God smiled at me just this morning through the rising sunrays. I'm sharing the same courtesy with you by sending you a warm smile that your heart can feel even without seeing it.
Want to share you the 10 way to sabotage marriage and its antidotes.
1. Don't trust your spouse… Antidote: Learn to control your first impulse to spy on your spouse. It takes years to build up trust in a relationship, and only a few seconds to destroy it. 2. Go for thew status quo or a so-so marriage Antidote: Having unrealistic expectations an briang a couple to the point of wanting to call its quits. Expectations need to be verbalized w/ one another. 3. Be disagreeable Antidote: Negativity can come in the form of cynicism, criticism, whining, attacking, pessimism, discontent, perfectionism and hyperintensity. Change your patter of negativity. 4. Refuse your spouse any autonomy Antidote: " I need some space!" So often, this phrase is tossed out w/out really thinkng about what is being said. This can result unrealistic expectations and hurting feelings. 5. Take your spouse for granted.. make sure that you compliment your spouse at least once every day. Look for nice things you can can comment on. 6. Don't worry about your personal hygiene.. Antidote: Did you realize that even minor irritating behaviors can posibly make you allergic to your spouse annoying habits? Most spouse view nasty habits as lack of respect and can lead to lack of romance in a marriage or deromanticisation. Try to correct this bad behavior. 7. Be a messt slob. Antidote: Doing things together will help heal the marriage. 8. Be cheap.. Antidote: It doesn't make any difference if you have money or you don't have money. If the two of you have different spending habits, saving goals, thought about investing or different fears about being poor, then financial problems will eventually surface in your marriage. So talk about it. 9. Talk down to your spouse.. Antidote: Go slowly on teasing. Spme jokes aren't funny. Even though you know your spouse well. your teasing can still be offensive and can hurt a relationship. 10. Be offensive Antidote: many relationship experts advise couples to keep a sense of humor when having an argument. Just as much as humor and laughter can enhane your marriage, they can hurt your marriage.
No matter how our dreams may seem unreachable, dream them anyway. No matter how we've been hurt by someone we love, love them anyway. No matter how hard life is, live it anyway. No matter how our prayers seem unanswered, pray them anyway.Coz God will make a way.
Eleven people were hanging on a rope under a helicopter, ten men and one woman. the rope was not strong enough to carry them all, so they decided that one had to leave, because otherwise, they were all going to fall. They were unable to decide who would let go, until the woman gave a very touching speech. She said that she would voluntarily let go of the rope, because, as a woman, she was used to giving up everything for he husband and kids ans for men in general and she was used to always making sacrifices with little in return. As soon as she finished her speech, all the men started clapping.
I have a dream. My dream is a dream of purest fantasy. A dream that can only be dream by one who is deeply asleep. I dream this dream frequently and I'm sure there are many others who share this dream also. My dream takes me higher than the clouds, further than the horizon and faster than a gale force wind. I dream exuberantly and breathtakingly and I always wish never to escape from it because it is such pure ecstacy. Sadly, though, as with all dreams...it ends with a yawn and a stretch and a moment's sadness that it was JUST a dream and that is almost the beauty of it.
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