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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
10/23/2014 12:41 pm
Trust


There are so many quotes said about trust and there are so many definitions of it too. In relation to relationship I like the definition: "complete confidence in a person or plan" and "allow without a fear". I have written somewhere that the heart or the feelings of the people we love should be cared for like a very delicate, precious glass crystal that you hate it to get even a very tiny scratch and if this heart is scratched or broken our hears will be broken too. This delicate crystal is where we put our trust in, they go together, the love and the trust.

Lies are the biggest threat to this love and trust, like stones or rocks to the delicate crystal vase and water. There are little lies and there are big lies, like there are tiny pebbles and big rocks. Little lies may do no harm but big lies will surely damage a relationship. Little pebbles may not cause any scratch but big rocks thrown into it will cause the glass to shatter into pieces. Trust like a glass once broken even if glued meticulously together it will never be the same.

Like lies there may be little trust or full trust and little trust build over time will develop into full trust. Little lies may seem harmless but constant little lies will sure cause big damage and break in trust. My belief is that if you can't trust someone with little things why will you trust them with big things.

To quote: "Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair."

What is your definition and fave quotation on trust?


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


elizabethvivian2 49F

10/23/2014 4:06 pm

Trust works both ways. People lie to us because they cannot trust that we will see them the same way if we knew the truth. No one is perfect though, and in one way or another, we will all make mistakes. Point is the key to mutual trust is to constantly re-affirm each other that no matter what flaws we may have, no matter how many mistakes we make, we will always love (maybe not like, but definitely love) each other the same way. But then again, how am I to know.. my relationships always end in "epic fail".. lol.

“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” ~ Ernest Hemingway


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
10/25/2014 3:51 am

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