The closer, and closer, and closer we get to the big date, the more and more, its seems that this day will overwhelm me. I have a wedding in two days, and we have to make sure we take care of all the details. Wow, I will be so happy when this is all over . Until the next time, take care and God bless, your friend Biggs
Many of you don't know, but I am a very very very huge Yankee's fan! Which is, without a doubt, the tuft est fan that there is in the world. No matter how much the yankees win, others will always say, its only because you paid for your wins with such a large pay roll what!!! Three years ago when the red sucks won the world series, their pay roll was nearly the same as the yankees and no one even mentioned payroll? Farther more, the yankees have not won it all in over 7 years now. We don't have the best pitchers that money can buy, and there are several players in several positions that we would trade for in a heart beat!!! but the yankees are winning despite all the problems we have that money can not fix. it may seem hard to believe but players have to make that is the end of the story. So at the end of the day, it doesn't matter weather your payroll is 200 million or 2 million, it only matters how you field, hit, and pitch. Right now, the Yankees are better than their opponents and we are loving it I say Go Yankees go!!!! thanks for reading and take care and God bless, your friend, Biggs
So I haven't been on fff, as often lately, and I haven't chatted in God knows when, but that is mostly because I have been working longer hours and I have a fiancee and we argue over fff and why I like coming to this site. I met my fiancee the old fashioned way, I was stationed there Anyway, I joined fff, before we ever even started dating and I have some very good friends from this site. I was concerned that because I am getting married, does that mean I can't talk to my friends here on fff or does that mean it is wrong for me to want to chat with the few friends that are on here. I don't know how any of you feel, but I know that this is suppose to be a hook up site for singles, but it can also be a place where you can have fun and chat and make friends for life. I wish you all the luck in the world if you are truely looking for your life partner. But I believe that it is ok also to visit this site for a blog, or chatting with friends and that kinda stuff, so if I convince my fiancee of he same then I will see you all around, holla =) Take care and God Bless you all, Biggs
Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with having a preference. this is not what I am suggesting. The problem comes from discriminating based on something as unsubstancial as the color of skin. Now I am half black and half Dominicano. Unfortunately there are not a lot of Half black and half Dominicano's in the area that I live in. So I had to choose to either hang with one group(latino's) or the another group. I made the choice based on the things that I like. Music, dance, food, culture, etc... So when I decided between the people that I would hang with, not once was the fact that they were black or white or asian or latino, but based on our simular interest. As fate would have it, my very best friend in this world out side of my family is columbian. My other very good friends are mostly dominicano and puerto rican. But I have white friends, black friends, asian friends, european friends. There is nothing wrong with having a preference but it is completely wrong to use the color of someone's skin to judge them by wheather you want to show them love or hate based on that. Everyone that says I don't care about color, is crazy. everywhere you go you will notice that people are of different shades. So it is color that you see of everyone, that matters. How you treat that person should matter more. I don't look latino but all of my best friends are. Once we all went to a latino club, and we met some guys there that wanted to go to another spot to party. One of the guys there said he knew some girls, he look at gaviriamejia, my columbian best friend and said, your columbian right(based on physical apperance) G said yes, he said oh I know this hot columbian girl. Then he look at calderon, and said I have this hot puerto rican girl. Then he looks at me and he says, I know this beautiful "Black" girl. I respond is that because you don't know any Dominicanas or because I look black? The point is we make choices based on how we view others. So lets just make sure its not a choice that affects our over all lives. such as "I want a white husband". Try instead to just look for the person that God has for you and if they are white then, you won't have to worry about just looking in that one area, thanks and God bless, your friend, Biggs
Before I start, I should say that I have a lot of friends that are white, asian, hispanic/latino, black, native american, and other races too. This is not an oppinion that is easy to understand for some, but unfortunately it is oh so true. Now, I was recently reading some literature on the history of the Dominican Republic. I pride myself on being Dominicano, even if I am very often refered to as being black by some people who don't know me and because I actually look like the average black guy . I don't have a problem with that, especially since my mother is black, and I was raised by my mother after she and my father split. Anyway, having learned of my heritage at a very early age, I have always wanted to know more about the Dominican Republic. I also visited the philippines on a few occasions, when I was in the Marines and as a civilian, when I was corting the woman I married. I also have been to the Dominican Republic, lived in japan, visited several places all around the world. I was a history major in college and I have always been excited to learn histories of various places including Quisqueya and also some history of my wife's land(the philippines). I was reading about the history of the Dominican Republic during the ww11. The then leader of the D R proudly allowed refugee's from the countries trying to excape persecution from nazi germany into the Dominican Republic because he said he wanted to, "Whiten up the country." This line greatly disturbed me, even though, I was at the same time proud that my country was very active in helping save lives during the world war. I was wondering why does the whole seem to love white? In an effort to make this post