THINGS THAT MAKE FILIPINO WOMEN MAKE HAPPY(Survey for Happiness)
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Posted:Nov 14, 2010 3:53 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2010 8:00 am 9343 Views
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Women in Philippines put food before sex in survey
AFP - Thursday, November 11,2010
MANILA (AFP) - – Women in the Philippines rank food a lot higher than their sex life among the main things that make them happy, according to a government survey released Wednesday.
Both Filipino men and women ranked family, health and religion in that order as the three most important things that made them happy, the National Statistical Coordination Board found in a poll.
Female respondents, however, put food in fifth place, just ahead of work. Love life came 10th and and sex life at 18th, just one rank above the bottom.
For men, love life figured in 6th place and sex life 10th, with food at 9th.
And this can lead to trouble, said the agency's secretary-general Romulo Virola.
"This is easy to trivialize, but the unmet expectations for love and sex by either partner can surely lead to problems, and must be managed properly and professionally," he wrote on the government agency's website.
For the Philippine poor, the survey found that men ranked their sex, love lives and food at the top while women said family, love life and food were top of their lists.
In the four months since Benigno Aquino became president of the Philippines, the impoverished country's population has grown by about 600,000 -- the fastest rate of increase in Southeast Asia.
It now stands at around 94 million and there have been calls to increase access to contraception in the devoutly Catholic nation.
The non-random 2010 poll covered 356 respondents’ two Manila districts, a nearby province, staff of two government offices and one private firm.
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Q: WHY DATE A FILIPINA/FILIPINO? ; )
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Posted:Oct 12, 2010 11:22 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2010 8:01 am 10124 Views
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*~Top 10 Reasons For Dating A Filipina Girl~*
Why are Filipinas Good Girlfriends?
Many Western men choose to build a relationship with a Filipina girl. Some even choose to marry a Filipina. But what makes Filipino women so wanted?
1. Filipina girls are renowned for their beauty.
They surely stand out among Asian women in terms of charm and femininity. If you think other way you probably have never seen Angela Perez Baraquio – the first Asian American and Filipino American who was crowned Miss America 2001 and Miss Hawaii.
2. Filipina girls are a delight to be around because of their disposition and personality.
Since birth Filipinas are raised in a special sense of honor called Delikadesa (or Delicadeza). Delicadeza is a Spanish term which when translated in English means daintiness. It is defined as a sense of propriety, an act of being refined or delicate in tastes and manners. It is Delikadesa what gives Filipino women such admirable qualities and distinguish them from Western ladies. You will never find a proper Filipina bring shame onto herself and her family by lying, cheating, stealing, running around with different men or flunking out of school. It is one of the meanings of Delikadesa – pride in doing the right thing.
3. Filipinas are understanding, patient and composed.
Most Filipina girls would never engage in a quarrel or a loud argument simply because this wouldn't suit a real Lady. They are taught to speak politely, with a gentle tone of voice. Arguing is just not acceptable, along with public criticism. This soft spoken, quiet and understanding nature of the Filipina Ladies is the desired trait that Filipinas strive towards.
4. Filipina girls are generous and naturally caring and supportive.
The common spirit of survival has united the Filipinos for centuries making generosity and loyalty towards family a time-honored tradition. The caring and supportive nature of the Filipinas is apparent in the fact that there are no booming businesses for retirement homes or orphanages in the Philippines – they would never abandon a or a member of the family in need.
5. Filipina girls believe in a one-man one-woman relationship.
Since there is no "absolute divorce" in the Philippines, Filipinas are raised in a high regard for the sanctity of marriage and consider it a life long commitment. Some, in fact many who marry these Filipina beauties, swear they make the best wives in the world – loyal, loving and faithful past death.
6. Filipina women put family first before money.
Faithfulness to the family is a tradition that is characteristic of the Filipino society. To the Filipina, family will always remain a great priority. Filipino women, whom many would consider as coming from a relatively poor country, view the close loving bonds of their family as their wealth. They are more willing to sacrifice career than a family.
