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Been Out Of It!
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Posted:Sep 28, 2010 5:14 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 5:26 pm 14038 Views
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hello my friends.
I have been out of blogland for some days!
real life has really taken me from here!
short vacations over weekends also helped me feeling better after a busy Summer!
Now it is time for planning long vacations!
and if u r wondering whether it is gonna be or not, yes! the longest vacation will be in the Philippines! 
and yes! will be meeting with whoever his/her time will allow it out of my many friends all over the philippines!
Manila, Subic, Davao, Baguio, Cebu, and Palawan!
those are the places on top of my plans!
pray for me that nothing will interrupt my vacation plan!
i am really excited for it! 
other than that, all is ok, and thank God, nothing to complain about!
wish u my friends all the best, and God bless you all!
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On Age Matters
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Posted:Sep 21, 2010 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2010 5:17 pm 23382 Views
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I was exchanging comments and views with our remarkable blogger, Sense_of_honey, who recently resumed blogging after some absence!
in my comment, i said that most of the girls i had some sort of relationship with were in their 20s, and may be because i am already 52, but still feel i am 25 years old!
Those who know me better, know how teaser I can be! and that i enjoy lots of fun and jokes in most of my comments!
That whole blog of sense_of_honey, was so much related to the subject, since she said she would settle for an older man if he would be a sugar daddy! 
in her reply to me, Sense_oh_honey wrote something like:
"may be you deserve the kind of because you feel 25. but i bet you will have hard time with other types of matured women who class and know their value"
i smiled as i was reading her comment and at the same time felt that she made it so personal as if she was burnt in a way or another!
but i didn't light the fire!
I only thought that it is not only the woman who decides what is the age of the man she can get!
man himself has his word about it! 
and since it is a "love free" deal, and emotions are not involved or taken into consideration, then it is just a matter of "buying" the doll u want!
and the question remains unanswered, why would women in their 20s considered as women without class and have no values?! 
do people gain the qualities that they might be classified according to only as they go aging? 
and those in their 20s have no values just because they are young?
in case someone would reply to me by saying: "No, they have no values because they accept to have relationships with men their father's ages, just because they (might) be needy and run after those men's money!
then I would argue by saying even Miss sense_of_honey herself declared that she is looking for an older man with 2 conditions; 1. he must be filthy rich, 2. he must be not mean but spend willingly on her and her too!
So, what is the difference between girls in their 20s "who supposed to have no values or class, according to her" and sense_of_honey in her 35 year of age who got values and a class, yet looking for her sugar daddy? 
A lot of material were written about being hooked by some older men just because those girls are poor, or have hard circumstances and seeking a better life style! Some other girls have some family commitments, and they need to earn in order to spend on their younger siblings and parents too!
these young ladies keep seeking possibilities, till they find themselves facing the ugly reality which tells them: choose the less bitterness! either an older husband, or go into !
Life never was easy for some human beings, so don't blame them just because u don't know their circumstances, and may be if u were in their situation, you would worse than what they are doing, just because someone there is waiting for u to give them some hope in life, regardless what is the price you paid for that provided hope!
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FFF Forum
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Posted:Sep 13, 2010 7:35 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2010 2:25 am 17582 Views
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As you see, i am not intending to plant any idea or irrigate any thought about it!
I am leaving it to you, all of you!
Filipino Friend Finder, how it was, what is going with it, and where it is leading us to?
Elaborate the way you want!
Pour your souls with whatever it is carrying with or suffering from, and let's talk about it!
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Current Situation
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Posted:Sep 6, 2010 3:26 am
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2010 8:01 pm 14982 Views
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For more than a week, i did not blog.
just couldn't blog even i wanted it.
and for some days i didn't comment on any blog!
i read very few though!
didn't really react to them!
and i couldn't tell, whether those blogs I read are over the level of my expectation, or they couldn't go lower the level of my expectation of a blog for a bored person! lol
in simple words, I couldn't find myself in any material to post or or any similar to read.
and it is not other bloggers problem of course, because no one blogging to entertain a chronically bored person! lol.
