As for writer and so goes with an artist they need to be inspired to produce a good picture or write ups.I am neither a writer nor an artist but for awhile i have had some breaks that no matter how much i did try to write and or just simply tried to scribble things, i wasn't able to come up with anything with sense that worth posting. I was for awhile feeling as though i have started straying away from fff,from blogs and so was with my SYM group.I know it was hard being that i was the moderator but where was I?i was like physically present and yet mentally absent,no matter how i tried to relate to with my ideas, it was so pointless and needless to say i remained quiet inspite of hearing comments that then my group is turning into"Zombie Land".well i could be blame more for that, but i guess each of us deserve some break, if i have to compare myself to a writer it is like having a mental block.It is maybe easy for others as like to blog,as we all know differnt people have their own differnt style,it is easy for some who just copy and paste things up in there own page, some who write a line and so on...but as for me it is hard to write down something which i could not personally relate to, and if i have given some a different idea of how i was into then i am not to prove you wrong and i am not trying to justify myself,i believe you would agree that one needs to be inspired to be able to enjoy what she write and be able to express herself and view. It was always been a pleasure to be able to share and exchange ideas and truly even better to hear comments and inputs which i have truly appreciated and look forward for more,as they help and inspired me and also know where my mistakes are to better myself in the future. My salute to the people that through the great work of their mind they are able to inspire others to be inspired of their own self which i am one among them.
He is obviously not my first love,and definitely not the good looking one among the other ones.But what makes me feel that he differs from the rest is that he is more like a reality rather that just but the picture of a man i always picture in my past.Undeniably he made me change my views to loving and though i still have my own old views to love,he didn't stopped me to be myself with understanding and compassion and trust.I found my man i supposed,the one who was worth all the wait.I believe that with him i would be happy,that with him he will make a difference in my life to make us through together to the next stage. I wish i could better expressed the joy i have within me more than just in this words because i know it in my heart i am in love...so much in love with this Man...He is indeed a Sweetheart and i love him so...
[No matter how heavy our burdens in life,Despite of pain,sorrow and problems,one thing we should keep in ourselves is to be strong. It doesn't matter who you are,all of us alike,We are our own self...we take control of our own lives,our emotions and strenght and not be controlled by others. We tend to be very vulnerable sometimes and feel as though we carry the too much burden in our back when we don't need to.And there are times when we are anticipating things to happen before it actually happen and thus affects us emotionally and physically.
I believe therefore, that there is a need for a change on our perspective, not but just physically but also in our attitude,be different from the rest,despite of and inspite of...
So... This is where the story begins,Be Light(it doesn't matter if you are a heavy weight wrestler ).Be strong that no matter what happens we will stand free and live our lives to the fullest.
I do not love you except because I love you; I go from loving to not loving you, from waiting to not waiting for you, my heart moves from cold to fire. I love you only because it's you the one I love; I hate you deeply, and hating you, bend to you, and measure of my changing love for you is that I do not see you but love you blindly.
How can you have a healthy relationship if you aren't securely attached? If you're a pursuer, when those magic moments of connection happen, breathe it in. Practice the art of daily appreciation. "Thank you's" remind you that you got something. That's what's missing with the pursuers -- they think they don't have anything.
If you're an avoider, recognize your own need for connection. Understand that you can communicate in nonverbal ways: You can write a letter, send an email, leave a rose on your partner's pillow, initiate touch. Daily acts of initiation will reap great rewards.
The big mistake is to think that the avoider doesn't want closeness, or that the overbearing pursuer wants to push you away. Fights usually happen when one person is asked to take on a style that doesn't work for them.
The good news is: Some of your attachment style is hard-wired, but the rest of it is learned behavior. The older you get, the more securely attached you become.
i strongly believe...that love is a bliss ...that love brings magic to life that there is nothing to lose when we love,as when we truly love with our heart mind and soul, ...that love is a magic in it's own way...wether we fall in or out of love...i will still believe in LOVE.
...so i got this single long stemmed pink rose and attached to it is a simple note wishing me happiness this valentines day.It's not only because i got given this that makes me happy but it was more of the thought that i was made to feel special and loved and that what counts more...
BUT of course being that Valentines Day is the day that is supposed to be meant for LOVERS and so ot is expected that LOVE is "in the Air"...and in one way or the other Lovers are supposed to be extra specially SWEET and more open in showing how much they Love and care their love ones. Being that we are now so advance in Technology, and the noveltly nevertheless of expressing love is just the same but made everything so easy and simple as just a "click" on the mousekey and well you can do as almost everything via the net.You can order fresh flowers delivered to the person you want to send flowers even if she is in the other side of the world, and isn't that so amazing? With the automatic dial key on the phone as well you could be connected to the other person in a breeze.Unlike lets say 20years ago,when most of our mails go through that big mail truck that took like a week to the least to send cards and letters,but the novelty of it is just the same as now looking through the many available ecards in the net and sending them thru emails and there you go your card and mails are then sent instantly. NOW, what i was trying to imply is that,among the so many ways of being able to express our love, affection and thoughtfulness to the one we love,even before the time when modernd gizmos and gadgets are made available,showing and wxpressing our love is not counting ways of how we do it and taking the effort to show it and most importantly we don't have to wait for the next valentines day February 14, 2008 again only to show more love,more affection openly but it should be that Being Love is an voluntary will and is an act of man to show it freely and unconditionally as it should be. Everyday should be Valentines day,Everyday we should show our love ones how we care for them,a little love note and or bringing them flowers even when there is no special occasion is but two of the many simple and small thoughtfull ways to show love.Everyday should be made a day of loving and caring for each other and that is how it should be...not just on valentines day.
).Be strong that no matter what happens we will stand free and live our lives to the fullest.
