How many ways can I love you
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Posted:Oct 1, 2006 7:29 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 11:38 am 692 Views
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how many ways can I love..
about as many as the moments within a minute, and the minutes within a day.. and the days within my lifetime..
and it's such a disparity in the over-all of life that.. the challenges to simply share it.. meet's with such .. dis-unity of a social enviornment. that.. is less conducive, to it being actualized in an ever flowing .. sharing..
Life should be as simple as .. feeling it, expressing it and letting it live and be living.. in the simpliest form of it's being..
but.. I let it flow freely thru smiles.. even when I can't share words..
and when I can't smile.. I let it come actross in appreciative thoughts..
and at times those thoughts get to live as compliments given..
but always.. I seek and too, find many ways.. to let.. it be love..
even unto those who'd reject such naturanalness of what is loving.. I can still think of what's beautiful.. of the world and the reflections of what it encompasses in even a glimpse of others..
and .. so in my heart.. I find.. always many ways.. to love. and let it feel .. loving's truths and realness.
I need not hold.. all that loves presents, but I can behold all that love is.. and everything it presents.
reach unto life and it touches you gently..
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what "Love" is..
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Posted:Oct 1, 2006 6:55 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 11:38 am 673 Views
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Love is what is our lives.. "Loving relations" are what we make when we share it..
Without love there is no life.. But love is ever-present all the time, we shroud it behind so many things, sometimes people can't even see the love that is within themselves, because they measure it against so many thing and judge it by some many things.. but if they think deeply.. "love just is".. and it is always love..
I think we think it's sometimes something more than what it is, and treat it as less that what it presents.. Because we are always expecting something more and different.. and deny it as being what it is..
Our expectations and temptations.. have destroyed a great amount of love's glow in so many and those many have done the same to other's love.. by looking for the infatuated instances to be there when .. they blind themselves to the fact that .. love, in it's natural element is always there..
People are quick to turn their backs on love and blind themselves to it, by what their expectations are, and what their temptations tell them to year for and expect.. and they miss out, throw away and mistreat the love that exist.. It's almost as if people expect to be on some constant entertained merry-go-round.. or they are quick to claim love is gone, but what is gone is the fact they.. "SOTOPPED"M, APPRECIATING THE SIMPLICITY OF LOVE.. in lieu.. of pursuing some entertaining fantasy of concept of being in a continually infatuated state of being and high level of flattering situations.. but that is where vanity.. as the Bible says..
" is a vexation to the spirit"
and a great deal of love, is ignored, passed over, dis-creditited, mistreated, abused.. used and stepped on.. and even rudely insulted..
Our media and romance novels, and the many people who make fortunes on romantic illusionary material.. has made people loose the concept of what love is and that love is a multidimensional. and multi perspective nature of what is life..
but as "ENTERTAINMENT SEEKER'S" as most people are.. they look for something of such sorts.. than to deal with the basic principals of what is love.. and they constrict the flow with attitudes, contempt’s and anguishes of all sorts.. because they want it to exhibit certain. high’s at their discretion.. so they say say.. " I’m not IN-love, because they can only see love.. if it entertains them to a high intensity of infatuated feeling..
that's the hedonistic element of the human character.. "pleasure seekers".. but many will deny that.. because they don't know that pleasure does not always have to be a high intensity laughing and smiling matter.. it can be just a contented feeling, a passive acceptance, and equilibrium of just being.. but.. people are so groomed to think that happiness is .. the response to some event or action.. when it's really.. just a point of peace in life. and living.
Love is.. always.. and always is." love"... simply "LOVE"
I expect many disagrees on this because.. I doubt that many will care to think within this to understand the perspective of it. and it poses a challenge to what is thought about love.. and it cracks that bubble of what is romance..
but if people considered the principal of what is love.. it may become more clear what is Love.. and that it is always what it is.. Regardless whom blinds themselves to it, or ignores it, or tries to surround it with expectations and temptations and wants of .. Emotional agitations of elations. that bring a flattering effect.
but if to the thinker's.. it will show how.. so many throw so much love away.. by expecting it to be "on demand".. to fit their whimsical wants and expectations of .. Flattering subsequences..
And that's such an injustice imposed upon what 'Love" truly is..
