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Bizzysback 56F
1287 posts
6/30/2017 10:40 pm
Where is that love now?

I posted something about a new found love previously and recently someone asked me about it. I just got back and was shocked to see what had happened to it.

We all know that love needs attention in order for it to grow, develop and stay longer if not forever. In this world there are many opportunists, there are many waiting for you to leave and they will take advantage of what you have worked hard for. Take for example this soil that I prepared for my planned garden. I turned my back for several weeks, ignored it and what happened? Lo and behold , healthy weeds all over. As if they were laughing and mocking me telling me I lost my love to them. Should I give up? No way!

Same thing with people we love. We have to give constant attention, regular communication and some pampering. Not too much, too much of anything can be a poison. Like too much sun, too much water and too much fertilizer can kill our plants. Don’t leave love without communication, attention and some pampering. Without these, love can wither like a plant. There are so many temptations around, like there are many opportunistic weeds in a garden. But unlike plants humans have morals and control over temptations. Unfortunately not everyone are the same, some give in to temptation easily. If you have done everything and still not making any progress then it’s time to move on and find another love. If you really love someone, persevere, be consistent, communicate, give attention and see it prosper.

I’m giving myself another chance for this love to develop further. The difference is, if I give up on this no one will have hurt feelings. I have tried and enjoyed the experience. I do not expect or hope much from it hence I do not give much attention to it. Maybe because it’s not my one true love?

How do you show your love?



“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 56F
848 posts
7/1/2017 12:00 am

Watch out for that love, keep it alive.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


tinker_viel 49F
2002 posts
7/1/2017 10:53 am

yeah i tried thgat love before. planted some veggies with my son they did grow but then i forgot about them after a while and they just wilted

i have always wanted to plan but i guess it is not the time yet everything comes in god's own good time

It is only with the heart that one sees clearly.....
What is essential is invisible to the eye


bingmo24 56M
20 posts
7/1/2017 10:49 pm

That love is here!!! however why check other love ? just i provided big lemusine here for us long love !!!! .let see my profile pic now, haha (ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ)


Bizzysback 56F
848 posts
7/2/2017 12:16 am

    Quoting bingmo24:
    That love is here!!! however why check other love ? just i provided big lemusine here for us long love !!!! .let see my profile pic now, haha (ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ)
Thank you for the love but that love I can not use in my garden.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 56F
848 posts
7/2/2017 12:17 am

    Quoting tinker_viel:
    yeah i tried thgat love before. planted some veggies with my son they did grow but then i forgot about them after a while and they just wilted

    i have always wanted to plan but i guess it is not the time yet everything comes in god's own good time
Love is so demanding , lol

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


ccdomonic 66M
112 posts
7/2/2017 9:18 am

sometimes things just wilt no matter how much love you share accept that its just the way things are and move on
cheers cc


fantasiamore 65F
10796 posts
7/3/2017 8:52 am

like a child who needs tending to grow up good and well, so does love with the care and attention one puts in...prospering and getting a notch higher if done slowly and step by step..remember haste makes waste...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


Bizzysback 56F
848 posts
7/3/2017 8:11 pm

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    sometimes things just wilt no matter how much love you share accept that its just the way things are and move on
    cheers cc
Yes that is true but my point is different , if ignored it will be taken advantaged of by others.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 56F
848 posts
7/3/2017 8:15 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    like a child who needs tending to grow up good and well, so does love with the care and attention one puts in...prospering and getting a notch higher if done slowly and step by step..remember haste makes waste...
yes persistent vigilance .

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


eb1209 56F
28052 posts
7/4/2017 1:49 pm

I also re-learned to LOVE gardening, no matter how small the space is, and I am happy that flowers are blooming now..

Just call me ELZ


Bizzysback 56F
848 posts
7/5/2017 7:06 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    I also re-learned to LOVE gardening, no matter how small the space is, and I am happy that flowers are blooming now..
For now I just love gardens but not the gardening, it's quite demanding , I'm content with few pot plants or water plants.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”