7. Filipinas are excellent home keepers.
Filipino ladies equate domestic responsibility with being a good wife – their home is a great source of pride for them and they do their best to create a warm and loving environment for their family. For the Filipina even yelling at home would mean de-facing her home so you will probably never find a Filipina woman screaming or breaking dishes.
8. Filipinas are well educated.
The Philippine culture attaches great importance to college education. Pride in accomplishment at school is instilled in Filipinas since their childhood and female college enrollment even exceeds that of the male. This affects the social positions too. Unlike other Asian countries where women tend to be in more subservient positions, the Philippines businesses are more accepting of women performing business. This is apparent with the current Philippine president Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo – the second Philippine woman to hold this esteemed position.
9. Filipino girls are religious.
The Philippines is predominantly Roman Catholic (the only Christian nation in the Far East) and it is common amongst Philippine families to raise their in the church. So don't be surprised if your Filipina girl is more devoted to her religion than you are to yours.
10. Filipina-American marriages are more successful than American-American marriages.
+Filipino are known for their hospitality and kind-hearted attitude. Many foreigners are looking up to these good values of Filipinos. Thus, there are many who also are attracted to a lot of single Filipinos, most especially to Filipino single women.+
What exactly are the reason why foreign hearts love Filipino single women? Here are ten of the reasons why:
1. Beauty
Among Asian countries, single Filipino women are one of the stand-out beauties. They are charming and very pretty to look at.
2. Personality
Like said before, personality is what keeps foreigners looking for that perfect Filipina. They are the complete opposite from Western ladies and they know how to value each person they are with.
3. Polite and understanding
They would never argue most of the time if it is not that important. Filipinas are known for their proper breeding and would always understand their partner no matter how worst the situation is. In addition, they are also polite and good mannered when in front of guests and friends.
4. Naturally caring and supportive
Filipinas are raised to become a loving and caring wife and mother. They have been taught well of these things thus they also keep a care and support once they have married a husband and would always be on their spouse’s side no matter how tough times can be.
5. One love woman
Filipinas are loyal and once they find their perfect partner, they are ready to settle and be with that person for the rest of their lives.
6. Family first
Single Filipina women have a dream of raising their families in a way that they value family first bfore money. They would rather stay together in an uncomfortable place or situation provided that they know their family would be safe.
7. Good homekeepers
Filipina women know how to cook, do household chores and just about everything that is related to homekeeping. They are used to doing light and heavy jobs at home and they are doing this with love.
8. Educated
You will be surprised how Filipinas are not at all living domestic life. Although they are trained to be good housekeepers, they have the same level of knowledge when it comes to education of other countries. They know what is going on and they are smart to talk to.
9. Religious
Single Filipino women know God and make God the center of their life. They are so religious that God is their hope when they are down. They have fear of God and they know that good things come when you are close to God.
10. Happy marriage
Records show that foreigners who marry a Filipina have a better marriage than foreigners who marry their own women. There are a lot of contented foreigners who are both proud and happy to be husbands of a Filipina.
***FILIPINO GIRLS FOR MARRIAGE: ***
All Western guys know about them, their beauty and characteristics. Filipino women for dating can avail education, hold properties, and hold public offices. A Philippines woman is an excellent house wife, mother, , sister, and friend. She always stays with her husband and keeps supporting him, no matter what. A Filipina lady can love you powerfully that you can’t find her match anywhere from Western ladies. She is the strength of your family, the driving force of the marriage.
Filipino women for dating are honest and friendly with every body. They are optimistic so they never give up at anything, but always try to look for a solution of the problem. Philippine girls have the blend of cute laughter, essence and humor, can melt men’s heart. They are just great women who know how to respect the elders and take good care of their husbands. They are unique, perfect, and sexy.
Filipino girls for dating are best characterized by traditional family values and loyalty to marriage. Western men are still pursuing their dream of getting married with Philippines ladies. Even though some mail order bride services sell Filipinas like cupcakes on the market which decrease the values of Filipino women, they are still best wives in the world.
Some Philippine women are willing to accept older husbands because of new opportunities in the West. A young Filipino lady can accept a marriage with an older man who may be the same age as her father. Why? There is a better future for her and her later on in the Western nations.
