But until forever is here, until a lifetime is lived, and until eternity gives me a chance to say everything, I will hold you in my heart more gently than any feelings. I will feel blessed by your presence more than you will ever know. I love having you in my life and I'd love to go on loving you forever.
Picture this: a magic potion that might guarantees enduring love. Just one drink of this potion and your relationship will never go stale or be ruined by sulks or suspicion – sounds pretty good, huh? Try!
BE IN HIS CORNER
1. Always be honest – but not cruel 2. List five nice things you used to do for each another 3. don’t let your anniversaries pass you by. Put disagreements on hold to celebrate your shared past, present and future 4. make a rule never to argue or put each other down in from of other people
DEFUSE FIGHTS
6. call a cease-fire during a heated debate. Let him speak uninterrupted for 10 minutes. When he is done, it’s your turn to talk 7. if all else fails, make each other laugh by pulling funny faces to get your point across. You wont stay angry for long. 8. don’t try to change each other. We were friends before we got together, so we knew most of each other’s faults
KEEP COMMUNICATING
9. before launching into an argument, imagine the positive outcome 10. agree on a signal to use during big fights, like holding up both hands to calm each other down 11. have a discussion outside the confines of your home. Go for a walk together and give the relationship a fresh perspective 12. it’s easy to let the niceties slip in a relationship, but don’t stop saying ‘please’ and ‘thanks’ to each other. 13. if you’ve got a complain, begin by saying ‘I felt upset when….’ Rather thab ‘you really annoyed me’ this approach removes any criticism and prevents him from lashing out in defense 14. remember you’re accountable for every word that come out of your mouth, whether you mean it or not. So think before you speak, or you’ll likely regret it. 15. let your partner know when he’s done something that you really appreciate. It creates a positive mood.
AMP UP THE ROMANCE
16. make special romantic gestures. If one of you gets sick, a delivery of DVDs and homemade soup shows you care 17. set the table for an intimate dinner. Light candles to set the mood and eat with the TV and your mobiles turned off. 18. surprise him with down to earth romantic gestures. Wash his car or book his favorite restaurant for dinner 19. scents have an amazing power to change your mood. Spray your bed linen with jasmine or a sexy fragrance 20. we make each other laugh. It might be a cliché but it’s important
LEARN TO COMPROMISE
21. look at each other. New couples do this 75% of the time, but in long term relationships, this percentage drops. 22. share your hobbies with him, but pursue your own interests, too. 23. show him u trust him by letting him do his own thing, without nagging him about it, and he’ll happily divulge all the information I want. It’s a little bit sneaky, but it really works! 24. although arguing is always painful, it is good to discuss issues. And making out upwards is always fun 25. cherish those moments of intimacy where only u two share a joke 26. showing u need your partner is important
MAKE HOME SWEET HOME
27. discuss your stress but don’t overload him. Instead have a phone moan with your girlfriends sometimes. 28. after a hectic day, touch base with a few kisses, then retreat for half an hour alone to wind down 29. make time for a cuddle everyday, it is always worth it.
SUPERSIZE YOUR SEX LIFE
30. focus on passion. Not having sex for a week will make you crave each other’s bodies even move 31. don’t waif for bed to make a move on him, send him a racy text at lunchtime, describing just a taste of what you’ve got in mind for later
This are just a few of the ways on how to make a relationship last.
I have always wanted you to feel assured of my love… undying love even if I won’t be around anymore. I had always dreamed of the life I would be sharing with you… the family that we are going to build… I had everything planned in my mind… my life with you. Unfortunately, it was somehow shattered upon hearing the bad news, that i am sick and i soon will have to leave you . I wanted to break down and cry because my dream will no longer be fulfilled but would remain a dream and a memory. I didn't know how to react. I didn’t know at first if I should tell you. I hesitated to tell you not because I don’t trust you nor I am doubting your love. I didn’t want to tell you because you might leave me now, before God takes me away from you. That's the last thing I want right now - seeing you leave before I get to close my eyes. This is the least that I want… I don’t want to put an end to what I have now… to what I am doing… to what I still need to do. I want to see my son grow up. I want to bear another child… hopefully a daughter. I’m still hoping that I would be given more years with you… I still believe that somehow miracles do happen.. Anyhow, if my purpose on earth has been served and I really have to leave, through this you will find out how much I love you and how much I wanted to live my life with you… how much more I wanted to give of myself to you. How I long to see you, have you here beside me, be with you and spend my life with the man I love. JUST ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND WILL LOVE YOU …. EVEN IF I’M NOT AROUND ANYMORE.
Every time you ask me this question, I always have a hard time answering. But that doesn't mean that I don't really love you because I do. It's just that I don't know how to say it. The answers to your question are all in my mind but I still find no words to translate them. It's like my mind has it's own language that I completely understand and yet I don't know how to express them in words.
I love you because of the way you let me trust myself in you and the way you let yourself trust me; the way you convince me that I'm the only person that you love, that we would be together no matter what happens, and that you would always stay by my side.
I love you because you always make me feel special with the tenderness of your voice and the sweet words you utter.
I love the way you make me laugh and smile;
I love your courage to tell me what I have done wrong and the way you admit that you have done your faults, the way you say sorry and the way you scold me, the way you teach me and the way you understand me...
These are just a few reasons and these reasons are not enough to tell you how much I feel. I LOVE YOU SIMPLY BECAUSE I LOVE YOU
LOVING YOU IS THE GREATEST GIFT THAT I COULD GIVE HAVING YOU IS THE GREATEST TREASURE I HAVE EVER FOUND
What is the most important thing in a man and woman relationship besides love?
Is it HONESTY, TRUST, GENEROSITY, LOYALTY, UNDERSTANDING OR COMMITMENT? If there is LOVE, would all the stuffs aforementioned surely follow?
Well, I think the heart of every relationship is the little things that you do to your loved ones to show that you are really sincere in loving him/her. We shouldn't count what we had done to him/her but what we still haven't done to make him/her happy.
We all want to be sure that the person we envisage to spend the rest of our lives with is the right one.
Are you in a relationship with the RIGHT ONE for the right reasons? Are you with the ONE WHOM GOD has chosen for you? Or are you just in love with love?
