Inspired quotes from Sex in the City
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Posted:Jul 3, 2006 2:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2006 3:40 am 4501 Views
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1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep
him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make
him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind
about a man's character, leave him
alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save
you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before
you find what makes you truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve then
heck no you can't "be friends." A friend
wouldn't mistreat a friend.
10. Have faith in God regarding your
relationship, But don't let faith make you
stupid. God does things decent and in
order.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about
the relationship--take that as a BIG sign
that he is unstable. Do you really want to
be with a man like that?
14. Don't stay because you think "it will
get better." You'll be mad at yourself a
year later for staying when things are not
better.
15. Honorable men take care of their
business and aren't involved in a whole
lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man
dumps you; he doesn't want you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of
by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any
differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs
before finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your
happiness first.
21. Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy
treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up.
23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that
interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be
strung along.
26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role".
Remove yourself from the situation to let
him figure things out (but don't wait for
him, move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how
he will treat you, watch how he treats the
WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
28. There's more than physical abuse,
there's emotional and mental abuse. If
he causes any of them...flee.
29. You cannot change a man's
behaviors. Change comes from within.
30. Don't let him place rules on you that
he is not willing to follow himself --
double-standard.
31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can't give
it, he can't have you!
34. Don't compete with other woman, but
be aware that men are attracted to what
they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he
probably is. Confront him right away and
if you feel he's lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments,
look to yourself for that.
39. Never borrow someone else's man.
40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on
you.
41. Just because he says he loves you,
doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and
it doesn't mean that you are meant to be
with him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom --
'get it right' the next time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the
number one person in the life of the #1
person in your life.
44. Love is a verb ...
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of
trying to make someone unavailable-
available, someone ungiving-giving, and
someone unloving-loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all
the bending...compromise is a two way
street.
49. If you don't love self...you can't love
anyone else.
50. You cannot mend someone else's
broken heart.
51. You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage...deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for
someone complementary...not
supplementary.
53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn
out to be Mr. Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship
than you are getting out of it.
55. Never become your man's "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict,
believe the actions. Respond to the
actions.
57. A r eal healthy relationship requires
two people. One person can end it - but it
takes two to make it work.
58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving
type"...when a man loves you there is
nothing in this world (within reason) that
he wouldn't do for you.
59. Make him miss you sometimes...when
a man always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to
him he takes it for granted.
60. Give him his space...let him go out
with his boys, don't pressure him to spend
time with you, You cant force a man to
hang out with you.
61. If you wouldn't allow your to
be with him you shouldn't.
62. Never let a man know everything. He
will use it against you later.
63. Never move into his mother's house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and
don't depend on anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect
guy and he is so innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil
you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it's time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like
good men.
71. Don't play games.
72. Don't fully commit to a man who
doesn't give you everything that you
need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to
know others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational
attainment, values, beliefs, personal and
career goals, and socioeconomic status,
are important.
75. Never date a guy who wears colored
contacts.
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I Need You
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Posted:Jul 3, 2006 2:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 12:09 pm 4279 Views
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I think about you each second
Of each and every day,
And each and every second,
At night for you I pray.
I pray I can kiss your lips,
And hold you in my arms.
I pray I can be your man,
And protect you from worldly harms.
I want to hold you,
And never let you go,
I want to tell you I love you,
And make sure you always know...
That I will always be true,
Until my last dying day,
Even if things don't work out,
You know what I'll say.
I'll say I'm sorry,
And then I'll say I care,
I will never say good-bye,
Because I will always be there.
You must not worry yourself
Over what time will bring,
Because I'll worry about you,
And never another thing.
I guess you can call it begging,
Or maybe call it pleading,
Whatever you want to call it,
You're still the one I'm needing.
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.... a piEce oF mE....
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Posted:Jun 14, 2006 7:20 pm
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 11:52 pm 4496 Views
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But i was afraid of hearing something i didn't want to hear..I won't get into it.. i won't bring up the subject...but what if he really loved me?...what if he thought that we could transform this love into something deeper?...
