The Soil Of Love
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Posted:Nov 25, 2009 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2009 5:20 pm 15605 Views
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I read blogs and poems of some people talking about their broken hearts, or blessed happy hearts!
I hear expressions and vocabularies like (heartaches) or (heartbreak)or even (heartless) !
At the same time, i read about memories of sad love stories, and memories of people who we think/thought they have occupied our hearts endlessly!
So, What is heart to do with love? and how are they related to each other?
in some studies, it is said that a heart has nothing to do with love at all!
it is the brain that really loves!!
and when the brain make a preference on someone, it sends orders to the heart "house of love" to love this person!
Then, it is not really the heart that choose to love, but waits for the orders issued by the brain to love, since the heart is the source of love!
This concept led me to the question:
If the heart is not main player in the process of preference, why would it break when a love story got stuck at somewhere unsuccessfully?
Unless the heart is the source of pain too!!
But I like to look at it from a different angle!
I strongly believe, that hearts are the best soil for love to be planted and grow up there in that soil!
If a love story failed, it does not necessarily mean that this soil is no more good for planting at all!
It is just that we were unlucky to harvest during a certain season! but we can keep the seeds for another better season where we will see the rich soil is really giving endlessly, and we will for sure have a fruitful harvest!
Therefore, memories also follow that!
we remember the bad season, but it does not mean our soil is no more good for a new one! on the contrary, we should instead, start fertilizing for a new harvest as soon as we are done with the bead one, learning from what happened and gave us bad results!
Our memories are also ready to memorize the fruitful seasons as well!
For all those who feel they lost someone, it only means they had a bad harvest season and should be ready for a better one!
This rich soil of love, will always be able to give us the best of what can be given, if just we thank God that our bad seasons did not break us totally!
We can always stand up again and prepare for a nicer tomorrow and a promising dawn!
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Sex Trips
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Posted:Nov 12, 2009 5:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2009 4:10 pm 22982 Views
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It is not new to me, to hear a lady friend telling me:
- I like to meet you whenever you come to Pinas! But can I bring a friend with me?
I used to think why should a friend who is coming to see me and meet me in person after years of chatting, bring someone with her in case she is going to meet up with me? 
until lately one of my good friends (lady) said:
I like to meet you but only if that meeting is a decent one! 
now, how a meeting can be decent and it might be indecent?
I talked to a filipino friend at length about it, and here what he told me:
"Many foreigners come to the Philippines only for sex! it is cheaper for them. Not only that, but they might get a better quality than women in their countries too!"
and he added: "Look at those old guys who keep chasing !  why u think they do that? You think it is real love?"
and he answers to that : "of course not! these old men cant find in their countries girls in their twenties or even teenagers, either to view them naked on web cams, or meet them for sex if they are really coming to the country"!
It is shocking to me!
do people really travel so long hours, specially those who should make a stop over somewhere, or might even have to change the plane and wait for the other one just to find cheap sex? 
It is true that one time, a girl from FFF sent me an email telling me that she is working for a company that provide some sort of services includes, hotel, food and girls, mostly done in Davao!
When I asked her, but how would u know the girl of my taste to prepare it as part of the package?
she said: " No, every night we bring 4-5 girls and u have to choose the one or more u want!"
But even if this is true, this might happen all over the world!!
what i am discussing here, whether it is true that some guys might really travel just for sex, and if that is the case, should any filipina meeting a friend who is visiting her country think that he is also meeting her for sex?
While thinking of all that, I thought, Oh my God! I have so many women friends almost all over the philippines, and even I were a sex machine, I wont be able to make that trip successful! 
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Beyond The Bounds Of Memory
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Posted:Nov 8, 2009 5:49 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2009 5:15 pm 15987 Views
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I have seen her tears
falling, showering her soul
I watched the years
deep digging, saying it all
I heard her dream
through darkness,
in her loneliness,
waiting the sun beam
this long vague road
seems to be endless
and her night was darker
than her silky hair
that is how I seen it
or so it seem!
what can she do
when her soul twinned with pain
and where were you
when she tried to stand again
It is too late
when love vipor
leaving her alone with her insanity
and it is beyond the bounds of memory
to think the deep wound is a vanity!
She will rise again
no matter her pain
no more the clouds scares her
now she knows which cloud is fake
and which one is full of rain!
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250
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Posted:Oct 30, 2009 4:36 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2009 5:30 pm 18092 Views
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250 looks like a strange title for a blog.
if you wonder what does it refer to, I tell you! it is the 250th blog I wrote in this site by now!
You may say, so what?! there are other bloggers who wrote a lot more than that in a shorter time than me!
But some of my friends who are regular readers of my blogs, know that I am not that massive writer!
the average of my work does not exceed 3 blogs per month! Therefore, this is my product since i started blogging 5 years ago!
But I am not only a writer! I am also a good reader!
I spend a lot of time reading blogs of my friends and even some of the bloggers that i hardly know!
What is most important to me, that this FFF site is the place where I mostly poured my soul, squeezed my heart, and often sailed beyond the limits of my mind!
This may explain why i still a member of FFF far from the question of whether i am here to find a soul mate or not!
It is true that FFF is the best forum to me where I say both how i feel and what I think and share the comments with my friends over those views!
