Why Do People Attend EB (Eye Ball)? Oct 30, 2009 4:48 pm Mood: curious, 1141 Views (Eye Ball) EB: What's the real motive(s) for holding it? In all honesty, the reason why I attend EB's is for me to see and get to know the real people behind those "boxed" pictures that I see everytime I log on to FFF. I also have no special preference, be it more of women than men or vice-versa...I just know I have this urge to meet them as friends, of course, after a long period of "cyber-bonding" . Maybe, I'm still naive about this EB thingie you know, because NOW, I know for a fact that quite a few people attend this gathering in the hope to find someone to hook up with it, whatever the intentions are (pure or with hidden agenda). I had just concluded a very successful Eye Ball in San Francisco, California, and Lordie-Lordie!...Someone from FFF (not necessarily from my group, FEEL ) , was actually very "disappointed" and maybe,I can tell why......Is it because for every penny that person spent is considered a "form of investment" that needs to have a surmountable return? or is it because that person thinks that at last, s/he will get hooked up and finally the "realization" of that elusive dream will finally come true? (Ano siya? Sinuswerte? )... ...Ahhhh! Me and my Big mouth, err, my being so "blunt"...I just had to write this one...For me, no matter how a person tries to overcome his/her "bad" natural tendencies, they'll show up just as quick as soon as that person counts the losses s/he incurred....What can I say?...Up to this very minute, I trust my same old "instinct"...It never fails me... 57 Comments

FEELers EB with Leah (sugarysyrup) in SFO Oct 27, 2009 8:25 pm Mood: nostalgic, 944 Views Now this one was taken FRIDAY night (10/16/09) at SOLITA's club, SFO...As you can see, it's All Ladies... (Bday1021),(eb1209),(sugarysyrup), and (ladylike39115) 20 Comments

FEELers SFO EB Pix with Jeany (Jean_1000) Oct 27, 2009 8:17 pm Mood: sharing, 1171 Views Well, Jeany joined us on Friday evening at a coffee shop in downtown SFO, and during the Big night at SOLITA's, on the 17th of October, where we truly had a blast! 53 Comments

Another San Francisco EB picture of FEELers Oct 27, 2009 8:07 pm Mood: sharing, 725 Views Well, this time, I am included in the picture...This was taken at Sausalito boardwalk..I guess...We are ALL FEELers here....Jeff,Marivic,Antonio, Myself (Elz), and Bhabes... 12 Comments

FEELers In The City By The Bay: San Francisco, CA (EB) Oct 27, 2009 7:37 pm Mood: showy, 800 Views Well, not everyone is in my network here at FFF, at Multiply, and in Facebook. I'm sure, quite a lot would like to have a closer look of what it was to have an Eye Ball of the FEEL members in San Francisco, CA. Even the "poor" Mr. Younglooking, has not viewed any of them (And please, don't ask me why...You wouldn't believe the reasons, anyway... )...This is just the part one and later on, I'll also post a couple of pictures with other FFF members who gladly joined us for 2 nights there... 27 Comments

Boy Toys, Lolitas, Cougars and Manthers Oct 26, 2009 1:40 pm Mood: informative, 1034 Views In this world where everyone NEEDs someone and something to boost their ailing egos, different types of relationships are being sought after and developed. But at times, things really happen because of LOVE... Do we really have to explain why there are Boy toys, Lolitas, Cougars, and Manthers? Will someone have the courage to come out and testify that YES, it's perfectly fine to fall in love with someone not your age group? What does age disparity has to do with relationships? And why is it that during earlier times, it appeared one-sided, meaning, it was OKAY for older men to have relationships with younger women, while it seemed a "taboo" for older women to even consider younger men? Well, I've got good news for you, in this generation...NOT ANYMORE! LEGEND: Boy toy -a much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boy) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification. Lolita - a sexually precocious girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. Cougar - a woman over 40 who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior. Manther - the male version of a cougar. 65 Comments

