Welcome Back Miss Bebong!
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Posted:Aug 10, 2010 5:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 5:37 pm 13795 Views
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The sweetest words, are those haven't been said yet!
The most fruitful trees, are those higher than an easy reach!
Smart women, are those mostly feared to be close to them by all cowards!
Never regret a decision, you thought it was right when you made it! It is not your fault if the "subject" is neither a subject or even an object!
When nature becomes so mad and aggressive, it is not a shame to put our heads a bit down in order to avoid it when it is raining stones, or fire is burning the snow!
Running backwards, is not giving up, but reconstruction when you can't tell heaven from hell!
Bleeding hearts are those which no doubt still beating well!
Welcome back Miss bebong2010, I am glad you updated your handle name as well!  
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Can You Help?!
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Posted:Aug 3, 2010 5:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 5:39 pm 13671 Views
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Lots of thoughts
but
nothing coming out!
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Reasons Why People Look For a Partner Online!
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Posted:Jul 25, 2010 5:20 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2010 7:08 pm 16693 Views
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Before I start this blog, I must say that this is a very theoretical one, and does not necessarily apply on all people searching for their partners online!
To each his reasons! But is it true that we look for a partner online because we did not find the one meeting our qualities and preferences in the neighborhood?
It could be the opposite! There are lots of single and available ones in our regions, but for a reason or another, our chances are very few, either because it cost us financially more than we can afford it, or because we don't compete education and profession wise, or because in our age (supposed the seeker is already older than average) our chances are really limited to have a younger girl who can be every thing in our lives!
But the majority would argue, that because they are fed up with the traditions of their own nations, and because they think they are highly educated, got good financial status and belong to a high class amongst others, they worth looking for someone different! Even if this search takes them beyond the borders of their home countries!
And since the internet has helped people of different races, cultures, languages, regions, colors, backgrounds, believes ...etc! then why not to look for the best, regardless of where that best is located?!
Things can be different though for women!
They have their own reasons, and I wont really go deep into that because it requires a separate blog!
By saying this, I admit that females reasons are different some how from males reason in looking for a partner outside their home countries!
The question remains, would a couple of people really be happy once they hooked to each other regardless of their differences?
If the main motivation was making the similarities in both man and woman match each other, supposing they have high profiles, would that be enough to enable them overcome their differences and be happier than if they were linked by someone of their own nationals?
I personally can not answer this question because I never lived the experience! But I do hope to hear some comments on that, specially from those who experienced it!
So, what is your motivation in looking for a partner from outside your country or nation, if that is the case with any of you?
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Don't Cry!
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Posted:Jul 18, 2010 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2010 6:48 pm 13699 Views
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Those who made you cry
don't worth your tears
or even a single sigh!
those who have bitten your heart
were not worthy
from the very start!
they left you all alone
because they have black blood
and rusty bone!
heaven heard you cry
cried with you every butterfly
don't chew your past
forget the moment
you thought of him last!
wash your soul
free your spirit
gain your heart
above all!
don't feel lonely
don't feel sad
someone there for you only
during the good and the bad!
just open your eyes
and look around
your sky smiling
your moon no more sad
your rainbow shining
your dawn is rising
'cause your happiness never died!
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Spiritual Breakfast During Your Weekend!
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Posted:Jul 16, 2010 5:53 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2010 7:54 am 13789 Views
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There is enough space on the globe for everyone!
So, need to fight! We were born to live, not to be killed!
Our lips were created to smile not to look pale!
Our eyes were created to see the beauty of life not drop tears!
Our hearts were created to love, not to hate!
Our hands were created to give some aid, not to shoot!
Our legs were created to run towards each other, not far from each other!
All we need is some love to give and spread without waiting to receive it back!
All we need to is to think of the starving ones whenever we dine and smell our meals!
Thank God, air is still free, and available for all equally!
Brotherhood of man, is the base for a civilized humanity!
equality is is the target when people intend to limit their ego, and appreciate other rights!
Acceptance of the others, is the big title for all.... no need to change yourself in order to please the others!
we were created differently, and God has his reasons for his creation! HE knows better than us!
So, be happy about your eyes color, whatever they are!
be proud of your skin color, no matter how other see it!!
be thankful to God, because you were created a human being with a precious brain that makes you behave in a civilized way and different from animals!
Be happy you are still alive, and make the best of you now a days, because life is too short!
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Love Is a Square Deal !
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Posted:Jul 12, 2010 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2010 4:53 am 14110 Views
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you may admit it and agree with me, and you may refuse and reject the idea totally, that is up to you, but still, I believe just being in love, feeling love, giving love, is a big square deal!
Some might say no! love is unfair, therefore cant be a square deal, because it is full of hurts and heart's wounds!
and some others, would say, I love just the feeling of being in love, regardless of the outcome of it, because the rest is somehow linked to what our fates hide for us, and we shouldn't blame love for it!