Generally speaking, Filipino girls for dating are beautiful, faithful, and unique. There are some unique characteristics of a Filipino woman.
1. Can cook delicious daily meals for her family;
2. Can organize a neat and clean house;
3. Can take good care of her husband and ;
4. Can change herself to be a newly fresh body for her husband
5. Traditional family oriented;
6. Enjoy housework (laundry, kitchen);
7. Never go out for the guys after married;
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DREAMING OF YOU...!:)
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Posted:Dec 17, 2010 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2010 3:12 am 8519 Views
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When I close my eyes I dream of you.
Can't sleep at night 'cause I wanna be with you.
Don't want to live, don't want to cry
Without you by my side.
When I go to sleep at night
I ask God to make my days bright.
I know he will do it - I know it is true.
Because he knows I only want to be with you.
I hear your voice inside my head.
I can imagine u…
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Filipino Customs: 7 Top Filipino Quirks
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Posted:Nov 23, 2010 4:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2010 8:02 am 9501 Views
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Below are a few unique customs seen in most Filipino interactions depending on how 'traditional' the Filipinos are that you encounter.
1. "Mano po"
"Mano po" (pronounced mah-noh poh) refers to a physical gesture of taking the hand of an elder and bringing it towards your forehead. This is a sign of respect for the elder and is usually done at the point of greeting or farewell. are expected to perform this gesture towards adult relatives & adult family friends. Failure to perform "mano po" would be considered as disrespectful.
2. "Kuya" or "Ate"
The Filipino culture is very big on respect. The older an individual is, the more they call for respect. The term 'kuya' (pronounced koo-yah) refers to an older male person; it means 'big brother.' Its verbal usage indicates that you respect the older male and recognize the difference in age. The feminine form is 'ate' (pronounced ah-teh) which is directed towards an older female person; it means 'big sister.' are encouraged to use these terms with their older siblings. Adults can use these terms to address friends or co-workers regardless of whether or not they are truly related. It simply demonstrates a form of respect for the older individual.
3. The power of the eyebrows.
In American culture, the eyebrows usually conveys emotion via a variety of facial expressions. In Filipino culture, raising your eyebrows can also communicate a positive affirmation of "yes" when a yes/no question has been asked. So, should a Filipino fail to verbally answer your question, look at their eyebrows before feeling like you were being ignored. In reality, they may just be answering you non-verbally through the raising of their eyebrows.
Raising your eyebrows accompanied with strong eye contact can also serve as a greeting or farewell to an individual you can not physically touch.
4. The lips give direction.
Again, a non-verbal expression performed by Filipinos. By puckering their lips and facing a certain direction, they are using their lips to point to communicate a certain direction. Instead of wasting physical energy by lifting their arm/hand to point, they conserve energy by using their puckered lips.
5. Food at every gathering.
Whether it be a grand party or just an informal meeting, Filipinos express their hospitality & friendship through the serving of food. The more grandiose the cuisine, the more 'love' they are trying to convey to those at the gathering. Instead of asking, 'how are you?' Filipinos will ask, "have you eaten yet?'
6. Take your shoes off when entering a Filipino home.
By taking your shoes off when entering a Filipino home, you are conveying utmost respect towards the owners of the property. You are showing them that you care about their property and have the desire to maintain its cleanliness. More modern Filipinos who have tile or wood floors may not expect you to take your shoes off because of the coldness of the floor, however, if you do adhere this custom, then you will surely make a favorable impression.
7. Hellos and Goodbyes cannot be taken for granted.
You must greet everyone "hello" at every meeting and say "good-bye" at each farewell. For anyone present, you can either offer a 'mano po,' a kiss on the cheek, or offer eye contact coupled with raising your eyebrows to those you are unable to physically reach or those you do not know very well. Failure to offer a greeting or farewell would indicate that you are disrespectful, and a snob. So, be attentive to those present as you do not want to offend anyone.
Filipinos communicate less verbally than their American counter-parts and it is clearly demonstrated in the Filipino quirks discussed here. The minimal verbiage in Filipino Culture could be best explained through a silent adherence to the common expression: "actions speak louder than words."