One more important factor that should be mentioned here!
Since most of the members of this FFF site are Filipino people, and thus most of my readers are also Filipinos, I admit it that I have found out that the nation of the philippines, as one of the most educated and open minded people with whom I cant discuss and talk about any thing under the sun, without being scared of misunderstanding!
Thanks God for giving me the power to continue!
Thanks to my friends who supported my continuation!
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May I Light My Candle Now
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Posted:Oct 21, 2009 5:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2009 4:28 am 17110 Views
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May I "softly" change the rhythm
May I gently leave a touch
that makes a difference
May I intentionally
double the meaning
to draw a smile amongst the tears
exactly as if the sun rising
amongst the cloud
May I continue ask
without a question mark
'cause the morning that caries the answers
never seems to come yet
and my candle remain never lit
May I wish to burn this flesh
in the burning fire of you love
till I see heaven above
cries for you
and for me
May the rain still fall
to wash you your soul
till the flood washes your memory
and draw the path
leading me to your loneliness
showing me your naked sadness
touching your trembling fingers
frozen toes
weary eyelashes
and the broken heart
that still beat
though it is falling a part
May I be the cloud
that does not hide the light
but shade your suffering heart
May I gather the remaining
that spread here and there
put an end
to your ultimate "no where"
kiss your forehead
till tomorrow brings back
the smile on your lips again
May I wash a way your sorrows
May I wash a way your pain
May I light my candle now
tease the wind
and laugh at the rain
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Sing Your Song
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Posted:Oct 10, 2009 6:47 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2009 5:49 pm 17573 Views
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be strong
walk your road
sing your song
like walking
on a edge of a sword!
no matter how you bleed
farm the last seed
real men die standing
what talk of them
only their real deed!
be strong and proceed
it is worth it
what you want is different
from what you really need!
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On Love And Lust
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Posted:Oct 8, 2009 4:24 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2009 5:08 pm 18372 Views
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No man is an angel!
And no woman is a devil!
but that is the nature of life!
It is not a sin to feel your desires burning! It is not a sin to feel lusting for a woman ur totally fond of her lips, specially when you see a slight fissure between her lips, predicting she is going to whisper something, or assuming she will moan in a second!
And you desires start burning whether your in love or not!
it is one of God's miracles in making our mankind unique of our complicated feelings between love and lust!
So, Does love bring lust, or is it the opposite, that lust create love?
I know it is hard to split between love and lust!
Some of us would think love is the highest human feeling that join to human hearts together, in such a pure way!
some others might argue, lust is just the fruit of love, and it is the expression of people on how much they love each other!
I often read in some members profiles at FFF, that some girls say: guys, if you just looking for lust, then you are parking under the wrong tree!
others say, in simple words, I am here for true love, not for lust!
I presume some guys would run a way when they read such statements!
and what if a guy says, I am here for true love!
Does he mean he won't look or expect lust?
I am just curious on how true those people to their concepts, and whether they mean what they say, and really wonder if they can split love from lust?!
I wont elaborate further on the subjects, knowing most of you don't really like big blogs and also because I want to hear what you saying about it, then we can share and debate, through comments! 
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On Love And Adoration
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Posted:Oct 6, 2009 1:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2009 2:12 pm 16037 Views
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When you surrender totally to The Almighty God, and feel you are thoroughly given to him, at that stage of spiritual love, you feel at ease, and you no more bother about the rest! human love to each other, is just a part of the human love to God, and adoration to His Almighty! Nothing can mend our hearts and gather them together again as much as our adoration to God! When we reach that stage of faith, we learn how to love truly and honestly!
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Words You Need To Know
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Posted:Oct 5, 2009 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2009 5:18 pm 16345 Views
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To give, is to gain a lot more than what you gave!
To forgive, means you have a noble heart and you are stronger than any other time!
To forget, means you have a clear good memory!
To regret, means you will have a bleeding tomorrows!
To suffer, means you worth a lot as a human being!
To say fare well, means you are a decision maker!
To pretend, means you have many dump colors!
To doubt your lover, means you are sick and need to be cured so that you don't hurt others!
To challenge, means you are either brave, or crazy!
To thank others, means you thank God for every thing!
To love, means you are still alive!
To cry, means you know how it feels when you really laugh!
To hate, means you are capable of giving out some feelings, but only ugly ones!
To be insane is very understood to me!
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Heart or Pride
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Posted:Sep 18, 2009 6:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2009 1:15 pm 19246 Views
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As I was thinking of some girls with broken hearts, the following question came to my mind:
Is it the heart, or the pride of a woman that she feels was broken after she break up with her husband or bf?
and nevertheless which one she really feels broken, what could be more hurting, breaking a woman heart, or breaking her pride?
in other words, is it really all the same for all women in such a situation feeling the pain, or it differes from someone to another, and what counts more to a woman, her heart or pride?
The relevant qustion is, is it all the same for a married woman being cheated by her husband, and a girl who was cheated by her bf?
I mean would it be different, heart or pride that was broken when it comes a married or unmarried woman, or married ones care more for their prides rather than their hearts?
This blog is meant or expected to be commented on mostly by women, but guys are even welcomed if they have a say about it!
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