It depends on how u look at it!
sometimes, the different of views about the same thing is related to what angel u use when u look at that thing! so we might see it differently though it is the same thing!
it also has to do with how positive thinkers or negative ones we are! Some of us enjoy the sour taste of life, just to find a reason for cursing life and blaming it for all their failures!
My point is, just being in love, or feeling we love someone, means our hearts are working well and are in the right direction!
Love its self is a power that drive us strongly towards directions that meet up eventually with our trends in life! Besides, I dare say, once you are feeling love, that will eliminate your devil to push u for hate! That simply means, love is situating us in the well order and good state of mind!
If you were in love with someone and u broke with him/her, don't regret, but rather remember the sweet moments of it, and push through to keep going and moving on, till u replace the one u lost keeping the flame of love still burning!
It is all about our ability and capability of the feeling to love! and has nothing to do with the outcome of a certain relationship!
If we lose a lover, it is not enough reason to blame love itself for it, because the beautiful feeling of someone should not be punished for the ugly behaviour of another person!
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What Is The Latest With You?
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Posted:Jul 8, 2010 4:33 am
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2010 2:45 am 26469 Views
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this is a short one for all my friends just to know where u r, how u r, and what have u been up to! please let me know how happy all of you are here regardless of life ups and downs!
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Naked Words...
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Posted:Jul 2, 2010 3:10 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2010 6:55 pm 13597 Views
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The first time you hurt me, my wound was deep.
But I thought it could be accidental!
The Second time you tried to repeat it
I knew it was intentional!
I gave you the flesh,
and took a way your wish!
The next time i saw you,
whether it is you, or not you,
I hardly can tell, or even knew!
At the end..
you won all you wanted to win,
But lost your self!
Can you imagine a woman,
forever resting on a forgotten shelf?!!
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Like My Brain is Blocked!
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Posted:Jun 30, 2010 6:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2010 9:35 am 15782 Views
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I know it is not essential or a must to blog every day! and I even am blogging more than I used to be usually, because i was used to post 3 blogs a month!
this month I did my utmost so that i posted almost everyday!
But for the last 2 days, I was thinking of a good topic to blog about, and kept on squeezing my mind till i felt my brain is totally blocked 
I also know that one shouldn't post as if it was a job that he should be doing otherwise might lose some benefits!
but i must admit it, that FFF is still my first site, and whenever I open my PC the first thing i do, i go to FFF even before checking my mail! 
As if i were expecting something to come .... ! 
But now that am feeling my brain is blocked, i am also experiencing how to blog blah blah blah!
I know jean would laugh at it now!
by the way, where is Jean? she is no more blogging and spending most of her time at chat rooms, specially at the RR
whatever the reason is, i hope u will end up fine jean 
Now, what makes it even worse, the new policy of FFF (is it a policy)? of hiding your post or comment for 4 days then release it Strange! but still i laugh at the situation! and may be will laugh at it till i am banned again 
My goodness!  I am really good at blah blah blogs! thought this blog will be only 2 lines, but look how far it is gone!
So I better wish u all the best my friends, and God bless you all!
PS:
I am very thankful to Marian and Achtung who taught me new drinks names! i wont mention the names though because i will surely be baned for it!
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How Deep Is Your Blog?
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Posted:Jun 24, 2010 8:15 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2010 6:05 pm 16881 Views
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I know that when a blogger start writing, he/she would write about anything under the sun!
But I also know, that when a reader is looking for a blog to read, it makes a different from a reader to another!
there are readers who just wants to laugh!
some others, run a way from long articles, no matter how good material it contains!
many others, girls on particular, look for sad poems talking or describing the feeling of brokenhearted lovers!
some readers, specially those pinays and pinoys who are living abroad, might just look for some news or info about their home country in any blog they read!
I also noticed that some readers don't read all the blog through, yet, they go for commenting on it! may be they read the first and last paragraphs and think they understood the rest of the blog, so they go on commenting, and in that case their comments look so funny because they don't relate to the subject!
but most readers who make lots of comments, are not really concerned with the topic of the blog! and u see that it starts like blah blah conversation through the exchange of comments!
Now, how about bloggers, themselves?!
What is in their mind when they blog?
do they write in a way just to attract readers, and they normalize their blogs to suit the taste of the majority of readers, or they just write what is in their mind, to give the full meaning of their ideas, regardless whether many readers went through it or not?
May be I have to rephrase my question! would you blog just because you want more people to interact with through their comments on your blogs, or you write what u think is right and should be written, regardless of who is going to read and comment on your work?
In other words, do you write to satisfy your readers at any price, or you blog to express your depth, regardless of whoever going to read it or not, comment on it or not?
what made me post this blog, that I often read a blog, then read the comments exchanged on that blog, but they don't relate at all to the contents of it!
I know by blogging, one is not really a professional writer, or looking at blogging as a profession that he/she is living on, but still i strongly think, blogging is one of the human arts that worth reading!
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