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*~Typical Filipino Courtship and Marriage~*
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Posted:Nov 20, 2010 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2011 3:39 pm 8648 Views
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Most Filipino ladies are reserved type. They will wait for the men to do the first move in courting rather than them to initiate the first move even if they liked the guy because it is embarrassing for Filipino women to
take the advance move in courtship. Most Filipino guys don't like a woman who flirts. It will turned them off. They usually pursue, feminine and refined woman. I was born and raised in the Philippines. I migrated here in the US just recently and thought of sharing the Filipino culture.
Typical Filipinos are very conservative people. Parents will not allow their daughters to go out on a date without chaperons. If a man wants to date a woman, he should asked the parents' permission. He should tell them where they will go, and what time they will be home and most often they will have chaperons. Most parents do not allow their daughters to go to secluded places with a man to avoid temptations and the appearance of evil as what they said. When the woman dis obeyed her parents, she will be grounded. Parents preferred that the man will visit and meet their daughters at home rather than anywhere else. Before the man or the woman get into relationship, their parents should know whom they were getting involved to. Their family and friends would help to observe the person then they will give their approval. Most relationships that were not approved by family and friends will not last long. Members of the family and the friends are influential people in Filipino courtship and even marriage. It is customary for Filipinos to have concerned with their family and friends' lives and whereabouts because they are the ones who would offer help when problem comes. Filipinos really care about each other in any circumstance.
When a man propose for marriage, he and his parents together with some relatives will go to the house of his bride to be bringing food. We call this "pamanhikan". Somebody will serve as spokesman for the
proposal. When the lady's parents accept the proposal, they will be given priority to do the planning. The date, the ceremony and the type of party they want to have for their . The man will be the one to provide all the financial needs for the wedding and that includes the manual labor like helping for the decorations, preparing for the program and party, serving the visitors etc. Every detail of financial aspect, will be the man's responsibility. A Filipino man should be prepared financially before he will propose for marriage because he has to spend for everything. Most often, he will be expected to shoulder the fare expenses of the relatives who are living far away and wish to attend the ceremony specially if they are participants of the wedding program. After the wedding party, the groom will take his bride to his parent's house and stay there for awhile before they will live for their own. That is why it is very important to know the families of both sides very well before marriage so that it will not be hard to deal with the in laws. Filipinos have close family ties, meaning the live with their parents even if they are at the right age to live alone so the bride who lives with her in laws will have to deal not only her husband's parents but also with his brothers and sisters living with them. There are times that some relatives are living with them too.
It is very important for a man to be financially stable before getting married so that they will not live with his parents for a long time after marriage. Parents still give their support to their when they need it even if they are already married. Full support will be given if the marriage is approved by both sides. Married life is given too much concern by the Filipino people because there is no divorce in the Philippines. Therefore, Filipino man and woman who will get married should know their partners well. They must be committed to be together for life no matter what happens. Since there's no divorce in the Philippines, no one can legally remarry unless the former marriage is annulled but it takes a long process and a lot of money to do it. It is an instinct to typical Filipinos to stay with their partners for life through thick and thin, for better or for worse no matter what happens because that is their culture.
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~*Culture and Values*~
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Posted:Nov 18, 2010 8:56 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2010 11:57 pm 8279 Views
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Culture and Values
The complexity of the history of the Philippines had made the Filipino culture diverse as it has been under many influences.
The Spanish colonizers greatly shaped our culture and values since its regime lasted for more than three and a half centuries. This is most evident in our folk music, dance, language, art, and religion.
Family. The family is the basic unit of society. Family ties are valued highly because Filipinos tend to be very close with family members. The nuclear family setup is the standard with Filipinos, which is why divorce is illegal in the Philippines.
Pamilyang Pinoy
Common Values. Being respectful is one of the most common Filipino values that is being especially instilled in the minds of young Filipinos. The use of “Po” and “opo”, for instance, is an expression of respect to elders in the Tagalog culture (especially true among those living in Luzon). Grandparents and the elderly are also shown a special gesture of respect by the placing of the back of the elder’s hand (at the fingers) against one’s forehead, called “mano”.