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High heel's ,fashion and make-up
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Posted:Feb 2, 2006 10:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2006 10:55 am 777 Views
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it actually started, as a method of giving a woman a short
and shallow stacatto step, which made her appear to suit
the image of fragile... and the incline, was to give the
illusion that she was on her toes, to be of service... and
it keeps the movenment of the hips to emphasise the butt,
and make the leg's look longer.. It's all about
erotica and the generations of ways to market sexual ability
or the impression of sexual ability, to attract suitor's..
We have to remember there was a time, women were not allowed
to work in western society, so she had to market herself
in the most provocative of manners..
Blusher, was worn to give the cheek's the look of being
flushed, which is how they naturally become when aroused,
and give that youthful redness, that is often naturally
seen in ..
Eyel liner and eye shadow was used, to give the eyes, that
deep somewhat sunken look, of what naturally is the appearance
when in the engulfment of passionate moments... and lip
stick, was too for the appearance of the lips, to look moist
and puffed with rushing blood, as when in the arousal of
passionate moments..
women wear these things, and have no idea what the history
of it evolved thru... and what it's meant to imply and
convey..
they wear it then get pissed when it evokes the response
that it was designed to make.. in general.. as if they have
some control over who and what it evokes in public.. so if
they want control of that.. then don't wear it..
but since that's not going to happen, they should have
some FULL awareness of what orgin it came into being and
what it's purpose was and still is..
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Nothing is New under the Sun
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Posted:Feb 2, 2006 10:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 678 Views
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there is nothing "new under the Sun", regardless how precious and private one thinks that their concept is...
when you can see ruin's being dug up after dirt has covered them for 1000's of years.. and the principals of life are the same... then what's to be hidden..
We have to have food, water, shelter, and we do get involved in mating.. everything else is just a matter of conviences available during the age of this time..
So what's the big secret..
We will live, and a time will come when we live no more.. and no one's secret's are going to change that.. and if something involved another person... then actually... " how much of a secret is it really"... you don't know what the other person thinks of it, or how they may have shared and communicated their thoughts about it. nor to whom or how many..
I would think if someone is suppose to commit their lives to be with another, how can you have room for secret's with that person, if that the person you are so called trusting and devoted to... and the minute people seek other's as confidantes, outside of the relationship, they open the door for the dissention and potential of damage .. of hiding parts of themselves from their mate..
so if you don't share it with your mate, then who are you going to share it with... and... if you don't share it ... are you really living your life full and giving your mate all of what is you and letting them beware of whom they are with..
It's no wonder. People break up and then go crying, that... " I never knew they were like this" , I never thought they'd do this to me ...and etc..
yes, I do expect to get lot's of disagrees on this, because I'm sure it's not things people like to think about, and don't like it to even be discussed... it makes people feel fragile..
But the truth is we are fragile, and we can find ways to be less fragile, when we stop hiding half ourselves from our mates.. all in the name of trying to be with some mystery..
Hell is it not enough mystery what the next minute in life will brings, without trying to create some pretentious interest and curiosity, to make one's vanity feel good, that they have someone mind clouded with doubts and curiosities..
some people love that BS, because to them.. they feel as long as they have the person confused, they have them thinking about them.. Yes, the BS games are very intricate.... when the reality is.. what??? Know and share the truth and it will set you free!!!!!!!!!!
but in a world of make believe and the search for mind-readers.. people don't express the truth in full as it becomes aware unto them..
fear of rejection, fear of summation, fear of any and every imaginable fear people can conjure.. and their life becomes stifled.. and they don't know how to feel, or what to express..
and love's fall apart... from such of this which becomes truthfully, in hindsight, "ignorance’s"... and we are all guilt of such.. but as it goes, ignorance is never and excuse that set's your free or makes you un susceptible to the repercussions ignorance invokes.. so we really have to leavern to find the level's that are within relationship that communication can function on multi-levels... and yes, it's a process of learing... but well worth the efforts... if you want you love to be full in what you hope for in pursuing the ideals, you have of what it may have capabilities of becomming.
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Astrology
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Posted:Feb 1, 2006 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 705 Views
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How does the continual discovery of new planet's affect the "Astrological signs"... and what does it do to the nature of influences of planet's when other factors ( planets) are introduced.. or as the media say's... "just found"
has it been out there all the time or did it just appear..
do we really know what is circling the universe we live in... or even what the universe itself is circling????
