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Normal ???
Posted:Jun 27, 2017 6:00 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2017 11:24 pm
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In today's world "normal" seems to be a vague term. How does one define normal in a world of diversity.
One show i happen to come to see was "The KIngs" on TLC(travel and living asia). It was a story of a man married to a celebrity(Joey Mead). The "man" used to be a man He rode fast cars, he was a race car driver, worked out until he was macho, typical alpha male. He fell in love with Joey Mead who he married. Then he finally decided he wanted to come out of his hiding. HE initially crossed dressed. His friends were shocked especially his best friend who was devastated.
He actually wanted to become transsexual, get an operation to become a :"she". What interest' me is they still want to be married, they still kiss even in front of the camera. They were still you couple, yeah you know the love and respect was there but what about the normal sex????
Or should my question be is sex part of the normal married activity/ Or ms joey mead would prefer a lesbian relationship??
So tell me what is you take on this ??
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NEURODIVERSITY
Posted:Jun 23, 2017 8:46 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2017 11:23 pm
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Different people, differently wired. I always thought the term started with autism.
NEURODIVERSITY is a bio;logical characteristic of the human species and not a viewpoint or a lifestyle. Autism is just one of the manifestations(gay, lesbian, black, etc).. neurodiversity paradigm, neurodiversity movement are but few of the terms we need to understand to be able to shift from where we are now where we tend to give a label to one and then assume that they are the minority or the "better" specie. Please read up on neurocosmopolitan and the art of autism where much of what i talk about neurodiversity is found.
.i learned so much form my sons. All i can say is that they are different primarily in how they see and understand things. And that we need to give them that empowerment, and to all people labelled like they are through our words, our actions, our thinking.
When we label them, we tend to limit what we know they can do. If one opens their minds and get to know one person with autism, they will find out they are brilliant individuals, even those who cannot speak or express their minds. Just because they are unable to speak like we do, we pass them on as "less". Have you heard of the nine year old boy who has been writing bestselling books.
My older son can listen to any music and play it on any instrument. You may never hear him talk or get into a conversation, but once you start talking about the orchestra you better get ready to be lectured
What my older son lacked in conversation, my younger son got. He can talk and can answer. I once told him I am angry at you and i am not talking anymore. He told me, mom you are autistic.
Always do spread loving kindness to everyone. You never really know what they are going throuhg
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life's mission
Posted:Jun 11, 2017 10:58 am
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2017 7:42 pm
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was gonna post a mission impossible bakground sound but i belie anything is possible
since i was blessed with two boys with autism it has been my life's mission to make sure this universe accepts them the way they are.
Neurtodiversity is what they call it today. People are wired differently and learn differently. They are kids first and foremost. They can be rough and noisy and just a handful. But they are wired differently in a way thst makes them see things we don't see or understand things we never can understand.
Last friday while watching their swimming session, there was a non verbal kid swimming with them. Like any normal kid he likes to play in the water.
It was when he removed his briefs for a trunks that the adults started to panic. His teaching assistant took him to a corner of the pool to force him into wearing his briefs. The child started getting angry and started hitting, biting his teacher. Teacher reacted with anger. I started asking his caregiver that he was used to taking a bath naked. His mom said he doesn't like to wear the tight trunks.
I asked the teacher to get away from him because he was also angry and nothing will happen. Next I called the kid's name and to my surprise he turned to look at me. I told him, if you do not wear your trunks, you will go home. No more pool for you. The struggle went on for sometime with his teacher until finally his father decided to take him out of the pool to teach him thst he cannot hasve the pool playtime if he does not wear his trunks.
Lessons learned: 1. I am connected to him in a way, making him pay attention when i called his name. It was my first time to talk to this kid although i have knnown his mom for sometime now. This affirms my mission further.
2. Tell caregiver to let him wear trunks when he takes a bath or discuss issue with his occupational therapist.
3. Find a way to communicate wuith the kid since we were not able to find out what he wanted about wearing trunks in the pool. Sensory issues may come into play here.
And so it goes, there is so much to do for these kids in here where we are. It will take a lot of work to start them into getting jobs or having companies open their doors to them. First and foremost we, the parents need to get together to create the loving, accepting, understanding society we want for our children.
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don't save it all on christmas day
Posted:Dec 22, 2016 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2016 8:30 pm
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again celine is my best played christmas cd on. i guess i get sentimental especially on christmas when love is all around. spread the fire everyday not just for the season. give someone a hug not just a gift. spread the fire of love around so that the world will know there is that fire. not the fire of anger that is spread in aleppo or by angry and hungry people. lessed christmas to one and all