Most of the time, you will hear calling their neighbors and distant relatives “auntie” and “uncle” or “tiyo” and “tiya” in the Visayan area.
Shame or hiya is the Filipino way of living up to accepted standards of behavior.
Utang na loob or “debt of gratitude”s, is owed by one to a person who has helped him through some difficulties he had undergone.
Death. Death in the Philippines is one of the most important occasions in family life. It is a tradition to hold a wake where families, relatives, neighbors, and friends gather to pay respect to the deceased’s remains. This is one of the biggest gatherings of family members and friends, aside from weddings and baptism. Similar to Latin America, women also wear white veils and black pins to show that they are mourning.
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~*Family's Significance in the Philippines*~
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Posted:Nov 18, 2010 8:52 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2010 11:58 pm 8144 Views
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How much do you value your family? Do you value it most of the time or you value it if you only need so?
In the Philippines, family is really a big word. This is not an ordinary word that we have to put no significance because we have family ties from our old generation and present generation. It is the first thing we put
value before anything.
We value our love to become decentralize or independent but not in all ways. Respect makes the word FAMILY has value.Even one in the family is living away from the family he is always hav contact towards his parents and siblings to let the members comfortable and happy. If one is sick all members are really affected and sad.We are always together in many ways though any one is living away. We are together in feelings.
In the other country, people value the family but as they become old their tend to be as their friends or acquiantance only because they don't after if their chidren or parents will call or not or be affected if a parent or sibling is sick.They don't have family ties. All they want is independence and decentralization.
Maybe there are disadvantages also that a family has in our country because we sound so possessive and family-centered too much. But, there are Filipinos who practice family relationship even richer and happier though each of them is not living together. Some foreigners think that our perception towards family is not that good anymore because some parents also are abusing their asking too much help which at the beginning is a big responsibility already of the parents to help their and become independent in the future if they are not with them anymore.This is also a big thing. It really matters so much especially to a very typical form of family in our country. But, not all families in the Philippines are the same.There are also other families that they work well to make their dignity different among others.
Our notion when it comes to family is maybe because ef our mixed culture.Our culture is from the different invaders in the past so people are affected in a natural way around whom their great-greatgrandfather learned or
aquired. I hope peoplefrom the states or any other countries will comprehend how big is the role every citizen has in our family.If the invaders had put much value in our culture and sad that it will be given bad impressions after all.
Our love and respect to our parents define most of our responsibility towards the family.We don't put limitations to let our parents feel uncofortably against us because of action. We believe that it is so common to have different value and notion when it comes to family.It is not that easy above all to forget what we valued so much from our ancestors.
For us, our family is the strongest beholder of our souls.
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~*Filipino Culture*~
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Posted:Nov 18, 2010 8:45 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2010 11:58 pm 8170 Views
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Filipino Culture Facts
o Philippines located: In southeastern Asia between the Philippine Sea and the South China Sea
o Culture is: Languages, family values, etiquette, customs and protocol of people
o Official languages: Filipino and English
o Traditional housing: are called “nipa”
o Family: Is very important for the Filipinos
Filipino culture consists of the languages, family values, etiquette, customs and protocol of the people of the Philippines. The Philippines are located in southeastern Asia between the Philippine Sea and the South China Sea.http://filipinofriendfinder.com
The official languages of the country are Filipino and English. The Filipino language has a basis in the Tagalog language.http://filipinofriendfinder.com English is used in the Filipino education and government and the Philippines has the third largest number of English speakers in the world. However, throughout the country, there are seventy to eighty different dialects from the Malay languages.http://filipinofriendfinder.com
Traditional housing in the Philippines is called “nipa”. These are huts made from bamboo and have palm tree leaves or corrugated metal as roofs. Other homes are built with cinder blocks, which are plastered and painted on the inside and out. Decorative touches are often added in the plaster on the outside of the home.http://filipinofriendfinder.com Older homes have open-air kitchens while newer homes may have a room for the kitchen which can also include an eating area. Middle class home and commercial buildings usually have tiled roofs.
