Take a lot of them... Coz honestly, no matter where u end up and with whom... it always end up just the way it should be... Your mistakes made who u are... You learn to grow w/ each choice u make Say how u feel always... Be you!! And be okay with it!!!
For holding back... the passion The affection...the emotion But what am I preaching after all? Take chances? Take a risk? Suddenly... I became a chicken (or a hen?) I used to be NOT ...and Thought all alongI am NOT Why? Oh! Why? Guess ...paranoia Is the culptrit...presto! Poor...poor YOU and I!WE!US! What shall we do? When we all go out? Play? I am tired ...so so tired Will u please...give me a shot? What??? A margarita? A tequila? Oh! That would be nice How about A dose of undoubted love It is the best and must be good I like! I like! Now, now! let’s drink to that! Cheers! ooopppsss!!! I am sorry! I am drunk! Whoaaaaa!
The strategies we think SHOULD work, don’t work! The strategies we think WON'T work, do work…
Let’s see what we got here...
Impressing people: When we try to impress people – by proving that we are clever or rich or cool – people can see through us. And then we look SILLY.
We usually impress other people when we AREN’T TRYING to. That’s why babies and animals and very old people are so appealing. They don’t care what you think – they are perfectly natural.
Chasing people: When we chase boyfriends, girlfriends – even dogs – they run away! Why? Because we are chasing them!
When we try to TRAP people in relationships, they can’t wait to escape! When we LET GO of people, they often come back!
Helping people: When we try to help others – children, friends, employees – by solving their problems, they become dependent on us – and even became lazy! The more we help, the less they do. Mostly, we help people by NOT HELPING too much.
Getting people’s attention: When we are desperate to be heard, we shout at people...vent esp. in the ELR chatroom. And the louder we shout, the less they hear. Strangely, the opposite works. People pay attention to us when we LISTEN.
Endpoint:
There’s such a thing as trying too hard!
Are u hard now? Ooopss!!! I mean, are u trying too hard to be soft??? in your approach... to ur relationships?
Dec 24, 2008 7:12 am Mood: merrying lolz, 233 Views
There are so many things To do each day There is so much going on In the world of great concern That often we do not stop And think about What personally is really important One of the nicest things In my life Is my friendship with you all And even if We don’t see eye to eye And spend some coffee time together The FFF is here for us to stay I appreciate all of YOU And the friendship born
LOVE U ALL MY FRIENDS and MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!
Look out the window when that rain storms I let the wind blow up a brain storm and now I'm wondering whether weather like this gets you too It may go on like this for hours Too late in Fall for April showers So what we got here Got a thought or two I need to share with you Here goes... Darling tell me now Have I done wrong somehow That you won't look at me It is pointed out Can't keep my wits about When you won't look at me Is there something I outta know You're finding hard to say Well there's just a trace Hiding on your face And I learned it that way Just another soul That really knows my soul And you won't look at me Does that take the prize How much I love those eyes and they won't look at me Now the rain has gone But something lingers on There's certain sadness here Now that the sky is clear And it's so so clear yes, it's all so clear To me now And I can't help but feel That certain sadness's here To stay
Dec 3, 2008 10:41 am Mood: happy camper!, 642 Views
Today Another year is over and I will think about growing older As...chronologically gifted
I would think about today... and... The future days above ground Will be good ones
And lastly I will believe in sekz on the first date Coz at my age There may not be a second one
Seriously
Today... I thanked God for another year of mileage ...for another year in FFF ...for having more friends I thought I could ever have had and so... to those who shared my "not so happy days" and those who made my days Cheerfuland lively!
Nov 27, 2008 6:37 am Mood: hallucinating lolz, 621 Views
each and everyone of us...single or "doubled" or separated or divorced or annulled, whatever status it is...had love relationship that turned sour still, i'll say...it's better to have loved than have not loved at all sure we have been made to endure the s*h*i*t that happened and will happen more yes, next time, be careful or be playful as it gets but remember "history repeat itself" i suggest u get ready for the ride... enjoy while ur on top and high! ... and when u dived?...enjoy it better down there
learned to forget the past...treat the present as a GIFT and tomorrow?... will never die
I’ve just been from a place where I had the "nightmare of my life" ...a situation that I never thought could happen to me...I thought I am a superwoman ...I always think that I am smart ...but those are just..."BS" ...I screwed my travel ( or am i just dumb?) but then...we all know, no one likes to get screwed up (I know what u are thinking right now )...I just had a mini adventure...(with all my stuffs gone in that f*ck*ng malay place ...(especially my passport)...in a place alien to me...in a place where I thought was beautiful... I got paranoid with people around there...it looks to me they are all thieves and robbers...I know i am being prejudice but sorry!... I can’t help thinking that way...imagine the unexpected extended stay there that fell on a weekend...immigration office closed...OMG! am so frustrated! Am really screwed! but anyway... thinking of the bright side though... since I am stacked there, I maximized my stay...went to see the so-so tourist havens there...the Petronas tower...the Aquaria...and lastly the Genting Highlands where I rode in the skyway...I have to enjoy and so did I!
Now...I realized that...
...life is an adventure...u must expect the unexpected ...life is unpredictable...u maybe be happy now tomorrow ur a mess ... not everything is a choice but some are destined to happen ... I can be smart but can also be a stupid dumb ass and that... ...I am back! Alive...kicking...and blogging!
Thank God! He’s Good! And He’s Great!
Oh btw...I finally realized... that... ...hatred to people who did u harm should not be a reason to hate a country i therefore conclude... that Malaysia is not a good country to visit LOLZ (am i contradicting? )
When first meet a new partner, you will experience a rush of a hormone which gives the intense feeling of euphoria called "falling in love." Around 6 months, however, this starts to fade. I am afraid we were only blinded by LUST, but inspite of that we want us to develop a real friendship. Afraid to realize that our soulmate isn’t as in tune with us, as we first thought.
I always believeD, there is always two sides of a coin.
The RIGHT side is...as long as you both respect each other’s differences and see how it will enrich the friendship...then it could lead to a great relationship( so help us God)
While the WRONG side is...hmmmif one leaves every time the LUST subsides, then there will never, ever be a long term relationship ( so help you God)
the emotion
(or a hen?
)
...and
I am NOT
presto!
and lively!
...(especially my passport
( so help you God)
