a long stem of red rose that symbolizes love , or maybe red tulips that would symbolize warmth or a pink calla lily that would symbolize feminity and romance....and of course the usual bottle of champagne. In the background would be our favorite love song rendered by a famous violinist, or maybe just the sound of a rippling water from a brook or a stream. Lights must be dim and all i can see around are just silhouettes. On the table , i can only see the eyes of my beloved looking deeply into mine. After dinner, we would drive on a beach nearby, with the half moon showering us its tender light. Holding hands, we walk on the sand with our bare feet, stop for a while whisper sweet nothings and seal our loving words with a kiss. Then we lie down on the damp sand and gaze at the millions of stars as the witness to our sweet romance. Then we drive back to the cottage. My beloved will unwrap his present for me, a peach and sexily designed lingerie by VS. How wonderful it would be!! Now, tell me what`s yours.. Ladies, this is your opportunity to let your beloved know what present you want him to give you on Valentine`s Day 92 Comments

SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY... Jan 24, 2009 9:59 am 1697 Views A couple of days ago, i received an email from a friend who met a guy on this site. She fell in love with him. She even went to the US to meet the guy and married him. Now, they are living together. He was a gentleman, well-dressed, decent, well-educated and very intelligent. He seemed to be the kind of man every woman dreams to be with. But it was all a facade. He turned out to be the other way around after a few months that they were together. He is an abuser and my friend found out about this too late. He would hurt her physically whenever she looks at other men or does things that he doesn`t like. He would not give her allowance/ money which he used to do. He would not give her her passport and all the papers she needs to go back home. Worst of all, he brought home another woman in their house which left her to sleep outside their room. What an a..hole the guy is!! Now, the most difficult for her is how to leave the man she loved and has become her enemy. Can this be another lesson for those ladies who fall or have fallen inlove with someone on the net? Would you be able to sleep with a man who claimed that he loves you but in the end wouldn`t even treat you as a friend anymore? She needs help! What do you think we can suggest to her? She`s helpless!! 150 Comments

A Relationship that Never Materialized... Dec 25, 2008 6:25 am 3361 Views met this guy one hot summer day so wonderful that no one can`t deny.. for who wouldn`t, as he was so gentle but we`re not meant for each other after all.. he expressed love so dearly and said love was a mystery.. words of endearment he was so generous that i thought everything was precious.. then one day he wrote me a poem and was so happy to read it when i got home from New York with love he wrote so loving and sweet i thought.. then one day i saw him online said hello but no reply.. what on earth is going on and saw him chatting with another one.. waited for his reply for hours until my eyes got tired i went to sleep with sadness thinking what has transpired.. `let go` dictates my mind `use your common sense and don`t be blind.. internet love is impossible for someone far from visible. i soon have realized internet relationship is only for few.. love from a distant is a risk now, it will be a difficult wish. Note: This is my personal experience here in FFF...the place of origin of the letter was changed as a respect to the guy concerned..i`ve written it in a poem.. My question now is, are you in favor of a Long Distance Relationship? (LDR) Please share with me your experiences..this one of mine is not so inspiring though, but i`m sure some of yours are.. I am posting the poem sent to me by my special friend..i won`t be surprised if some of you have received similar ones... Here it goes... For My Dearest Lyn, i felt the love the other day across the ocean so far away to be so far, to be so near to hold you tight is in my mind but out of sight, i feel you with me both day and night you know ive thought of you tonight with all my prayers and hopes held tight the day we meet is close in sight i watched the sun set in the west to wake my love from her sleepless night the day will come, i have no fear when we will hear the sounds of birds to wake us from our first, not last sleepless night.. With All my Heart, D.. 383 Comments   (Page:1 2)

New Year`s Resolutions...Anyone? Dec 1, 2008 1:55 am 1061 Views I just want to share with you a text message from a friend that somehow brightens my day and makes me smile everytime i read it. Hope it will be the same with you.. Do you have your own new years resolutions? Note: Sorry to those non-tagalog readers..this wont be as effective as it is if it was written in English. 1. Hindi na ako mgangangako....PROMISE!! 2. Hindi na ako mag-iingles ...NEVER AGAIN!! 3. Hindi na ako magsusugal.....PUSTAHAN TAYO!! 4. At hindi na ako magsasalita ng tapos...PERIOD!!! 9 Comments

my unrealized dream Nov 28, 2008 3:15 am 1164 Views <<<<the pic on the left depicts one of my dreams that never came true...just one of those dreams i would want to be when i was a little girl but then, a very good friend of mine made me realize this dream , even in a pic....and this dream will always remain a dream forever.. thank you my good friend...wherever you are, i hope that all your dreams, big or small, will all come true. can anyone share his/her dreams with me? 23 Comments

Who touches yours? ... Nov 13, 2008 6:26 am 1179 Views If you were to choose the person you would want to live with for the rest of your life, who will you choose..the person who loves you or the person you love? This question has been asked and heard many times...many at times been answered too. I would always think that this is a very easy question to answer but very difficult if you think about it the second time around.. Most people would end up hurting each other in the end because of the wrong notion of love..of course with the exception of some people i personally know ..some people would profess love for each other even if they havent met in person yet..and some are happily married and living together, but im still wondering if they`re really loved by the people they`ve chosen.. Now the question is.. who will you really choose as a lifetime partner, the one you love or the one who loves you?..well, I `d rather choose the one who loves me, for how can you live with the person who `doesn`t love you at all..that is really difficult.. For me, LOVE is the most wonderful feeling that no amount of money can buy.. The heart is full of love which can be touched by SOMEONE SPECIAL...WHO TOUCHES YOURS? 26 Comments

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