Common foods served by a Filipino family are fish, shellfish, chicken, pork, garlic and rice. Food is cooked by either gas burners, wood or charcoal fires and then cooled and served cold. The Filipino people are fond of sweet food and will often indulge in sweet coffee, Coca-Cola, sweet rolls and donuts. When dining, the people use forks and spoons with spoons being used the most. Since the traditional way of eating was to place food on a banana leaf or to eat with one’s hands, it is still acceptable to do this inside the home and in restaurants.
Family is very important for the Filipinos. It is common for extended families to live together. Families usually consist of a nuclear family with aunts, uncles, grandparents, cousins and godparents. Concern for family is also seen in the traditional of patronage amount the people and many times members of a household may all work for the same company. http://filipinofriendfinder.com
Courtship is more subtle in the Philippines then in other areas of the world. When a man is interested in a woman, he is friendly yet discreet and does not want to seem too aggressive. The girl is expected to play hard to get. This tests the love and sincerity of the boy. If friendly dates, which are often group dates, are accepted well then the couple may start to date on their own but still discreetly. Couples need to formalize their relationship by having a formal introduction to the girl’s family. The boy is also expected to give a gift to the family when he stops by to see the girl. Courtship is expected to be long and can last many years.http://filipinofriendfinder.com
Filipino Culture Etiquette
Certain etiquette is expected in the Filipino culture. Some things to know are:
* Older or most important people are introduced first.
* A handshake and smile is traditional.
* Female friends may hug and kiss when first meeting.
* Titles and surnames are used until an invitation to use a first name or nickname is given.http://filipinofriendfinder.com
* A gift is expected when a person is invited to a meal but gifts are not opened right away.
* Do not refer to the woman of the house as a “hostess” as the meaning of the word in different in the Philippines.
* It is polite to compliment the woman on the house.
* A handwritten thank you note for dinner is appreciated.
* Let the hosts ask several times before going into dining room or eating food.
* Let hosts tell guests where to sit.http://filipinofriendfinder.com
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*~Filipino Culture: Hospitable, Humble, and Honorable ~*
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Posted:Nov 18, 2010 8:34 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2010 6:09 am 8476 Views
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Hospitable: Ever wondered why any full-blooded Pinoy (slang for Filipino) that you meet and be lucky to be friends with is always eager to share their meal, whether in your lunch room, or at a party? It is because of this trait that we are born with. We are known to even share not only our meals but our entire home to our guests. We do not feel well when we are eating and somebody in the table isn't. We are quick to offer our food, or drink to anyone; we cannot enjoy our food and drink if we do not share them first. We are known for throwing parties and serve delicious foods in abundance, and would insist on visitors to eat some more. After the party is over, we are known to pack up "to-go" boxes for our visitors so that they can enjoy the Filipino delicacies when they get home.
If by any chance you visit this small country of 7,107 islands, you will find that there is always someone willing to help you and offer you things even though most of the people living in this archipelago live in poverty. They will find ways to welcome you in their hearts and in their homes. Tourists remember this trait of Filipinos and often state so when asked why they like visiting the Philippines--- they would readily say that Filipinos are very friendly and hospitable.
Humble: Filipinos are known to be very humble. When people praise them for their accomplishments they always shyly shake their heads saying you or someone else is better than them. When it is already evident they are
ahead in life or have a beautiful home or have a lot of belongings, they will not show them off blatantly because it is not right. They will humbly say theirs is not the best or there is always someone else better than them. Filipinos oftentimes feel guilty of showing off things because of fear that they may offend others. This is maybe because of one of the Philippines' popular creed "Ang hindi lumingon sa pinaggalingan ay hindi makakarating sa paroroonan" translated as- "Those who do not look back to where they came from will never reach their destination". This explains why when Filipinos leave their country, they always give back- sending money, boxes of goodies to their friends and loved ones. They are also known to save money each year so that they can go home and visit families and friends even if they have already settled in another country.
Being humble helps Filipinos remember who they are and where they came from. They strive to attain their goals to have a bright future and a better life but always remembering what it took for them to get there. That is why you will find Filipinos all over the world working hard each day and each night, you will see a lot of college graduates working as maids or skilled workers in Hong Kong, Singapore, in the Middle East, or even in Europe, so that they can send money back home to help fulfill their dreams of a good life for their loved ones. It takes a humble heart to do that.