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Celine, these are the special times.
Posted:Aug 26, 2016 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2016 7:46 pm
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Browsing through my cd collection I saw celine's first and only christmas album that I bought. Started listening to it Yeah in the end of August, but hey it made me happy and even danced to it So hey let's sing it and talk about what it has to say
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Don't Save It All For Christmas Day"

Don't get so busy that you miss
Giving just a little kiss
To the ones you love
Don't even wait a little while
To give them a little smile
A little is enough
How many people are crying
People are dying...
How many people are asking for love
Don't save it all for Christmas Day
Find a way
To give a little love everyday
Don't save it all for Christmas Day
Find your way
Cause holidays have come and gone
But love lives on
If you give on
Love...
How could you wait another minute
A hug is warmer when you're in it
And Baby that's a fact
And saying "I love you's" always better
Seasons, reasons, they don't matter
So don't hold back
How many people in this world
So needful in this world
How many people are praying for love
Don't save it all for Christmas Day
Find a way
To give a little love everyday
Let all the children know
Everywhere that they go
Their whole life long
Let them know love
Don't save it all for Christmas Day
Find a way
To give a little love everyday
Don't save it all for Christmas Day
Find your way
Cause holidays have come and gone
But love lives on
If you give on
Love...

Right on!!! You don't wait to say I love you or make every o=ne you love feel love. Yeah I am guilty of that with my parents, but with my boys I remind them, kiss them, hug them all the time I remember in the day. And yes, you don't need to wait for All souls day to visit your loved ones who passed away. Talk to, visit them, tell them you love them. If you are far from them, say a prayer for them, remind them you thinl of them not just on All souls day.

Sing it again baby
"Another Year Has Gone By"

So many 25th's of December
Just as many 4th of July's
And we're still holding it together
It only comes down to you and I
I know you can still remember
Things we said right from the start
When we said that this could be special
I'm keeping those words deep down in my heart
Another year has gone by
And I'm still the one by your side
After everything that's gone by
There's still no one saying goodbye
Though another year has gone by
I never been much for occasions
You never let another birthday go by
Without announcing how much you love me
But the truth was always there
Right there in your eyes
And we're still holding hands when we're walking
Acting like we've only just met
But how can that be - when there's so much history
I guess that's how true lovers can get

This song just makes me long for that equal i ....long for so long. Yeah it makes me smile of the love between two individuals who have found each other sharing their lives together still holding hnads Nic one really!

Now move it and dance sing it ok
"Christmas Eve"