RIDICULOUS.. There's nothing deeper than love.. In fairy tales, the princesses kiss the frogs and the frogs turn into princes, but in real life the princesses kiss the princes and the princes turn into frogs..
If pain must come, may it come quickly because i have a life to live and i need to live it the best way possible... Yes... i know my limits and how to stay in control.....its risky...falling in love....
Love doesn't need to be discussed, it has its own voice and speaks for itself....
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haVe u fOuNd HiM??
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Posted:Jun 14, 2006 7:17 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:14 am 4359 Views
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Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot..... Who calls you back even after you hang up.... who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.....
With for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when your in sweats, who holds your hand in front of your friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without make up on....
With for the one who constantly reminds you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you,
With for the one who turns to his friends..." pare... that's HER..."
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much have been said
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Posted:Jun 14, 2006 7:15 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:14 am 4329 Views
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Much has been said,said you never leave
Why it have to beharder than it had to be
don’t you throw blame you were part of this
wasn,t suppose to end with us just walking away
So many times we tried holding on to the pain
but in my babys eyes I see my shame
asking why you had to leave wasn’t I strong enough
to make you see that the biggest part of this
it’s not about you or me but just be wrong if we held on
So maybe tomorrow well find a taste for the old days hard lessons we’ve left behin This mirrors an open door i can barely stand to see myself
i dont know what to do anymore i’m crying out for help
Much has been said will I never learn
keeping my fingers crossed praying for my luck to turn
but I cant complain i’m living it easy
jobs keeping me busy going Crazy
cant describe the way it felt when you left said your goodbyes
it just seems crazy for me to think that i’ll find love a second time
but we all know how it all wraps up in the end
so maybe tomorrow we’ll find.. a taste for all the hard lesson
we’ve left behind
This mirrors an open door i can barely stand to see myself
i dont know what to do anymore i’m crying out for help
What am I leaving behind Sweet how we see the big picture
when youre lifes not on the line I know the way but
do you see what I see tortured life always
second guessing the bookie Pot money on the table thought
that was all I had to do Never came home
Never said a word to you No one ever said it was going to be easy
Easy … start over again this time this time
Lets do it right Start over again this time this time
Lets keep the fires burning…burning ..yeah
You say,i only hear what i want to
you say, i talk so all the time …
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to gurLs out there
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Posted:Jun 14, 2006 7:13 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:14 am 4688 Views
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When you love, never stick only to what your heart feels, remember, that sometimes, using the brain is necessity..
Next, never use your eyes to cry for the guy hu fooled you... instead, use it in search of the new and right one..
Lastly, dont be scared of breaking up--- keeping the relationship with the wrong guy is scarier.
Love the one hu'l fight for you and bravely face each and every consequence. Love the one hu'l accept u and will love u mor despite of great mistakes you did. Love the one hu'l hold on.. someone hu'l never let the feelngs be gone ...
Someone hom you can call a Man rather than a guy...
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A prince
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Posted:Jun 14, 2006 7:10 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:14 am 4287 Views
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When I was young, I used to live in fairy tales and wonder how they come up in such endings, like how Snow White was found by her prince and revived her through a sweet, gentle kiss, or Jasmine, an Arabian princess who fell in love with a poor yet good-hearted thief, Aladdin. In movies, “Every princess has to live happily ever after” and I am very much willing to bet that it applies to every other girl out there including me, of course for every girl is a princess, right?. Prince Charming, the perfect guy, formed and given very intricate detail by the magical touch of imagination, has always been part of my little girl-age fantasies. I often wonder when and how will I discern his “knight in shining armor” that will knock me off my feet and will go crazy over heels. But welcome to reality, darling! As I grew up, I realize that Prince Charming or this knight in shining armor does not exist fully and my search for such figure maybe in vain. The perfect guy, ironically, can never be perfect because as we all know, everyone in this world has flaws and annoying habits. (How sad..)