But this is my current situation!
As a matter of fact, i didn't dare to blame Ramadan for it! just didn't want to be the talk of town for those fanatics ones, who are always got their swords ready to shed any opponent blood! lol
It could be the weather! never in my life, seen such a hot Summer in Jordan as this one!
Could be the girls too! lol they lost their magic to inspire a (bored+boring) guy like me!
even their perfume ,is no more a spring or fall smell that fill your lungs and not only nose!
many of them lost their colors too!
filled their bodies with some tattoos to the extent that u never figure it out whether the girl is coming towards you, or just leaving you! all you see is a tattoo!
And it could simply be that "stranger" in me!
looks like he won the battle this time, leaving me with such a strange current situation!
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That Stranger In Me
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Posted:Aug 25, 2010 6:43 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2010 6:08 pm 14434 Views
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things aren't always like the way they look, and colours are not in fact representing the originality of theirs, as they appear to us! But they shine the way our brains oder our eyes to see them!
It is the reflection!
The question remains, is it their natural appear that reflected in our eyes, or is it the reflection on things hidden in the black side of our minds that urge us to be released from time to time, and we just paint its colours on items we think they should carry that colour?!
You may say, what is the difference?
and when you even feel lost searching for that difference, you end up with another question saying, if you know the distance between (that you all others see) and you, (the you, you only know) only then you can understand or at least pretend to be!
then you come to think, "but I made that compromise between me and me ages ago, or at least since i started to realize the difference between the voice and its echo, so why that stranger in me pop up whenever i thought I killed its shadow ages ago?"
It is the complexity nature of human being!
gathering all devils and all angels together and exchanging their rules according to the kind of colours you see that day!
Wildfire never put off!
The angel of the see never ruled over!
The in you still crying!
so many faces!
and one working brain that never stop, never rest, never sleep and never rest his case!
That in you never stopped crying!
and that stranger in you never was killed!
and the difference between you and you is bigger than the difference between hell and heaven!
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So What, If Mr. Obama Is A Muslim?
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Posted:Aug 20, 2010 7:55 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2010 5:44 pm 14039 Views
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a recent survey showed that one out of five people in the States, believes that president Obama of the United States of America, is a Muslim!
And it added, that the Republicans, are using it against him and against the Democrats in the coming Congressional(?) elections!
I was wondering! If I were an American citizen, what would be more important to me to discuss, the president religion, or the vital home issues such as:
- the american budget deficit that is expected to reach 1.47 trillion US$ by the end of this 2010 year!
- the unemployment in the States reaching 10% now a days!
- the largest tax increase in US history, expected end of this year, not as a new law signed by President Obama, but will happen automatically when the George W. Bush tax cut expire towards the end of this year.
more than 1.300 American killed in Afghanistan among more than 2,000 soldiers of all nationalities killed in Afghanistan through war on terrorism! and what the Defense Minister of the States just said last week about leaving Afghanistan before next July!
that is all interior American issues that i admit that i am not really well aware of, since i am not an American citizen or ever lives in the United States, but I just follow the events since it is so obvious that what affects the States now a days, also affects the rest of the world!
There are many global crisis and problems that need urgent solutions like poverty, unemployment, health problem, environment and climate changes which affecting many regions on our globe by either unusual rain like what happened in Pakistan and China, or fires like what happened in Russia, Canada and Portugal.
in Conclusion, I am trying to say that there are so many vital world problems that is threatening lives of millions of innocent people and more important issues than just discussing the belief of this president or the love story of that king. Those world leaders are still human beings like any of us, and the have the freedom to have their private life and personal beliefs as individuals equally to any of us!
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Hiring Friends!
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Posted:Aug 18, 2010 5:45 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2010 9:12 am 14334 Views
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Have you heard of that agency in England, which has a site over the net, and specialized in providing you with friends upon demand for approx. 10 $ per hour?
yes. it is not a joke, it is true!
Those of you who don't have friends, can now hire a friend!
While I was listening to th BBC program about this British agency and those who hire friends, I laughed at the idea! felt sad after a little while, but even terrified by the idea at the end!
