Take a lot of them... Coz honestly, no matter where u end up and with whom... it always end up just the way it should be... Your mistakes made who u are... You learn to grow w/ each choice u make Say how u feel always... Be you!! And be okay with it!!!
Rituals are important because they serve as markers for our lives and relationships. Many people think that rituals are always religious in nature, but birthday parties, anniversary celebrations, award ceremonies, family gatherings, vacations, holiday dinners, even the fishing trips we take with a son or daughter are cultural rituals that unite us and enhance our connectedness.
Embrace the cultural rituals in your life. Take pictures and remember together. Memorialize family stories: "Hey remember when grandma Smiley posed in the beach?" Cherishing special times will allow you to store up your happiness for the hard times that are sure to come to us all.
"Special occasions are the ties that bind."
It is right to celebrate. This coming 4th of December is my golden birthday. I would like to thank all my friends here in FFF..for being good to me and to those who have gone the opposite of good...peace be with you...God is watching us. You all will be in my thoughts on my special day, wishing that you are all here with me celebrating my internship to senilehood May God bless us all and see you!!!
Set a tone of happiness for the day by smiling as soon as you wake up each morning. Smile first at God, saying in your heart... Thank you for watching over me all night. Smile second at the remembrance of at least one good thing that happened the day before. Smile third at the thought of all the opportunities and blessings that await you during the day. Smile fourth at the thought that God will be present throughout the day to help you with every crisis, challenge, or obstacle. Smile fifth that you are alive and smiling.
Nov 29, 2007 5:56 pm Mood: enthusiastic, 829 Views
Until the Wright brothers did what seemed impossible, man was unable to take to the skies. How far we have flown since then! And yet, no flying machine has ever matched... the beauty of a butterfly... as it colors the air of a garden with its vibrantly designed wings.
The mystery and beauty of the butterfly... lies beyond its ability to fly -- in its miraculous transformation from a lowly caterpillar. Through its example, we discover that the grounded and limited can soar in unlimited flight, the bound and lifeless can be free and vibrant, the dull and colorless can become beautiful and inspiring. Chase a butterfly, and glimpse the power of the possible.
"Happiness is soaring with the wings you have been given."
Nov 24, 2007 11:03 pm Mood: contemplative, 883 Views
Busy schedules sometimes mean that attention to exercise and good nutrition falls through the cracks. We all have these lapses, but the wise man or woman understands that neglecting the proper care of our bodies can be a serious obstacle to happiness.
Both exercise and nutrition are deeply related to an internal sense of balance and emotional well being. Both are vital to energy levels, strength, and basic good health. Most importantly, both are directly related to a strong inner core of contentment, which can be your only link to happinesswhen the firestorms of life come your way.
"As the body gains strength, so does the inner self."
Secrets can be wonderful and therapeutic. They can bring us great joy and emotional release. They can strengthen the bond between people and allow us to share in the happiness of others. Sharing confidences can also mean that people trust you enough to make themselves vulnerable. When that happens there is great virtue in keeping the confidence.
Protecting the secrets others confide in you is an expression of love. It is a guarding of relationship and a priviledged responsibility. It's reward is a good night's sleep, strengthened character and constant friendship.
"A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret." -Proverbs 11:13
We live in a consumer culture -- one that values possessions and experiences more than people. And yet, somehow we know that these things can never give to the human heart what it desires most: loving relationships and a sense of self-worth.
To experience genuine happiness, it is necessary to strike balance between the pursuit of things and a solid investment in the lives of others. The best of all plans is to USE THINGS for the purpose of EXPRESSING LOVE TO OTHERS
True wealth and true happiness come from loving relationships
Getting older is a lot more than adding wrinkles, submitting to aches and pains, and watching your children leave home. Age is a record of your days. And it bears gifts - namely wisdom and confidence.
So continue to celebrate those birthdays. Think back over the challenges you have conquered in the past years. Remember the victories and cherish new accomplishments.
Catalog the insights you have recently acquired, and thank GOD once again for every day He has given you.
Regard AGE as a gift.
Life is most delightful when it is on the downward slope.
It's three in the morning You're nowhere in sight And all that I wanted was To be with you tonight I've watched love get closer And then fade away I've seen you believe in me I've seen you trying to stay gut what good is holding on When you know that all You can think about is letting go They say if you love someone Then set them free If they come back again Then in the end it was meant to be I thought we were lovers I thought we were friends I guess when reality steps in The dreaming ends We live for the future We learn from the past No matter how hard we try Some good things never last All you can think about is letting go Be true to yourself, my love That's all I ever wanted you to be Just don't forget to smile When you think of me I' II reach for the stars I have got them in sight There's someone who really needs me Out there in the night We'll live for the future We'll learn from the past No matter how hard we try Some good things never last Why can't they last?
I stand up for myself and my beliefs (tell me yours, come on ...) I stand up for those I love (don't come near & hurt them...) I speak my mind, think my own thoughts (am outspoken...) Or do things my way (as long as i can do it ...) I won’t compromise whats in my heart (coz it's a matter of the heart...) I live my life MY way (2 become 1 it can be...) I won’t allow anyone to step on me (don't make me a doormat...) I refuse to tolerate injustice (please be fair...) It means I have the courage and (have to endure everything ...) Strength to allow myself to be me (i am woman, hear me roar!) So try to stomp on me, douse my inner flame (just try ...) Squash every ounce of beauty I hold within (i'll share it with you ...) You won’t succeed (i told you so ...) And if that makes me a Bitch, so be it (so help me GOD ) I embrace the title and I’m proud to be a BITCH!
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