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The greatest irony of LOVE....... Dec 19, 2007 3:03 pm
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The greatest irony of love
is letting go
when you need to hold on
and holding on
when you need to let go.



I was going over my e-mail and chanced upon this beautiful letter. I want to share this to all those who have loved and hurt, those who haven’t loved at all and those who are just about to discover the beauty of this moving emotion.



When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the business of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go!

You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you're not part of it.

Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.
You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don’t learn how to love.

Love doesn't hurt all the time, though the hurting is still there to test you and to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because
you don’t force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.

The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.

To love is to risk rejections; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.

Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that these were the things which helped you grow.

Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.

There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love. When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When you promise to love, refuse to let it die!
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Life is beautiful..... Dec 17, 2007 11:40 am
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Good morning love
The morning here in Sydney is beautiful with lots of sunshine
The weather has changed from cloudy and showers
from a couple of weeks to sunshine now
But it will never be as beautiful as you are love
Wherever I go I will always be happy and joyful
For the simple reason that I have you in my life
You are the constant reminder that God meant happiness for us
You are the testimony in my life that life is beautiful
Amidst all the pains, heartaches and struggles in the past
Life is beautiful to live
Thank you love for coming in to my life and allowing me into yours
Love you so much
Take care always and ingatzzzz on your way to work
May you wake up this morning and find yourself in a bed of roses
Catch you laterzzzzz love
ang iyong Sam
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A month ago today...... Dec 15, 2007 2:39 am
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No matter who you are
where you’re from,
how far apart we are,
we will know that
we are for each other
and then we will live the life
that’s meant for us.


The Ideal Person in my profile has been met in the person of Trisianmay, my DearHeart. We were both searching when love found us and brought us together and our lives have never been the same again. A month ago today the search has stopped and we are now living the life that's meant for us
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15 DECEMBER 2007 Dec 14, 2007 6:19 am
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HAPPY 1ST MONTH ANNIVERSARY LOVE
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Another day of ....... Dec 13, 2007 1:16 pm
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Good morning Love
I miss you
just 22 more days of waiting
and I will finally see you
as each passing days go
my hearts beats louder with anticipation
my mind knows nothing else but to see you
it’s indeed a torture
but a torture I wanted to be
a torture of waiting
but a torture of hope as well
a torture of longing
but a torture of seeing my self with you as well
until we reached that day it will remain a torture for me
and when that day comes
I will then be free
free from this torture that has enslaved me for weeks
free to hug you
free to kiss you
free to touch your hair
free to follow the contour of your beautiful face with my fingers
free to look into your eyes and to whisper that I love you so much
free to thank you for coming into my life and letting me into your life
free to share this special moment with the one you so much love
until that day love I have to contend myself with my daily morning offline messages for you
may you wake up this morning with a smile on your face and full of excitement as I’ am
hugs and kisses for you love for the rest of the day
I love you so much completely and forever
Always take care of yourself love and ingatzzzz on your way to work
ang iyong Sam
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My love for you..... Dec 12, 2007 2:46 pm
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My love for you
will wipe away
the sorrows and tears
of your yesterdays
with joys and happiness
of today and tomorrow
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26 Beautiful One-liners Dec 12, 2007 10:23 am
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26 Beautiful One-liners