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"Meanings and Values'
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Posted:Jan 31, 2006 10:13 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 695 Views
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the devestation and losses, of all possessions,the loss of community, home and the seperations of families, and facing the reality that nothing will be the same. Not knowing where the start will begin to take shape and stability. This level of uncertainty, many of us can see and feel compassion, but really not know what the real meaning is, and the true feelings that exist in such tragic turns. We can believe in much that is man-made, but we see that nature and it's forces can change all and leave one with only their life, and the need to have faith to survive. Then, meanings and values take on new emphasis. Hopefully this brings awareness to each person who view's this tragedy, to know what is really of meaning and value; is people, and the respect and regard of others and, for one's self, and how important it is of how one lives their life.
Of recent, we have seen the floods in China, the tsunamis, and the devestation here in the southern region, along with the tormenting tragedy of the war ravaged areas of Iraq..and so many other events around the world.
at what point will it take before we as all people begin to see what really is of meaning and value, in this brief life we live.
I think myself, it's better to be kind, while we can, be considerate always, and to have and share compassion for the lives of other's, and be willing to give and share from your heart and of yourself. in thought's and actions. WE never know when we may become one who is faced with such tragedy and loss of all possessions.
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Erotica and Life
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Posted:Jan 31, 2006 10:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 834 Views
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we talk much of love... passions ... but what of pleasures..in the options of choosing mates..
the feeling.. what of the motivations that make a mate selection..
of the many things that attract people to one another..
how much of what is the erotica of desire for a mate.. actually,seals the agreement.. and make willing partner's and happy mates.
within the power of sex and what the explorations of sexuality infuses into the whole being..
expanding the mind, into what is erotica.. and what is erotic unto you and your mate..
the various arts of pleasures, the disciplines of desire... and such.. that promote the orgasmic self to feel... to the expanse of imigination.. and find pleasures beyond..
it's got so much impact .. that whether we conscienously acknowledge..
the instincts do not ignore.... what is .. of erotica and it's fusing of feeling into the mating of lovers..
just for the added expansion of .. what is available to consider, think about.. and things already thought about.. because there is so much to explore and share..pick and choose.. and see what in the real of want..and the truth of desire.. maybe relations here will pick up.. and matches can be found.
here's a link...
http://filipinofriendfinder.com
that has some very interesting accounts of peopl's varied insterest and experiences.. in seeking what is fulfilling..
and it's probably great... for many who really want to maintain a mate in a world that has such openess of what is of pleasure in the scope of what's in everyday life of desire.
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What a Trip........... why love wander's
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Posted:Jan 31, 2006 10:06 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2006 3:55 pm 751 Views
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Sometimes... there is not enough talking... and sometimes there is too much talking...
love being an expressive thing. Filled with a world of feelings and emotions.. Leading to it's highest glory thru understanding...
brought through to it's brilliance by appreciations and respectful considerations..
When these things.. Fade and fall out of sync...
love wanders...
What is the old saying...(Joke)... if you can't fight it, don't bite it... but if you lick it, be willing to stick it.. And if you stick it.. you had better want to lick it... and if you can't beat it.. eat it...and when you can't f*@k it, then suck it... if you suck it, you can surely f*@k it... and...When you can't go... then come..!!!
Guaranteed.. That gives lots of room for somebody to get satisfied
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"moments of Agitations"
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Posted:Jan 31, 2006 9:00 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 710 Views
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In this site, very few will or do respond to conversations about environmental, social and or political natured awareness, not even response to the dire potential of the pandemic that bird's flu could bring, not about global warming, or anything.. they pass right by those posting, in lieu of humor, and emotional drama scenarios'..
as if they are unaware that national and international tragedies, can change the whole scope of what they feel love is in their aspiration, and what they may have to realize in abandoning all the self encircled criteria’s..
natural disaster can wipe out all of that, and along with it goes these self encircled criteria’s... that prohibit and constrict love..
Look at some of the vet's that return from the war, mental impairment’s physical impairments and loss limbs and so many things, the Tsunami victims and how despair changed their lives..
All of a sudden if a tragedy hit's... all the standards seem to fade away, and people find they can love those whom they once despised, especially when they have a situation that mandates they receives help from one or a group or a ethnicity they did not care for before.. then they can look at the person and see them as an individual.. and maybe even then learn that can love them..
the availability and access to conviences, bring so many to have their prejudices built upon so many factors, which includes prejudices against and within their own ethnicity and race and etc..
so.. what is really sad... in this site and others..
with all the lovely people.. and all the silly criteria’s.. it's still a buch of lonely people, putting special bubbles around themselves, and they can't break thru... to love anyone, nor can anyone break thru to love them..