However, the bottom line is no matter who and what is that “guy” is, it is best way to stick with reality when trying to figure him out, not in fantasies where I used to dwell. He could be just like my dad who has the never ending patience, understanding and love for a silly girl me. My audacious cousin who’s sometimes funny, uninhibited around me and somewhat protective because we’re like siblings, who watches out for me like a true blooded brother will probably do, or my boy bud, practically my bestfriend with tons of fun to hang out with, plus he is musically inclined with a great sense of humor (which I like the most!) that ways up to a good conversation about anything and everything under the sun. As a whole, my Prince Charming must be the guy who knows his responsibilities and himself. It would be very smarter for me to consider a guy because he is worth on the inside, not because he’s as cute as Daniel Radcliffe. Being wealthy or looking like Ashton Kutcher or Brad Pitt wont rock my world, he has to rock inside where it really counts. And Lastly, I think the best way to tell if a guy is the “one”, is to see if he brings out the best in me and with that, I guess happily ever after can’t be too far away.
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diD u knOw?
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Posted:Jun 13, 2006 7:15 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:14 am 4292 Views
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Did you know that those who appear to be very strong in heart, are real weak and most susceptible?
Did you know that those who spend their time protecting others are the ones that really need someone to protect them?
Did you know that the three most difficult things to say are:
I love you, Sorry and help me
Did you know that those who dress in red are more confident in themselves?
Did you know that those who dress in yellow are those that enjoy their beauty?
Did you know that those who dress in black, are those who want to be unnoticed and need your help and understanding?
Did you know that when you help someone, the help is returned in two folds?
Did you know that it's easier to say what you feel in writing than saying it to someone in the face? But did you know that it has more value when you say it to their face?
Did you know that if you ask for something in faith, your wishes are granted?
Did you know that you can make your dreams come true, like falling in love, becoming rich, staying healthy, if you ask for it by faith, and if you really knew, you'd be surprised by what you could do.
But don't believe everything I tell you, until you try it for yourself, if you know someone that is in need of something that I mentioned, and you know that you can help, you'll see that it will be returned in two-fold.
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It's worth wating for
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Posted:Jun 13, 2006 7:11 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2006 7:07 pm 4338 Views
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It’s always better to wait for the right person and be sure you love her than stay with someone you have luke warm feelings just for the sake of not feeling too alone. Why wait? Because although we want to be decisive, we do not want to be impulsive. Although we want to be swift, we do not want to be hasty. Although we want to hold on to the one we love, we do not want to lose ourselves in the process. If we want to run, we must first learn to walk. If we want to swim, we must first learn to float. If we want to be loved, we must first learn to love. In the end, it is still best to wait for the one we want rather than settle for the one that is available. It is still best to wait for the right person. Because life is too short to waste on the wrong one. Because waiting serves a purpose. Noble and mysterious, you have to know that flowers do not bloom overnight. Rome was not built in a day. A life grows in the womb for nine months. Great love grows steadily over a lifetime. Most good things in life take a long time. And they are all worth waiting for. These, despite the fact, that although waiting requires a lot of things . . . faith, courage and hope . . . waiting guarantees nothing, one cannot imagine, after all. God in all His wisdom, asks us to wait, for no essential reason.
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uLaN
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Posted:Jun 13, 2006 7:08 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 3:14 am 4612 Views
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Lagi nalang umu-ulan
Parang walang katapusan
Tulad ng paghihirapko ngayon
Parang walang humpay
Sa kabila ng lahat ng aking pagsisikap
Na limutin ka ay di parin magawa
Hindi naman ako tanga
Alam ko na wala kana
Pero mahirap lang na tanggapin
Di na kita kapiling
Iniwan mo ako nag-iisa
Sa gitna ng dilim at basing-basa pa sa ulan
Pero huwag mag-alala
dina kita gagambalain
Alam ko naman ngayon
may kapiling ka nang-iba
Tanging hiling ko sayo
Na tuwing umu-ulan
Maalala mo sanang may
Nagmamahal sayo. Ako..
Lalalalalalalalala.
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