I read in the past that one of the definition for a human being, that he is "a social creature"!
meaning, we, human beings differ from other creatures by being sociable and live in groups of which have the same history, language, belief, race, color, habits and even life style!
outside this community, it is defined as an outsider, if you insist on being on your own!
It is just against the nature of human beings to be alone, and/or lonely to the extent that you pay money per hour in order to rent a friend!
came to my mind, that in case such people exist, they must be not really normal people, and they form a "sick" cases!
but it made me re-realize, what I used to tell my friends, that even i am not that rich "financially" but i am super "rich" by the number of friends I have, here, there, and everywhere!
I don't remember traveling to any foreign country without having some body there to call and say hello, or meet over a coffee or even a dinner, or sometimes tour that country together!
And I felt really blissed and blessed for that huge number of friends I have!
Even those friends I have on the internet, whom I meet whenever I am online and never met them in person, are still considered an essential part of my real community!
I feel for them, i care about them, I ask frequently about how they are, and I do miss them when i don't hear from them for long!
What is happening to our human community?
did we really reach the stage of so damaged spirited humanity, that we need to hire friends, exactly like when someone looks for a for a short time, just to evacuate his load?!
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Making Love In Ramadan!
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Posted:Aug 14, 2010 8:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 6:24 pm 14744 Views
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Since it is Ramadan now, let us talk about it!
Many people think fasting Muslims are not allowed to eat or drink during the day time (from dawn to sunset) in Ramadan. But there is much more than just eating!!
Making love is forbidden during the time of fasting!
meaning those hours you are not eating or drinking, you also forbidden to make love, even to your own wife!
but once it is sunset time, u can make love the way u want, even the whole night till dawn time! before dawn prayers, if u were still awake after making love, you should start with bathing, means washing all your body, and never go back to touch your woman until it is night again.
if u just fell asleep after making love and u got up the next morning, it doesn't mean u cant fast because u didn't bath before dawn time, but you can immediately go and bath, pray for your dawn prayers, and keep fasting!
Fasting is not meant to be a method of making people starve, but it is to exercise the capability of a human being to ban him/herself from what he/she desires in some situations!
it is more spiritual exercise than it is a physical behaviour!
in our region now a days, fasting is 15 hours a day at a temperature of at least 36 degrees C.
So, it really requires a lot of courage and a strong will in order to do it!
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Changing The Principal Of FFF
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Posted:Aug 12, 2010 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2010 6:06 pm 15749 Views
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FilipinoFriendFinder is known as a dating site! At least that is how we knew it when we joined this site and became members! The concept its self is wrong.
The question is, does this site has a wrong concept or did we understand it in a wrong way?
people tend to date when they know each other!
But we are all strangers on this site, or at least that is how we start when we become members at the very beginning!
So, how can strangers date each other when all they know about each other, is just a fake handle, and a stolen photo for many of the site's members?
the worst of all, when we start talking of love! and not only talking about it, but letting our naive brains cheat our hearts and pretend that we fall in love with this girl or that guy, whom we never met yet and we don't even know whether he/she is what he/she claims to be, or a totally different creature!
And thus, most of love stories die sooner or later no matter how much we try to keep them alive!
No wonder then, to see those girls left with broken hearts, blaming those stranger guys to be the reason for breaking their hearts!
Who is the victim, and who is the guilty one then?
neither the guys nor the girls are responsible for the failure of those love stories, but the "concept" itself!
This site is good only for strangers to meet on line!
No more no less than that!
If any of them met someone that they thought is a good person as he/she would pretend, then the next essential step is to meet in person!
meeting in person means meeting in flesh!
neither on phone nor on web cams!
Those who fear meeting in flesh, are those who were not really honest when posting their personal info about themselves on their profiles!
And those guys who won't make the effort to meet you in person, will not make the effort to care for you and make u feel secure in the future!
So many facts can be added on this issue, but i know most of you hate long blogs and even make their comments without reading the whole text of the blog!
So i will stop here leaving the rest for you to elaborate on!
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