1. Give God what's right -- not what's left.

2. Man's way leads to a hopeless end -- God's way leads to an endless hope.

3. A lot of kneeling will keep you in good standing.

4. He who kneels before God can stand before anyone.

5. In the sentence of life, the devil may be a comma--but never let him be the period.

6. Don't put a question mark where God puts a period.

7. Are you wrinkled with burden? Come to the church for a face-lift.

8. When praying, don't give God instructions - just report for duty.

9. Don't wait for six strong men to take you to church.

10. We don't change God's message -- His message changes us.

11. The church is prayer-conditioned.

12 When God ordains, He sustains.

13. WARNING: Exposure to the Son may prevent burning.

14. Plan ahead -- It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark.

15. Most people want to serve God, but only in an advisory position.

16. Suffering from truth decay? Brush up on your Bible.

17. Exercise daily -- walk with the Lord.

18. Never give the devil a ride -- he will always want to drive.

19. Nothing else ruins the truth like stretching it.

20. Compassion is difficult to give away because it keeps coming back.

21. He who angers you controls you.

22. Worry is the darkroom in which negatives can develop.

23. Give Satan an inch and he'll be a ruler.

24. Be ye fishers of men -- you catch them and He'll clean them.

25. God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.

26. Read the Bible -- It will scare the hell out of you.
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I thank God for you.... Dec 9, 2007 11:40 am
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Good morning my DearHeart
I love you so much
I've just read your recent blogs "I'm the prisoner of your heart" and "IF"
thank you so much love
every time I would read blogs from you
and see your new pictures I would always find my self
falling in love with you over and over again
I'm finding in my self with no words
to describe what I’m feeling for you
except to say "God I love her so much"
deep down inside me
I would thank God every now and then
for letting our paths cross and finding each other
and would ask God "please don’t take her away from me"
for I wouldn’t know what to do if I loose you
I've never been so sure in my life
than what I said to you before
that I love you
and want to marry you
and build a family with you
and spend the rest of my life with you
I love you so much my DearHeart completely and forever
May your day be full of joys and happiness
as I always sing a song of love from my heart to yours
take care always love and ingat ka on your way to work
Love you so much
laterzzzz
and iyong Sam
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Why God made MOMS Dec 7, 2007 1:10 am
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WHY GOD MADE MOMS

Answers given by 2nd grade school children to the following questions:


Why did God make mothers?

1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.


How did God make mothers?

1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
3. God made my Mom just the same like he made me. He just used bigger parts.


What ingredients are mothers made of?

1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world and one dab of mean.
2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they mostly use string, I think.


Why did God give you your mother and not some other mom?

1. We're related.
2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's moms like me.


What kind of little girl was your mom?

1. My Mom has always been my mom and none of that other stuff.
2. I don't know because I wasn't there, but my guess would be pretty bossy.
3. They say she used to be nice.


What did mom need to know about dad before she married him?

1. His last name.
2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?


Why did your mom marry your dad?

1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my Mom eats a lot.
2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
3. My grandma says that Mom didn't have her thinking cap on.


Who's the boss at your house?

1. Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because dad's such a goof ball.
2. Mom. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the bed.
3. I guess Mom is, but only because she has a lot more to do than dad.


What's the difference between moms & dads?

1. Moms work at work and work at home and dads just go to work at work.
2. Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
3. Dads are taller & stronger, but moms have all the real power 'cause that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friend's.
4. Moms have magic; they make you feel better without medicine.


What does your mom do in her spare time?

1. Mothers don't do spare time.
2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.


What would it take to make your mom perfect?

1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of plastic surgery.
2. Diet. You know her hair. I'd diet, maybe blue.


If you could change one thing about your mom, what would it be?

1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I'd get rid of that.
2. I'd make my mom smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did it and not me.
3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on the back of her head.
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The state I’m every morning Dec 5, 2007 1:38 pm
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I now find myself every morning in a blissful peace
as I open my eyes to greet the morning
I found myself greeting you in my thoughts
sometimes talking aloud as if you’re next to me
I go to the chat window that we previously had
and write down my morning thoughts
and heart messages for you
of the joys and happiness that you have brought to me
of how much i truly love you
of how much i long for you
of how much i desire to be with you
of how much i want to spend my lifetime with you
It’s been some time now that
I've been sending you my morning offline messages
and I’m not seeing myself stopping it anytime soon,
not even in a very very long time
There's so much i need to say to you
There’s so much i need you to know
and just by saying i love you wouldn’t be enough
The love that i have for you will speak everyday
The love that i have for you will show everyday
The love that i have for you will be forever
I love you so much Geirard May M.
May your day start with the hugs and kisses
I’ve thrown at your way
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