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a FRIEND'S story  

8/15/2008 6:33 am

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9/16/2008 12:01 am

This is a story of a friend...this friend asked me to write it...so, here it goes....actually i wrote this for the magazine wherein I am one of the correspondents/contributor...but it was not published..i just want to share their story to you...

A Story and Judge me…..

This is a story of a friend and would like to share with you.

Who we are to judge a person? We are all here to understand each situation without discrimination. Without being judgmental as long as a person doesn’t step on other toes.

It was all started during their high school days. Both of them are in 3rd year then and classmates. They are in the same group of friends, enjoyed each other’s company, laughed at each other’s jokes.

One time while in a friend’s house, something out of the blue happened. A surprise that never occur to them. They felt something inside but afraid to let it out. They both are lying on the bed waiting for sleep to take over. Suddenly a feeling bursts out and they just found out that they are kissing each other. It was the first kiss and nobody speaks about it. No one among them dare to ask why it happened. Maybe then, they really don’t understand the meaning of the word LOVE and feelings. The friendship remain till the end of school year.

While on their 4th year. They separate for they are not classmates anymore. A simple hi and hello if they see each other, without any words again about the kiss. But, anonymously letters has been sent changing the style of handwriting. Graduation day arrives. In a small dark room congratulating each other, again it happened, it was the second kiss and after that they bid each other goodbye not looking back. Surprised and ashamed.

From then on, both of them have a few relationships. Some of them lasted and some are not but deep inside there’s a feeling that nobody could possibly explain and understand. There are times that they visited each other just for the sake of friendship or maybe they just want to know how the other is coping with life.

Days and years have passed. One of them just recently had ended a relationship that lasted for almost about 7 years. Holy week arrive and friends decided to invite old friends to join them in what you called “BISITA IGLESIA”. That’s the time wherein they had the chance to really talk it over. They slept together but they want to keep as a secret for they don’t want to hurt anybody especially their own family who trusted them. The family who thought that they are just the best of friends

That is the beginning of a beautiful relationship. Fate and destiny really bring them together, whatever odds and obstacles comes their way. I, for one, as the writer of these story is a witness of their ardent love and passion for each other. The one who stays here in Saipan while the other one is in the Philippines. They keep the communication open through texting, chat and phone calls. No hindrance can take away the love they have for each other not even oceans and miles away.

I know that people will judge them because their relationship is not that easy to understand. Loving and the feeling of being in love and loved. Relationship that sometimes people condemn…but as I say , who are we to judge them? It is love that brings them together. Relationship with same sex, whoever stand as man or a woman on this kind of relationship doesn’t really matter. It is their choice. Maybe, it is their fate and destiny. Who knows???????
bellezia
7104 posts 

8/15/2008 7:39 pm

thanks for sharing... a blessed weekend to you

smile and be happy always

eb1209
12136 posts

8/15/2008 10:05 pm

Shine, people always love to judge based on their standards and ways in life...Let them!...Just go about your life and make the most out of it...God bless!

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/16/2008 12:56 am

    Quoting bellezia:
    thanks for sharing... a blessed weekend to you
thanks for reading too....

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/16/2008 1:00 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Shine, people always love to judge based on their standards and ways in life...Let them!...Just go about your life and make the most out of it...God bless!
that's what i told my friend...don't let other people put her down because of her relationship.....as long as she is happy then just continue it....

sabi ko pa, hindi kayang bayaran ng pera ang kaligayahan ng isang tao....

thanks again sistah!

bebong2005
9764 posts 

8/16/2008 2:41 pm

i read the story twice and can't see nothing wrong with the relationship for others to condemned them (aside from the...) either my eyes are deceiving me or my brain is not functioning the way it supposed to be (it's kind of late in my part of the world)

~ Jolielaide

Trisianmay
5868 posts 

8/17/2008 5:43 am

beautiful story,,,but one question left in my mind,,,if they feel something special to each other why they didn't give it a try to grow? afraid???,,, that friendship may turn to worst,,,i wonder why,,,,

Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/18/2008 2:02 am

    Quoting bebong2005:
    i read the story twice and can't see nothing wrong with the relationship for others to condemned them (aside from the...) either my eyes are deceiving me or my brain is not functioning the way it supposed to be (it's kind of late in my part of the world)
hahaah...it is a realtionship between two woman...,,,she's a friend who trusted me and told me about her story....so, i decided to write it down...and she was so happy about that...

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/18/2008 2:06 am

    Quoting Trisianmay:
    beautiful story,,,but one question left in my mind,,,if they feel something special to each other why they didn't give it a try to grow? afraid???,,, that friendship may turn to worst,,,i wonder why,,,,
sistah...now, they have relationships.....and being far away from each orher makes them sad...but the feelings and relationship is still strong...

Trisianmay
5868 posts 

8/18/2008 8:01 am

so nice to hear that shine,,,
and hoping that their LOve will last forver,,,
always ingatzzzGBU

Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.

PazawayQueen
591 posts 

8/18/2008 2:16 pm

Sistahluv ang haba ng story.. pero read ko lahat ah!!!

PazawayQueen
591 posts 

8/18/2008 2:17 pm

hindi natin alam kung ano ang mangyayari, pero malay mo sila pa ang mag katuluyan

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/19/2008 4:15 am

    Quoting Trisianmay:
    so nice to hear that shine,,,
    and hoping that their LOve will last forver,,,
    always ingatzzzGBU
yes, i am hoping that will happen to them because i do witness how much they love and need each other....

thanks again mah sistah for dropping by

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/19/2008 9:36 pm

    Quoting PazawayQueen:
    Sistahluv ang haba ng story.. pero read ko lahat ah!!!
salamat mah sisthaluv....

appreciate ko pag-visit at pag comment mo dito sa blog ko....

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/19/2008 9:38 pm

    Quoting PazawayQueen:
    hindi natin alam kung ano ang mangyayari, pero malay mo sila pa ang mag katuluyan
yes nga mah sistahluv...di natin talaga alam kung ano ang nakatakda...let's just wait and see...

mhayonaise
1183 posts 

8/23/2008 11:16 pm

shine..i dont see anything wrong about being inluv with the same sex..i have friends who have the same story and they're happy up to now so far..as long us there is true love keep it!

looking for bread

sunshine8
6251 posts 

8/24/2008 2:17 am

    Quoting mhayonaise:
    shine..i dont see anything wrong about being inluv with the same sex..i have friends who have the same story and they're happy up to now so far..as long us there is true love keep it!
yes, mah sistah..but for some ...theya re condemning that kind of relationship...thanks that you do understand them the way i do...

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