Snow falling gently on the ground
'Tis is the night before
And in my heart there is no doubt
That this is gonna be
The brightest holiday
'Cause here you are with me
Baby, baby, I can't wait
To spend this special time of year with someone who
Makes me feel the special way that you do
Walkin' with you in a winter's snow
Kissin' underneath the mistletoe
People smiling everywhere we go
It's Christmas Eve and they can see we're in love
Ooh, you make the season bright
With the lights reflecting in your eyes
All my dreams are comin' true tonight
It's Christmas Eve and I can see we're in love
We'll stay up late tonight
Decorate the tree
Just look into my eyes
And I will tell you truthfully
That I don't need no Santa Claus
To hear my Christmas wish
I got you in my arms
And what could be a better gift
Than to spend my very favorite time of year
With the one I really love so near, Oh Yeeeaahhh
Walkin' with you in a winter's snow
Kissin' underneath the mistletoe
People smiling everywhere we go
It's Christmas Eve and they can see we're in love
Walkin' with you in a winter's snow
Kissin' underneath the mistletoe
People smiling everywhere we go
It's Christmas Eve and they can see we're in love
Ooh, you make the season bright
With the lights reflecting in your eyes
All my dreams are comin' true tonight
It's Christmas Eve and I can see we're in love
Walkin' with you in a winter's snow
Kissin' underneath the mistletoe
People smiling everywhere we go
It's Christmas Eve and I can see we're in love
Now that was fun ain't it Let's give us a hand there
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in the heat of it all
Posted:Aug 25, 2016 9:06 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2016 7:44 pm
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when horniness strucks, what does a single man/woman do?
Men have their left and right. So do women.
Men may go take the risk and go for a prostitute. So do women have men who will get paid to get them scratched
Then in today's technology, there are toys for everybody One can even adjust the intensity of the thunder
What does a catholic pinay do?
She prays for a man and wait?
She goes to her pastor to confess?
Just one of those thoughtsI know I just cant talk over so i ask here where anyone can give anytth though as far the imagination goes
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the music in him
Posted:Jun 11, 2016 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2016 10:06 pm
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when he was just a baby, his mom loved to play classical music while he sleeps. years later, when he can read, his interest in classical music appeared, knowing every title in the cd he was listening to. some more years, he started to play the keyboard. his mom noticed, he listens to one piece over and over until he can play it on his own. he never had any formal instruction then. it was called perfect pitch. do not show him the keyboard, play a note and he will play it back to you.
he was enrolled in a keyboard class to allow him to learn more. two years and he got bored with the classes.
he is a boy out of the box. he learns not in your traditional ways.
by then he had his own keybpard and a trumpet. He still loves his bach and mozart and beethoven and chopinand he plays them on his instruments.
just like any kid his age, he loves his gadget. oftentimes he is allowed to download whatever musical instrument he wants on the gadget unless his mom can afford to buy him every instrument on the orchestra his dream is to play bach or beethoven with every instrument on the philippime philharmonic orchestra and some uk orchestra he has been looking at.
he has downloaded one composer on the phone he uses.
he lives with grandparents who are very traditional and has to live by their rules.
setting him free to learn, finding one mentor who can lead him to his love for music, guiding him to the philharmonic orchestra, HE WILL SHINE!
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Thee ELR Telenovelas
Posted:Jun 5, 2016 2:08 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2016 3:34 am
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Got together recently with fff friends who has been cohabiting the ELR(forgive the pun folks since my language is akin to duterte when i am here) Yeah i take a peek at elr every now and then but not enough to give me a clue on the drama that happens to people inhabitting elr
First up Was told ass_ungot is delicious Well remains to be seen since i have my own taste in men. Delicious for me is one with a lot of grey matter in between his ears. Although he speaks like he has a lot of grey matter, that has to be paired with something that can be seen So ass, you mind if i take a peek at ya
Nexp up Dimasalang. i honestly don't know what name he goes by nowadays but if he starts chasing you, that must be him He chases anyone and everyone who wears a skirt and pants Used to think he also fgoes for a skirt with some grey matter in thwem but then again, maybe things have changed and he will chase anything He does have something going with vixen. There are times the vixen will get interested in that what dimas is chasing. Sometimes to the point of getting jealuos. Maybe she should just put dimas on a leash so she can keep him chasing anyoe and everyone. Idk coz sometimes she can lash out the person being chased by dimas He shows off his pink panties every now and then to those who are interested.
And dimas has an arch enemy. His name(i do get senior moments ) This guy picks a fight with anyone dimas chases. Maybe they are both bading since they can only scream and shout at each other in the chats. They refuse to take it out and punch each other in the face
And there are those who love to make up stories and announce them in the chat room. They need to make stories for every personality they have, sometimes they get confused with what story they are telling and get it all mixed up Well they get mixed up with their own web of lies i guess
And there are love stories, imagined and in the proces also imagine other women trying to take away the loved one. Feeling inaagawan sila ng lalaki
Yes, as long as there is elr, the telenovela never ends. Get yourself entertained. But be warned, don't get involved or you become part of the entertainment
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on and on
Posted:May 26, 2016 6:07 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2016 2:09 am
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like a candle....
losing life
in a circle that never ends
refusing to give up
struggling to raise my head
to breathe
to live....
at the end of the day
longing for that hug
for that kiss
for that smile
it goes on and on
fearing in time i will break
hoping in time he will come
to cushoion that break
wherefore art thou......
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just wondering...
Posted:Dec 13, 2015 7:38 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2016 5:52 pm
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yeah, yeah, was just wondering how it would be like to kiss those luscious, delicious lips of this guy
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