not as long I will just provide the evidence here and continue the discussion in a later post. I have gone to several different countries and every country I have visited it is an insult to refer to someone as either pale or very dark. But I see young japaneese in love with "European men". I have been to various different dating sites, and two to one profiles read "caucasian boyfriend wanted". Even now, on this very site, the vast majority of you will never visit or even read this blog because you will see my pic and say, "next" because your looking for the white profiles. If you don't agree that the world loves white, then I think you are being very naive, and maybe its time to think differently. I hope that someday we will be able to judge each other, not by the color of our skin or even by our nationalities or race(even though Dominicano's Rule ) but by the charater of our personality and our hearts! More next time, thanks for reading, and if you want to, respond, convince me that I am wrong? take care and God bless and keep you all, your friend Biggs
I have a fiancee/wife that has an account here now but it seems that even though she has stated that she would only like to make new friends on this site, see keeps getting these explicit advances from men old enough to be her grand father. I can't say for sure, but it seems that none of these men read her profile at all, or none at least look at the pics(one of the two of us together on her profile). So may be there is just something wrong with me and I should not think it is that bad when an 80 year old guy says he wants to "get to know" my 25 year old wife? unfortunately to me that is sick, but that why they have blogs, so that we sick folks can get concil or advice, thanks for reading and God bless all of you, take care yours Biggs
Hello, everyone, I finally am in love now! Purple, my best friend here hope to keep in touch but see you later, lovecutepinay4u, miss ya much but hope to you will understand, all of my good friends here, ravien, sulie, rat, Trisianquei, deadstars, lovelypinay, jasmine, babycjlyn, all of the wonderful friends that I have made on this site and all of the beautiful people who I know I will forget someone, just charge my head and not my heart, jdeere, wow, umm, I can't think right now My friend from boston that was suppose to be coming to orlando for christmas but I can't remember your handle, thanks love you all and God bless and keep you all , but it is for all my friends and flirts that I never got the chance to know better, I got back in touch with the first love of my life and now we are working on getting married, thanks for all the laughs and hugs and Purple thanks for all the advice and for being the most Beautiful friend I have ever known, take care all of you here on fff, and God bless and keep you all, see you in the funnies oh, I almost forgot, lukbak, the beautiful mitch, love you like a sister and wish we could have been more . . . . Lastly but certainly not least Skaty5katkat my inspiration for being who I am today, the most beautiful, sexy, amazing woman that I never met, I hope you and I will remain friends and someday I can introduce you to the lady that stole my heart as we finally meet, still bless you and God keep you always, your the best!!!! miss you so much, anyway, I am gone, take care all and God bless you and keep you all, I hope your not mad at me if I didn't mention you so I am going to try to remember some names like Rhonda and Venice and so many more and list them at the bottom, take care and God bless love you all your friend always, Bigs
there are times we argue we fight and make up we walk away out of anger times we don't even hug
there are days we are so tired from work, from stress, from life when all we can do is lay down and cuddle as husban and wife
there are moments in our lifetimes when nothing seems to go right when every thing is wrong but the darkest hour leads to light
there are so many negatives that push on us each day i want you to alwaysknow the things I don't always say
even in the worse times when all goes astray i want you to always know i wouldn't give a moment of them away
just to be near you and know that you are mine i want you to always know I love you for all time
i want you to always know even if I don't show and whenever and whever you go love is never having to say no but only felling each others glow and as long as i live, my love will grow iwant you to always know take care and God bless Biggs
Early this morning I got up and went outside. I looked at the sky and there were the most beautiful clouds and there was a slight breeze and it was just before sunrise. Yesterday, when I looked at the sky, it was clear and just this remarkable shade of blue. Not a cloud in the sky. Some would say it was a perfect sky, but I prefer the dark black heavy clouds and then when the sun comes through you see such amazing colors. it was better than any painting I have ever seen, and so beautiful and calming and just made me think
Day after day, night after night, God does so many amazing things for us and we never even stop to appreciate them. This was something that I may never see again cause who knows how long we have, tomorrow is not promised, but this one time I got to see this wonderful and beautiful and incredible sky. Wow, what a wonderful world. What a mighty God we serve!! Take care and God bless, thanks for reading, your friend Biggs nos vemos
. Until the next time, take care and God bless, your friend 
what!!!
but the yankees are winning despite all the problems we have that money can not fix. it may seem hard to believe but players have to make that is the end of the story. So at the end of the day, it doesn't matter weather your payroll is 200 million or 2 million, it only matters how you field, hit, and pitch.
I say Go Yankees go!!!! thanks for reading and take care and God bless, your friend, 
Anyway, I joined fff, before we ever even started dating and I have some very good friends from this site. I was concerned that because I am getting married, does that mean I can't talk to my friends here on fff or does that mean it is wrong for me to want to chat with the few friends that are on here. I don't know how any of you feel, but I know that this is suppose to be a hook up site for singles, but it can also be a place where you can have fun and chat and make friends for life.
) but by the charater of our personality and our hearts!
