..IT'S ALL ABOUT..US. but mostly me. it's usually about my own thoughts that i convey, my questions that need answers. who and how i am. my opinions, my thinking on plain everyday living. not that it matters, but i'm sharing it anyway. whether you like it or not.
first of all, i want to say sorry for all the ladies that have broken hearts, i sympathize with you, i know how it feels for my heart was broken too..
now back to why women say men are natural cheats and say men are always the cause of their heartaches..i read a lot of times, how men are depicted..repeatedly, almost every female here says that it's man's nature to cheat..hey, it's not and say if it is, not all men do!!!
for the sake of argument, say i agree with this notion, that men are natural cheaters..my question is..how can a man cheat if the woman he is trying to cheat with says NO!?..a lot of you would probably say that the woman didn't know, that she was sweet talked to and she believed in all the man's lies....
for women in this site searching for their soulmates, let me ask you, when a man shows interests in you, do you say yes to him right away?..of course not!!!..you want to find out about this man..if this man is sincere, truthful and whatever it is you want to know about him before jumping into a relationship with him, right?..especially, if the man is really available and not in a relationship of any kind..
then how can women say that they were lied to?..i think women, some at least, already know what's going on, but they also have hidden agendas of their own....they may be physically attracted to the man and like his character, of how the man is..and she's feeling that why can't she have him, so they either turn a blind eye or look the other way ..or for some, they would try to get the man for themselves, to get the man to leave whoever he is in a relationship with, be it a wife or a gf, and hope that the man would take her in..see how a woman can think of stealing a man from another woman?....and when nothing happens, the woman cries foul...in the ex-wife/gf's case, they blame the man for breaking their heart for cheating..can't you see that another woman caused it to happen, not just the man?....
here's an interesting example....say that a man is a dog, his instincts tells him to sniff out other women..have you seen a male dog sniffing out a female one?..the male dog smells the behind, right?....anyway, when the female dog is not in heat, what does it do?..it snarls at the dog sniffing her from behind, like saying, get away from me or i'll bite, and walks away, right?...THAT IS SAYING NO..
do you see how it's all up to the women for cheating and/or something, to happen?..if the woman keeps her legs crossed, do you think the man can continue on with what he seeks? think about it..that women actually have the power over men when it comes to sex..
one word, 2 letters.."NO"..this goes both ways..both man and woman cheat..if you don't want it happening, all that need be said is "NO"..so please, stop saying, stop generalizing, stop classifying all men, just men, as cheaters..IF YOU WANT TO SAY WHO CHEATS, SAY THE HUMAN RACE CHEATS....
. it's usually about my own thoughts that i convey, my questions that need answers. who and how i am. my opinions, my thinking on plain everyday living
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..they may be physically attracted to the man and like his character, of how the man is..and she's feeling that why can't she have him, so they either turn a blind eye or look the other way ..or for some, they would try to get the man for themselves, to get the man to leave whoever he is in a relationship with, be it a wife or a gf, and hope that the man would take her in..see how a woman can think of stealing a man from another woman?..
..and when nothing happens, the woman cries foul...in the ex-wife/gf's case, they blame the man for breaking their heart for cheating..can't you see that another woman caused it to happen, not just the man?..