Honorable: Filipinos are known for being honorable, which could mean a couple of things. When a Filipino makes a promise they will intend to keep it. We are known for our "Palabra de honor" (word of honor). We will do our best to fulfill that promise, even if we have to make sacrifices just to do it. Another form of being an honorable Filipino is that we have pride on what we do. Yes, we maybe humble, but we have pride. Honorable pride for a Filipino is valuing our race and our attainment. This honorable pride is our way of showing you that we have worked hard to attain our goals, so do not push us down just because most of us work for a living all over the world, coming from an impoverished nation and succeeding abroad is not an easy task- it takes sweat and blood and a lot of sacrifices! Every Filipino values education- rich or poor. Quezon, one of the Philippines' former presidents once said that "Education is the birth right of every Filipino ". Every Filipino parent's dream is to give their quality education, even if they have to sell all their belongings in hopes that someday the reality of this dream will come true.
The Filipinos' honorable trait showed up most recently, as a matter of fact, which resonated and got the attention of the ABC's Desperate Housewives' producers prompting them for a formal apology. The recent
episode from Desperate Housewives drew calls from angry viewers, and over 30,000 names on an online petition were gathered, even the Philippine President herself calling the ban of the airing of future shows in the Philippines after the show aired its controversial September 30 episode.
An excerpt from the online petition declared: "A statement that devalues Filipinos in healthcare is extremely unfounded, considering the overwhelming presence of Filipinos and Filipino Americans in the medical field."
In one scene of the said Desperate Housewives episode, a doctor confronts Susan Mayer (played by actress Teri Hatcher) with the news about Susan experiencing menopause. During the doctor's explanation, the uptight Susan cuts him short with an apparent racist slur against Filipino medical schools.
A lot of people may think that the Filipino reaction to the show may have been too much or may have gone overboard. But any race that is criticized and devalued on national TV would not appreciate the racial slurs and innuendos. With the nursing shortage in America, a lot of hospitals come to the Philippines for manpower. A lot of the Philippine Nursing graduates pass the Philippine Board exams as well as US board exams. It takes 5 to 7 years to complete a collegiate Nursing course including internships, passing the board exams, and some taking masteral degrees, so being belittled that way was not taken lightly by a lot of Filipinos. Families make sacrifices to have their go to school, and finish their courses so that they can have a good future and someday, if lucky, be part of the US healthcare workforce. As I said, it takes sweat and blood to get to where they are at so they will not just sit down and take it! Nobody should- Filipino or not!
It goes without saying that Filipinos, like any race, are not perfect. We are not claiming to be the best. Treat us fairly and you will find a true friend who will be with you through thick and thin. And when you get the chance, visit our beautiful country; you will experience one of the greatest hospitable places you'll ever find.
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SIMPLE THINGS (Jim Brickman)
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Posted:Oct 25, 2010 7:19 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2010 8:12 am 8376 Views
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Hey, Time won’t wait,
Life goes by,
Every day’s a brand new sky,
Every tear, comes to dry.
All that really matters,
In this crazy world,
Is you and I together,
Baby just remember.
Chorus 1:
The first leaves off the tree,
The way you look at me,
A thousand chiming church bells ring,
The simple things are free
The sun, the moon, the stars,
The beating of two hearts,
How I love the simple things,
The simple things just are.
So here we go,
Let’s just dance,
Teach my soul to take this chance,
Put my heart, in your hands.
Out of all the moments that,
We leave behind,
Turn around and tell me,
Baby we’ll remember.
Chorus 2:
The thunder and the rain,
The way you say my name,
After all the clouds go by,
The simple things remain,
The sun, the moon, the stars,
The beating of two hearts,
How I love the way the simple things,
The simple things just are
Chorus 3:
The ocean and the sky,
The way we feel tonight,
I know that it's the love,
That brings the simple things to life,
The sun, the moon, the stars,
The beating of two hearts,
I love the way the simple things,
The simple things just are.
I love the way the simple things,
The simple things just are.
Simple things just are.
Simple things just are.
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