no matter what! Sep 24, 2008 10:18 pm Mood: inlove, 292 Views I’ve never thought, i will love this way again… I fall inlove–twice–i’ve been hurt so many times…and i said to myself, i will never allow myself to fall inlove again….but——ooops!!! what’s this?! It seems i’m falling! NO!!! It can’t be! I don’t want to shed another tears again or broke my heart into a million pieces!!! I tried to deny my real feelings towards him… I pretend i don’t love him—–but it is very hard to lie to yourself… so now—i open my heart again—and i am willing to face the consequences again! and again! and again! no matter what! 10 Comments

BABY....DONOR! Sep 23, 2008 8:44 pm 278 Views No string attached.... after 9 Comments

FFF Bloggers.... Sep 21, 2008 11:25 pm 357 Views May you find serenity and tranquility in a world You may not always understand. May the pain you have known and conflict you have experienced Give you the strength to walk through life Facing each new situation with courage and optimism. Always know that there are those whose love and understanding Will always be there, even when you feel most alone. May you discover enough goodness in others To believe in a world of peace. May a kind word, a reassuring touch, a warm smile be yours Every day of your life, And may you give these gifts as well as receive them. Remember the sunshine when the storm seems unending. Teach love to those who know hate, And let that love embrace you as you go into the world. May the teaching of those you admire become part of you, So that you may call upon them. Remember, those whose lives you have touched And who have touched yours are always a part of you, Even if the encounters were less than you would have wished. It is the content of the encounter that is more important than it's form. May you not become too concerned with material matters, But instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart. Find time in each day to see the beauty and love in the world around you. Realize that each person has limitless abilities, But each of us is different in our own way. What you may feel you lack in one regard May be more than compensated for in another. What you feel you lack in the present May become one of your strengths in the future. May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth by yourself, And not be dependent on another's judgement of your accomplishments. May you always feel loved. 13 Comments

What is a "Cool Girl" means??? Sep 20, 2008 6:33 pm 266 Views Lately I've been thinking a lot about the idea of a "Cool Girl." You hear most men using the term, and some women. Men everywhere, without ever having talked to each other, share a common idea about women and use the term "Cool Girl" universally. In some places the actual words are different, but the idea is the same. But what does it actually MEAN And is it important that men all have this common belief about women? Well, after thinking about this particular topic for a long time, I've come to the conclusion that it is a VERY important topic. At this point, I believe that a COOL GIRL is this "ideal" that men imagine when they're saying "I want my freedom." They're thinking of the COOL GIRL, and then they're imagining themselves with a woman who is this way. There are a lot of aspects to this COOL GIRL. Here are a few that are important: - Lack of Insecurities - Easygoing - Humor - Unpredictability - Independent - Emotionally "balanced" ...and the list goes on. It's actually not easy to describe a COOL GIRL in a few sentences... but the truth is that a man can recognize one INSTANTLY...(do they) For more on exactly what a COOL GIRL is, how they naturally communicate with men in a way that makes men think, "This is the kind of woman that I can see myself committing and staying with..." 2 Comments

An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP Mr. Right... Sep 18, 2008 8:11 pm 254 Views Dear friend, I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them... Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt? You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him? In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you. Another one... Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen? Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway. And finally: Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after? You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you. I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like: "He's just a jerk, forget about him". Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you. And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it. In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk). In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently... Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right. Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation. You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do... 2 Comments

Liberation Sep 17, 2008 7:49 pm 222 Views Down through the ages it's been said that women have been subjected to suppression by the male gender in the society. Then some women, with a brighter outlook towards life, started a movement called "liberation of women". The basic need was to educate a woman as a person, as it is said, "if you educate a man you educate a single person, but if you educate a woman you educate a family". But in the due course of time, the true essence of liberation was lost somewhere along the line and the outcome was entirely different. Women, who were open in their life style and dress, were considered liberated and modern. Women who did not follow the culture and were disrespectful towards it were labeled as liberated. But would it not have been better if instead of all this, the mind was liberated? And instead of probing at the lower level and a narrow spectrum of the word "liberation" a broader and an open outlook would have been more helpful? If women had been suppressed, there would have been no women rulers till the modern era. The true essence of liberation is liberation of the mind with a broader outlook, greater understanding, and the will and determination to face any situation in life without being labeled as the weaker gender. 2 Comments

Forget YOU! Aug 18, 2008 12:21 am 251 Views It's been a while I still can't forget you. With all those good times, I may not want you. I need to move on, its just so hard I dont know why I feel so barred. No one knows what we had, Now that I'm alone I feel so bad. I'm gonna forget you I swear I will, It'll just take time For my heart to heal.... 2 Comments

Where Do Broken Hearts Go? Aug 16, 2008 10:05 pm 272 Views Do they fell back in time and no longer dwell in the midst of love or do they revive when raindrops heal the wounds, but do they dare love once more? ..then what do you think 2 Comments

LOVE has no LIMIT......... Aug 12, 2008 7:08 pm 233 Views While Dad was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car. In his anger, Dad took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, his child said "Dad when will my fingers grow back?" Dad was so hurt. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times. Sitting back he looked at the scratches, child wrote "I LOVE YOU DAD" I was so touched w/ this one 1 comment

~Some Friends are Forever~ Aug 3, 2008 10:52 pm 276 Views Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete, because you need not worry. You have a forever friend for life, and forever has no end. 2 Comments

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