Your face is your billboard by the highway of life. It's your means of unspoken communication,your first and most powerful "advertisements." Many people don't put emphsis on making sure their billboard is displaying the right message. They walk around with their worries or woes or whatever else is on their mind written all over their face. Their introspection and stress can't help but show and are bound to affect others negatively. That sort of message is enough to repel all but their most understanding and loyal friends. But other people have a knack for staying cheerful no matter what they are going through. They have a bright countenance that attracts others. So if you want to make and keep friends, let your face send positive message that will lift others' hearts. Concentrate on having a plesant facial expression that conveys faith, optimism, kindness,approachability, concern for others, and a joy for living-not one that changes with circumstances or how you happen to feel at the moment. That's easier said than done, you say,, especially when troubles loom large.YOUR BILLBOARD
Adversity is a crossroads that makes a person choose one of two paths:character or compromise.every time he chooses character, he becomes stronger, even if that choice brings negative consequences.
So what must every person know about character?
Anyone can say that he has integrity, but action is the real indicator of character. your character determines who you are. Who you are determines what you see. What you see determines what you do. That's why you can never separate a one's character from his actions. If one's actions and intentions are continually working against each other, then look to his character to find why. Character is more than talk.
We never have no control over a lot of things in life, we don't get to chooses our parents. We don't select location or circumstances of our birth and upbringing. We don't get to pick our talents or IQ. But we do choose our character. In fact, we create it every time we make choices- to cop out or dig out of a hard situation, to bend the truth or stand under the weight of it, to take the easy money or pay the price. As you live your life and make choices today, you are continuing to create your character. Then I say Talent is a gift, but character is a choice.
A person wont trust you if your character they know to be flawed and they will not continue to get to be involved with you. Character brings lasting success with people who achieve great heights but lack the bedrock character to sustain them through the stress are headed for disaster. Have you ever seen highly talented people suddenly fall apart when they achieved certain level of success? The key to that phenomenon is character. Let me quote and unquote from a psychologist at Harvard medical school and author of the success syndrome, says that people He believes they are destined for one or more of the four A's Arrogance, painful feelings of aloneness, destructive adventure-seeking, or adultery. Each is a terrible price to pay for a weak character. A successful man cannot rise above the limitations of their character.
