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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
9/9/2014 9:57 am
I am old fashioned?


I met this guy last week and we agreed to get to know each other. He has expressed his romantic interest in me. I have some hesitation about his personality because of what he told me. He is 50 , retired or in other word jobless, living with his mum, divorced for 2 years. He doesn't have the manner that I am looking for in a man if I may say. The second day we were chatting he started calling me princess he said because he wanted to treat me like one. Then he started calling me me babes. Initially I thought okay I will try and see what happens next then he started saying mwahh and xx which means kisses the following days.

I was not impressed, I felt it was distasteful or disrespectful. I felt he is being fresh with me. Well if he really wanted to know me then he should know how I feel so I told him. He was upset and he told me I made him sad because I call him fresh and he was just being nice to me. He said I was the first woman who ever said that to him and he was just friendly. He said I have a shifty mind then he said goodbye. Thank you Lord!

He is childish, he is a boy not a man. Right? Is that appropriate to say mwahh and call someone babes or princess when you are not in a relationship or am I really old fashioned like he say? If I allow him to continue saying that doesn't that mean that I am allowing him to be intimate with me even though we are not in a relationship? Did I over react?

This is the funny part and proved to me that he is a boy, a mama's boy in fact. Remember he is 50, he told his 70 year old mother about what I said and his mother said I have loose screws. made me laugh.

Here I quote:
"you should stay home and hold your fathers hand its 2014 not 1940 l showed this to mum and she said that you have a loose screw in your head your should learn to respect people like l have respected you or maybe your x husband used you as a door mat and you dont know what love is. ..."

I tell you I am not old fashioned, I am proper with a naughty streak sometimes.


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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/9/2014 4:14 pm

    Quoting  :

Tinkah yes NEXT No one will chat with me here now cause they know I blog about them . Hey this guy is not from fff.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/9/2014 9:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Ta Jane you know we are following on that kiwi guy and Im hoping we will eb again in Aussie land. They can let go of their decency but I will not go down to their level.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/9/2014 9:23 pm

    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    Dont be just so gullible Bizzyback..you always get into troubles.
    This chat room is always virtual. one can be someone ,he could be the owner of the South China Sea..i tell you..
Jorg I don't call them troubles and I don't believe them that's why they try to give me trouble.I call them funny encounter with funny or weirdo guys.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/9/2014 9:27 pm

    Quoting freddiepearl:
    bizz u know i will always talk to u. 99% of females here should have ur wisdom , personality , humor an honesty. you have been the only one here i can count on the be a freind no matter waht. i want to meet the guy u pick. ill make sure if he dont treat u right an love u. ill fly their an give him an old fashion south alabama azz whooping. nothing worse than an old rednecks azz whooping
Sounds good to me. I will let you know if and when ever that time happens for sure.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/9/2014 9:28 pm

    Quoting san_miguel911:
    mmm*... I could court you and leave you to blog about that experience!
You can blog about that yourself

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/9/2014 9:35 pm

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    Sounds good to me. I will let you know if and when ever that time happens for sure.
Do not bring guns, no guns allowed.

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zb1020 66F
102 posts
9/10/2014 4:51 am

Old fashion???

we're oldie alright but, with good fashion sense!!!.


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/10/2014 2:51 pm

    Quoting zb1020:
    Old fashion???

    we're oldie alright but, with good fashion sense!!!.
Yes exactly ZB.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”