He loves cuddles and hugs... He tries to get attention when he feels i spend too much infront of the pc and no time to spend with him, He does extra mischief at times...that makes me so really mad when he does the thing i hate him so much to do...right up on the table...He bring things for me which i never i appreciated. When infact he was so proud but all he gets from me is """ BBBBAAAASILLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!HOW COULD YOU DO THAT?????""" Ahhh, he gets mad at me too when i get on his way.But nevertheless he is still and always so sweet,I could'nt think how i ever keep my sanity without him when everyone is away.I could'nt imagine myself alone in the house with no one else to talk with,but he was there with me. Apart from the computer which is my only connection with my friends...Without Basil i would have already been dead bored.He has this habit of coming and waking me up on friday.I guess because i do have sleep in and usually up late beacause it is my off and he doesnt see downstairs,we become a good companion,he sat on my lap sometimes while i get caught up with my friends on the net,he catches my fingers tapping the keys and peek on the cam too.when i am watching the television he sits too beside me on the sofa.Basil loves cheese,at one stage he is into bread...He is funny sometimes we feel that he is our little boy at home...Anyway Basil is our burmese CAT...
Paano nga ba kung mawawala ang isang IKAW? Patuloy pa kaya ang pag inog ng aking mundo? Meron pa kayang maging saysay ang aking bawat galaw O di kayay mananatiling tatag koy di mo naisamang naiguho...
Lumilipas ang panahon,at bawat saglit me kahulugang dulot. Taimtim na dalangin nawa sana kanyang ipahintulot Lumawig pang lalo pagkikilalanan,pagkakaibigan Upang ikaw at ako manatiling sa pusoy saya at galak.
Kung tadhana may magbiro,ikaw ay sakaling maglaho Dalangin ko pa ring sa paroroonan moy paraiso Upang maglayo man ang landas natin alam kong maligaya ka. Mawala Ka man di ako magdaramdam.
Kung mawala na ang isang ikaw... Ang alaala ay lalagi pa ring yakap ko Bawat sandaling idinulot,bawat halakhak at panaghoy Ikaw sa aking alaala magpakailanman di mawawaglit.
Knew the signs Wasn't right I was stupid for a while Swept away by you And now I feel like a fool So confused, My heart's bruised Was I ever loved by you?
Out of reach, so far I never had your heart Out of reach, Couldn't see We were never Meant to be
Catch myself From despair I could drown If I stay here Keeping busy everyday I know I will be OK
But I was So confused, My heart's bruised Was I ever loved by you?
Out of reach, so far I never had your heart Out of reach, Couldn't see We were never Meant to be
So much hurt, So much pain Takes a while To regain What is lost inside And I hope that in time, You'll be out of my mind And I'll be over you
But now I'm So confused, My heart's bruised Was I ever loved by you?
Out of reach, So far I never had your heart Out of reach, Couldn't see We were never Meant to be
Out of reach, So far You never gave your heart In my reach, I can see There's a life out there For me
Fighting in marriage can be a source of great learning and growth.(i'm not talking about my own experience here as i have not been married before,hehehe) It is but normal i think in a relationship to have an arguments or fights.Womens at times tend to threw a fit.It is important to point out that how the argument started.Maybe the real issue is that she want to have some changes and it is important to STAY PUT AND LISTEN. Men and women have both capacity for blind rage which achieves nothing.Arising out of two-way,inter-gender abuse,there is an archetypal core of rage in us which,if we take it into our relationship,destroys love and feeling.So there are two imperatives in here. We must fight,debate and be true to ourselves otherwise our closeness is just an act.But in fighting,we must show great restraint and always have respect. Love and hate does'nt have to be all that dramatic.
Here are some excerpts from a book i read which i would like to share to you guys:
DONT agree with your wife for the sake of peace.Say what is true for you.You have to walk a line-not giving in out of weaknesses and not getting violent or intimidating.
It was'nt really that big day yesterday.I had done about 30 crouches,20 times about 40 steps up and down the stairs.Whewwwww i have to do this myself if i want to stay fit.at the end of it i thought i could no longer take another step up more. This makes me realize that in our life there are things we do want to achieve and we have to pay the price,Nothing comes easy but if we are determined to really go to that extra mile and aim for that goal it is possible to succeed.
You know we've all been hurt before And it's so hard to trust again We want to believe in that security Someone there til the end
It's time you know the way I feel You know I've had my share of pain But what we have is now, we chance it anyhow And hope the feeling stays the same
No Promise, No Guarantee But here's my heart unconditionally I'll give to you my honesty, always, darling No Promise, No Guarantee But I'll share my world with you openly Stand by you faithfully, I'll be there darling
Oh those memories fade with time And we soon forget the tears You've survived the hurt, you made it through the worst What I'm saying is sincere
Now, it's a changing world out there (Don't we know it baby) And it's turning way too fast I'll be by your side, be it day or night And what will be will be More No promise, No guarantee
It's paradoxial that we can let our feelings flow freely,and only be truly passionate,when we have certain boundaries laid down.Trust can be there.by limits,we mean: *never being physical or threatenning;
*never walking out midfight;
*not using put down language;*staying on the point and not bringing in other material;
*listenning to the others point of view while honouring your own; and
*taking time out,by agreement,if it becomes too heated-think it over and returning to continue the arguments.
These rules allow us to debate cleanly and respectfully,until understanding is reached.
Feminism is about women liberating themselves-changing perceptions,laws,employment practises and so on.It is important to understand first the time we live in,unseen forces carry us as we try to swim our own journey.Feminism is easily the biggest movement in human history.Women across all cultures and religions have suffered immeasurably for thousand years and now are catching up. On being a DAUGHTER...many of us tried to become filial daughters,we think of ways we could do to make our parents proud of our achievements. On being a WIFE...we try our best to pleased our husband,we stand up for our men though at times men are caught up thinking women are either devils or saints,lets say that sometimes we could be wrong in our perceptions,immature,perverse and prejudiced but not to forget that we women can be competitive or could be bloody minded too. Being a MOTHER...what does mothering means,we get a picture of caring,nurturing,and spending long quality hours guiding our childrens.we are the one that are in close contacts with our childrens more than their fathers.The rule of a mother is not easy.we can imagine ourselves not having a mother... Womenhood is seeing the importance of our own individuality...
Jimmy is a friend i met one day In a chatroom with his girlfriend then I didnt stay so long because i know I did'nt want to cause them to part away
Jimmy, jimmy is my friend indeed I love him truly and he loves me too He took me one time to watch him play And promise that he'll take me again someday.
Jimmy Jimmy please dont cry You'll forget me by and by Saving all my kisses just for you sealed with love forever true...