God can create despair.. that breaks that cycle into unrecognizable fragments.. and then people find the truth of needing each other..
And political problems can thus do the same... and can bring dire conditions to what may be once peaceful societies... we see it happing around the world..
In this site, it seems that sometime people don't accept their truth of mortality, and think they will live forever, in search of some idealistic mate that does not exist. What exist is people, who can learn and love one another.. if only people give it a chance..
but there are so few opinions expressed on some subject matter, it's amazing people even talk to each other about intricate things in relationships.. and when many make the effort,.. they end up .. frustrated, because it requires thinking, and they consider that stress and hassles.. and opt for the destitution of loneliness over.. utilizing their God given gifts of the ability to think and communicate. it's actually very depressing.. all these people that talk about love, then surround it with a bunch of excuses , and pretenses and prerequisite’s.. They couldn’t meet themselves if it was placed upon them..
So the fear factor… is even greater… for people tell each other “ white lies” and “polite lies”, for fear of being known as whom they are and what they actually think and feel..
So to get people to talk about political things.. is like pulling teeth with a pair of pliers..
But when you read the profiles, everyone claims they are so loving, so kind and so willing to love people form the inside of whom they are, which is bullshit.. they are still looking for the “ heat of temptation to overwhelm them”.. and then cry foul, when they find out what a tangled web they weaved and find themselves caught within their own web..Pretentding this or that is not important, but yet complaining about the same elements. And this is even further into insanity when it comes to sex.. everyone is so virtuous, but.. Reality finds, more relations breaking up talking about… you did not satisfy my needs..
Need’s they never tried to point blank say they had.!!!!!!!! Being too busy they to pretend sex does not matter. and then it’s becomes the only thing that matters. as they forget all about everything else that the relationship may have had going positive..
Some spend hours building profiles, that sound good, that are so far from whom and how they are as individuals.. they won’t or don’t comment on things, maybe some for fears of being seen as whom they are..
So… in these sites.. don’t expect too much… and filter what it is that you do get.. And seek what is in depth real.. and maybe … just maybe it may be possible to build some nature of honest relations and get honest feedback about subject matter and life.
But be aware, if sex comes up.. seems the whole site climb’s up on the high of self delusion and self exclusion.. and ride right off the cliff as if they blindfolded the . and themselves.
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"Supermarket of Love"
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Posted:Jan 28, 2006 8:23 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 795 Views
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could we consider the clubs and pubs just mini markets for love matches?, and our love searches in work situations and or meetings and seminars as the corner markets for love matches..
then we look at the supermarket of love matches..
which is the dating sites ..not categorized by aisles with placards.. but with categories by country, and various other categories...
do we come with a shopping list, with a serious intent to shop and make a selection... or do we go browsing just to see what's in the supermarket...
are we overwhelmed at the options and choicess that we move thru.. with eyes wide oopen.. and amazed at the choices.. that we shop both day and night... and find ourselves bewildered at the variables of choice..
We leave the market time after time.. with nothing...and vow to return and find a selectable choice.. and we scale the isles.. and read all the lables .. and become more confused as to our choosing..and days come and go...mounting into months.. moving swiftly into the years...
It's like many of us have heard... never go gshopping when you are hungry..because then everything looks good.. and we select things on whims.. to satisfy craving.. and get home to find tht we did not get what we wanted.. and forgot what we were actually looking for.
do we go about feeling and squeezing the fruits, taking samples from the promotionals tables set up along the isles..
we pick up the meat and look it over and check the packaging, and sometimes pick one to find the fresh meat is packed on the top but beneath it's the aged meat that is near to spoils..
do we go for the canned goods... tht have the bright colored lables and the fancy shelf display, and find out that the product quality is somehow missing in the natural flavors.. that were expected..
How about going down the bread isle, and we see the fresh baked as if we are looking at the latest fashions dress,not realizing that it's spoil date is so near that we cannot eat it before it turn to spoils...and then we see the ready to eat isle... that only fills us for the moment.. and leave us with needs to return and shop again tomorrow...
so it comes to Shopping tips...to research.. which we do that by communiating...and through communicating we find if the quailty is truly within the package, and the ingredients that go into the chosen package..how much is natural and how much is manafactured and how much is staurated with preseratives.. as with some whom.. have prescribed..formulations...thatbreak down over time and leave us wondering what we had choosen..
Love's supermarket...is still .. for the choices of the wise and prudent..
and the self assured of what they desire to shop to find.
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