Admit it!...He's Not Really Into You... Oct 25, 2009 12:27 pm Mood: realistic, 1120 Views Ladies, I know the truth hurts, so please...QUIT fooling yourselves 'coz He's Not Really Into You...I know, if it was me, I can tell... There are at least TEN (10) ways to tell, when a Man Is Not Really Into A Woman...Please read on... 70 Comments

My Wedding Dress.... Oct 24, 2009 3:02 am Mood: dreaming, 603 Views It's been more than 9 years since I bought a very nice wedding dress, year 2000, in one of New York City's Boutiques. It was a creation of famous fashion designer, Vera Wang, and it was on sale. I fell in love with the gown when I saw it, and bought it with compulsion. That was a year after my heart was badly broken, but my dreams of someday walking down the aisle with someone who will sweep me off my feet, was at its fervent peak. I swear, I looked so fabulous when I "fitted" that immaculate wedding gown. Everything was perfectly trimmed to my figure, and I couldn't explain WHY?...I never thought about "superstitious beliefs" regarding fitting/wearing a wedding gown, thinking, this is America, and it's an ultra modern world...But, lately, after so many chances that passed by and missed, I began to have second thoughts...This past month, I've been cleaning my closets and storage rooms to find good stuffs to send to the Philippine victims of typhoon Ondoy, Pepeng, and Ramil, etc., and I found the wedding dress, neatly wrapped in long, black plastic covers, and when I unzipped it, WOW! it's still as beautiful and immaculate as the day I bought it !...But now, I have to let it go...Not that I'm giving up my dreams of someday walking down the aisle in white...But, because I know, it won't hurt me if for once, I reconsider that superstitious belief of NOT wearing or fitting any gown prior to even meeting that SPECIAL person in my life...I am hoping it'll make someone very happy to wear that beautiful wedding gown...Maybe, someone who already had been engaged or living together with kids can benefit from it...In the meantime, I will "weave" a new wedding gown in my dreams... 22 Comments

Vindictive Love.... Oct 21, 2009 6:17 am Mood: simply easy, 1013 Views When one experiences hurt, sometimes s/he has no ability to cope with it. There is a tendency to be spiteful, to take revenge, to purposely hurt back, to be resentful. But the sad part of it is that the desire to avenge from that painful experience is to hurt the "innocent", someone who is not directly involved with whatever ill feelings one is experiencing. In short, someone's got to be punished, somehow.. Is this fair?...Who cares? Someone's got to pay! No matter how much it'll cost that person... I've heard tons of stories of women (mostly) who were wooed by men, and once they're swept off their feet in "love", the same men just "leave", with lots of alibis or without notice...Can you relate to this? I've been enveloped with the fear of experiencing the same, so much so that I created a "wall" to protect myself from this misfortune. I was pretty close to ending up with it a couple of times in different situations (or so, I thought). But it is said that the walls we build around us to protect us from being sad and hurt, are the same walls that prevent us from experiencing the joys..And I guess, that is also true.. I was advised many times NOT to be too analytical. " Feelings are not supposed to be logical. Dangerous is the wo/man who keeps rationalizing his/her emotions. " It is said that " All Is Fair In Love and War "...Let's not be vindictive.. 57 Comments

Who Lies More In Their Profiles: MEN or WOMEN? Oct 12, 2009 12:16 pm 1588 Views I've been a member of this website for 4 years now, and I noticed that a "whole lot" of members lie about their (forget about their names)age, gender, location, occupation, and most specially, their marital status. I know and understand the importance of anonymity of FFF members, but if NOT telling the real personal information is being done to deliberately FOOL and PLAY with people and their feelings, I believe that becomes a major ethical issue...I do admire those who write at least 75% TRUTH about themselves, and are just being careful, but vehemently writing lies and hurt others?...I truly condemn and abhor that practice and idea.. So tell me please, in your personal experiences here at Filipinofriendfinder, WHO DO YOU THINK TELLS MORE LIES? ...You may opt to post your comments...Thank you! MEN WOMEN LESBIANS GAYS 85 Comments , 28 votes

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